You think that you are very strong, in fact, the circle is too weak!

Let you be weaker than you, smaller than you, people who are lower than you can not praise the skill, let you be stronger than you, longer than you, people who are taller than you are praised as heroes. Outstanding in its own scope is not outstanding, and true excellence is often beyond its inherent scope and level. In Guo Degang’s words, “It’s not that you have more skills, mainly against your peers.”

A high-funded handsome told me that he recently had a lot of beautiful women's spare tires, and some even married women, usually always ask her to come out to eat, drink, and so on. He thinks his charm is great. I am curious to ask: "Are you the most handsome and handsome in these beautiful women's circles?" He said: "I don't know, of course, I don't." I asked again: "Where are you from a good woman?" He said: No, it's all watery poppies."

I said, "The question is very clear. It's not that you are very attractive. It's just that you are worthless." He didn't understand. I added: "A good girl ignores you, a bunch of green tea contacts you. You think you are popular, in fact you are just worthless. Anyone who picks up what they think is worthless is free to play. You should not be complacent, but Rethinking why you have gathered so many people around you, and why the monks dare to tease you." He was indifferent and blackened several people.

A younger sister told me that she couldn't compare with her. She didn't have the motivation to move forward. She felt that she didn't need to work harder. I said, "How many cows are you now?" She said that I am now the first class, the student council minister, and the English IELTS has also scored 6.5 points. I feel that there is nothing to work hard.

I am very helpless to say: "Children, you say that your school is general, it is worthy of your pride to be a chicken head? How big is the 'official' of the student council minister? Can you give a discount to the canteen? As for IELTS 6.5, if the score is so low Sorry to tell others. You actually used it to show off!" She refused: "Brother, I am already the best in our class?" I replied: "Okay, but unfortunately the society is not only your classmates." Without speaking, Cambridge IELTS went to the question.

When I met a friend in the UK, I usually worked as a black worker in Chinatown. Every time I see him, I will tell me that I have bought a certain discounted ArmaniJeans and so on. I feel that I am very successful now. People who tell me about my hometown are not as good as him. I asked what you usually do? Have you learned something to read? He said no, you don't need to learn, you have already done this.

I said, "Brother, what are you doing? Who are you compared with you? A bunch of blacksmith cooks let you float?" He said no, it is also very good compared with the family. I fill the knife: "If you must position your life in the cook or the peasant, we have nothing to talk about. The reason why you are invincible now is because your world has only one slap in the face." He thought: "You are right, brother." Now his small business is doing a good job.

If one day we find that I am the best in our circle, on the one hand, it may be that we ourselves really give strength. On the other hand, it is also very likely that our circle is too weak and our environment is full of the weak. Our opponents are also very frustrated. When we are called Gao Fushuai or Bai Fumei, it is not that we are really "rich and handsome" or "white rich", but the real Gao Fushuai and Bai Fumei do not take us to play.

Because in our view we are too weak, even in the eyes of many weaker people we are already a cow. The most terrible thing is that we often think that we are self-righteous and self-satisfied because of a few praises and applause from people who are weaker than us. It is not that the big seal of the pioneer official is a generation of famous people, Zhao Yun has a circle of Zhao Yun, and Liao Hua has a circle of Liaohua.

A long time ago, I felt that I had a feeling of how powerful I was. Later, I slowly discovered that many times we feel that when the cow is in a bad position, it is very likely that we are weak, because it is not our cow, but our competitors are weak. And why are our competitors weak? Because we are weak, we fall into a weak platform, so the opponents on this platform are also very weak.

Your dominance in the Super League does not mean how high your football is, because there is no La Liga Serie A player to sneak a ball with you here; you are not worthy of your world in the CBA All-Star team, this year is 40 The old Carter is still not looking at you; even if you Ko is the king of Muay Thai, WWE you may still be killed by minutes.

In a three-school school, there is a big bull, but when it comes to a famous school, it may be a small witch. In an investment bank, with a high salary, it will be a crowd in the hedge fund circle. In a small city, the local tyrants will basically go to Beijing and Shanghai. There is no sense of existence. So whenever we consciously "invincible in the world", why not reflect on it: Maybe, not because I have more skills, but I am not enough.

I didn’t have enough skills and I was so self-satisfied that I was arrogant in a small circle of slaps. In Guo Degang’s words: “It’s not that I have more skills, mainly against my peers.”

The more you are a cow, the easier it is to realize that you are small.

The human eye is a spiral. The bigger the horizon, the bigger the spiral, the bigger the periphery you realize, the more you realize your weakness. I graduated from high school and felt that I could "build a career". I graduated from a postgraduate degree and felt that I could "make a career". I hope that I can become a family and graduate. I think I am a "difficult graduate".

Mr. Chen Yisun, the founder of Chinese economics, said that “I only did one thing in my life, that is, teaching.” Chen Daoming also repeatedly stressed that he is an “ordinary play”. A few days ago, I chatted online with a great god of the Tsinghua Special Scholarship who has already been a Ph.D. He is already a recognized academic god among our classmates, but he feels that he is getting too much. When we call him "master", he replied only: "Let's do it slowly, hopefully there will be progress."

The higher the platform, the easier it is to realize that you are short of

When we are in a cloud-like environment, there is always a circle of strong people who will compare our weak and small. "Pengsheng Ma Ma, do not help but straight", even if you want to be complacent, the light of the Great God shines, you have to be honest, humble and restrained. On the contrary, it is a small barren hill with no tigers in the mountains. It is easy for a monkey who does not understand what is going on in the mountains and the four to be called the overlord.

I can always see some local tyrants and their children driving BMWs and calling them the hegemony; instead, Beijing’s true entrepreneurs and the second generation drove Lamborghini to obey the traffic laws. After all, the pilgrims who have never seen a true Buddha will be respectful to a fortune teller, not to mention that they are a bit more sultry than the more popular people around them, and they are still flying.

The stronger the opponent, the easier it is to realize that you are dangerous.

The masters of martial arts have always been fists to face themselves, because the masters understand that "there are days outside the sky, people outside the people." In the jungle where you live and die, the ones who survived are those who know the glitz and humility, because they don’t understand the glitz and humility. It is not that God has made the Jews destined to be more intelligent. It is only a wandering nation that has been imprisoned for thousands of years in Babylon. Without business wisdom, it will be wiped out.

A school slag is not terrible, I am afraid that people who compete with him will be more scum, but it is a school tyrant, and the ending must be hanged; a small boss eats, drinks, gambles, does not work, is not horrible, afraid of the boss who is afraid of competing with him. More eating and drinking gambling, contrary to him is a conscientious entrepreneur, the end will be miserable.

When we find that people around us are better than us, we are likely to make progress; when we find that people around us are similar to us, we are likely to be in the same place; when we find that people around us are not as good as us, we are very May be regressing.

When we found out that I was invincible in this circle, it means that your circle can no longer support your further development. If you are still in this circle, you can only show that your strength is here. Instead of being satisfied with the low-level gaze, it is better to sneer into the high circle and feel ridiculous. After all, what you have today is the "sweet and sarcasm" of the year.

Whenever we are happy because of some of our big or small achievements, we may wish to remind ourselves that perhaps this achievement is a lot of people who are more outstanding than ours. We are proud of this achievement, not Because the results are so eye-catching, we are not qualified to achieve higher achievements.

The reason why we seem to be "unique world" in a certain period of time is not because our strength is absolutely strong, but the real cattle are busy in the higher end of the atmosphere, or the real cattle are gathering in one still needs We have been working hard for a long time to get on the platform.

For example, I don’t mean that my calculus is a mathematics cow. It’s because the mathematician’s classmates won’t learn the same maths as me. It’s not that my bonus is the highest in the department. That is because the industry masters have long been the hedge fund as the boss.

Of course, to achieve results, regardless of size, happy is a must. It’s just that if we pursue progress but do it once and for all, and we are self-righteous in our dreams, we are not very good. Those who we eliminated yesterday will probably eliminate us tomorrow.

When we stayed on the self-righteous book of merits, the people who are stronger than us are leaping; the people who are similar to us are tireless; the people who are worse than us are whistling. On our gold medal in the finale, it is best to have an alarm clock ticking. Whenever we are unconscious in the credit book, the alarm clock will be stunned and remind us: "It is not how fierce you are, but the platform is cold; not how wide you are, but weak opponents."

In addition, everyone has a life attitude and everyone has a way of life. If you pursue a bleak and calm, you don’t have to say that Xiaofu is safe and open-minded. This world does not require everyone to have full firepower and bravely move forward. The society should not be tireless, just as Zhuangzi said: "My life is also boundless, and knowing is boundless. With the end of the world, there is no end, you have!"

So be happy in some small places, and a good life is also a good choice. However, for those who are determined to achieve something in some aspects, it is not good to be comfortable with the status quo. Because we may take our "scores" seriously, but our example and opponents will not.

If we want to be more bullish, have more resources, and make more social contributions, we don't need to stare at being recognized, how many people applaud, but in the process of struggle, look at those who we want to identify with ourselves, Those who want to applaud us.

Because it is easy to be recognized, the key is who is recognized; how many people applaud us is not important, it is important to applaud us. Let you be weaker than you, smaller than you, people who are lower than you can not praise the skill, let you be stronger than you, longer than you, people who are taller than you are praised as heroes. Outstanding in its own scope is not outstanding, and true excellence is often beyond its inherent scope and level.

In short, to achieve higher achievements, there is no need to forget the shape, on the one hand we may not work hard on a high enough platform, on the one hand, the real master may not bother to be our opponent. What we need to do is not to hang on to the arrogance, to beat the drums, but to smile and climb the peak.

Next time, next time, when we get another peak score, we can tell ourselves: "I am very good, but I can match the higher achievements."