If someone tells you that your potential is great, you are not shit now.

The title of this question is what my undergraduate thesis supervisor said when I first met with us: "If someone tells you, you have great potential now. Please don't regard it as an honor, let alone regard it as a capital that can be complacent. This is an insult, but it is a kind of awkwardness. Because this shows that you are not shit now."

Many people will envy other people, me too. However, due to self-respect, I will not be so embarrassed to install myself, but also express myself as a cow X, and say some good reasons. If not how, how can I do it. If you say more, you will believe it. I often brag with my friends and said: "Call me now no one, no money, no work. Otherwise, with my intelligence, I can do big things and start a company." I listened to some of my ideas. After that, my friends also believed it. I feel that I will be a personal thing in the future. Before I heard these words, I was very proud and felt that I would be very good in the future. Have money and have the time to do what you like to do.

But what about the facts?

When I am at the mouth of the cafe and how proud others are to express their ideals,

In order to fulfill my wish as a writer, my friend Xiaoyun has slammed the word for 2 years at home, completed a 100,000-word novel, and published it on a well-known novel website.

When I was bored at home with a microblog and sharing a circle of friends,

My classmate Sancha has already quit his job. I have been alone in Southeast Asia and I don’t know where I have been in Africa for 2 months. So far, there are no signs of coming back.

When I quit my job and complained at home,

My sister-in-law, Miss Cat, has followed her boss to develop northward and needs to stay in Beijing for one year.

When I am still hesitating for the future ideals, when I report to the class to learn something,

My buddies said that there was a big brother who we all know together. In order to open a cafe, I have been working in Costa for a year, and I am now preparing my own store.

......

I admit, although I said, if I don't have time, if I don't have money, if the company is not well treated, I can do it. But my heart is very clear, even if I have time, even if I have money, even if the company is well treated, I still do nothing, watching other people struggle hard.

Many times, not I don't want to, nor can I not. But just don't do it, prefer to lie in bed and sit in a chair. Then think about why you can't be like them. Thinking about it, I fell asleep. I should have said a word that I often said: I thought I had it.

Even so, every time I meet, there are still many people who say to me that you have great potential and good ideas. I am optimistic about you.

Now for me, I can't hear anything other than satirical sarcasm. At the same time, it is also very regrettable. Is it really powerless? Still not thinking clearly about yourself? Or is it a fear of uncertainty in the future?

Or, holding such a guilt has always lived in remorse?

Either, it is time to think hard, start accepting such a status quo, and then start from a small thing that can be done little by little, and lay a solid foundation for realizing the ideal in the future.

Remember, you can now shit not! But to be your own hero in the future!