Your life, you are happy

In the past few days, I saw a lot of people in the circle of friends brushing an article. The general content is that the author has several friends, and the life he likes is stable, such as in a military, a central enterprise, and a certain company. . Of course, the smooth progress, as we have always seen, the opposite of the title, all have a bad ending. For example, the work was lost, the wife ran, and the lover broke up. The author, as a freelancer who earns a few tens of thousands of dollars today, is squandering this life in the righteousness, and tirelessly tells everyone that this state of affairs and people who are pursuing "stability" are all sullen, no Dream, I don’t know how to be enterprising. Of course, don't forget that the chicken soup style is inspiring everyone, you must continue to cheer for the nightmare! Don't be confused by the so-called stability! Keep on making progress!

When I graduated from college last year, probably because we were in the management school, so many students around us went to the bank. Some people chose to test civil servants. Of course, they did small white-collar workers, entrepreneurs, going abroad, and the postgraduate party. , all kinds of. Everyone's family situation is different, so they made a choice that best met their actual needs.

Some people always have one or two dreams to do a big business. They want to get promoted and raise their salary. When they become CEOs, they win Bai Fumei and become the next Ma Yun. However, there are also some people, the expectation of this life is a calm and stable life, a family with beautiful and beautiful, stable work, support for parents, watching children grow up, ordinary and simple.

Who can say that the first one is worthy of admiration, even if it seems that there is no plan to be foolish and still high. And the second, because it is ordinary, can be ridiculed? You can't force a poor family to give up a stable job and chase the so-called erratic dreams. Just like when you think that you are running, you are running, but others just want to walk slowly and look at the scenery along the way. You can feel that this can be called not working hard?

I have never denied the meaning of hard work, and I never wanted to question life as a continuous process.

However, I am resentful, take my life's dreams, and regard my pursuit as the only correct pursuit, and then look down on all the people who are different from myself.

Others can think that this is not the life he wants, but he has no right to blame it for being a waste of life.

I used to like a word, called a girl to go to heaven, and a bad girl to go around.

I have a friend who got married very early, and I am very happy to see the children grow up every day. There are also a few friends who are going to consider marriage after the age of 30, and now they are taking advantage of a hard work. In the eyes of Sangu and Liupo, perhaps the one who got married early is the winner of life. No matter how much money you earned, there is only one evaluation of “not a boyfriend”. In the eyes of working partners, or one thing in reverse. But the most important thing is that they are all very satisfied with their status.

If you want to start a business, you will do what you want, and if you want to be a family, you will come up with your own love.

The hardest thing for people is not to be good, but to meet everyone.

There are always people who are used to being high and high. They are used to being alone, but they forget themselves. They are not qualified to point to anyone's life.

When working, I often work overtime. Someone asked me why you are not writing at home.

Because of the work, I feel very peace of mind. Looking at my own efforts, gathering sand into a tower, and then every month wages into the bag, satisfied. If you want to buy something, it is a very satisfying thing for me to figure out that it is completely within the spending power. And writing such things is more of an interest. Although the "writer" sounds a bit taller than the "little white-collar", it is not what I want. What I am thinking about is only a stable income, so that I can see what I like to have the confidence to buy, instead of when the bill is paid, when it is written, it can be unscrupulous when I write the text. Worry about what this editor doesn't like.

This is the life I want. There are no literary dreams of ambition, but I like them very much.

Some people are always complaining that they feel that their life is not turbulent, but sometimes it is not the fault of life itself, but they simply do not think what they are pursuing. Everything is wanted, but every one can't get it. It’s a shameful thing to say that it’s best for a company to give yourself a generous salary every month, but you don’t have to go to work every day to let yourself go to the world so much. It’s a gentle wife at home, and outside. There is a red-faced wave of the world, it is the name and the interest of Lido do not want to lose, it is responsibility and tired one does not want.

Such people, today, are voicing "so-called stability" and will hate "so-called dreams" tomorrow.

The maturity of a person is to know what they want and to fight for it. At the same time, it is to respect the pursuit of others, even if it is different from oneself, will be willing to understand.