When you see someone who is better than you, what are you thinking about?

Heart of beauty in everyone.

What's more, now is a society that looks at the face. At the crucial moment, brushing your face is more real than brushing your money. I believe that we should all meet beautiful and handsome people who are almost perfect, impeccable and pleasing. Especially when comparing themselves with the same sex, "Oh..." That disgusted, I feel terrible, and I feel uncomfortable.

Let me take it for myself. I often see girls who have both temperament and beauty and have both body types on the street and on various occasions. Seeing them, I forgot that I was also a woman, and I kept my eyes on them for a long time. I thought that as a girl, I have already wanted to stop, let alone the male compatriots.

Ok. I admit, I envy hate. However, thinking deeper into the problem, I feel that the true charm should be self-confident and not superficial.

I am not beautiful, not tall, and have no maverick personality. When I saw girls who were more than a few times taller than me, I knew that I only had to work hard and use my talents to bloom my own radiance.

A few days ago, some friends who had not been in contact for a long time added me to WeChat and visited my circle of friends...

Friend A: Hey, I see that your life is like a wonderful look. I also thought about living like you.

Friend B: I haven't seen you in these years. You have changed a lot and become more and more charming.

Friend C: Your attitude towards life, I like, work hard, go up.

I would like to say a few more words about the message that friend A gave me. In fact, many people who have seen my circle of friends, most of the impressions are stuck in the impression of "en, sample, life is really rich", most of them ignore the things behind the photos.

Dear friends, you see my friends circle often have photos of going out to play, hey, I was on a business trip, giving up a lot of time to spend time with my children and family. If you ask me, you seem to be on the photo. I am very happy. What I want to say is, is life crying?

Dear friends, when you see my various dressing photos and stage photos, do you think that even those people who are not very positive about me can come to power, and suddenly they are full of hope for life? In fact, for any kind of character standing on the stage, there is a struggle called "One Minute on the Stage, Ten Years of Work on the Stage". Writing articles, remembering words, arranging dramas, practicing the host release, practicing dance...which is not a lot of time to exchange. There are many radiances on the stage, and there are many hard work under the stage.

In addition, you have to fight against the first one yourself. "I am so tired, I don't want to continue to do so..." "Let those so-called dreams go to hell?" "Success is only a minority, don't think too much..." I always want to give up, but I always feel unwilling, how many days and nights I struggle with my own thoughts, how many tears have flowed, how many nights have been smashed... In the end, Ma Yun’s words convince me that dreams still have to be realized, what if it is realized? I modified it to a version: the dream is definitely there, because it will definitely happen. Use this to motivate yourself.

So, when I was fortunate enough to stand on the stage of various occasions, when the spotlight hit me, the happiest thing was - fortunately, I have not given up. Of course, for dreams, love is not enough, and persistence is also very important.

So, dear friend, after listening to my answer, do you still think that my life is very good? In fact, these are all illusions. The hardships I have experienced are only known to myself.

Not at work, or at work. This is the state of my daily life. Every day, my life is full, without any slack. Although bitter, although tired, this is life. When you want to prove yourself with your own abilities, want your family to live a better life, and want to make yourself more valuable, only struggle, work hard, and persist.

Persistence, hard work, and struggle... These words that seem to be full of positive energy have never been so-called chicken soup, nor the so-called flicker words, nor the success keywords in the mouth of successful people. They are just a kind of ingrained thing buried in the heart. It’s just that when we see people who are better than us, we don’t feel inferior. We just bite our teeth in our hearts and say to ourselves, oh, girl, come on. Someday you will exceed them.