Believe in fate, thank you for suffering

Last night, I met with several township leaders. During the meeting, the chairman of a town’s people’s congress asked me: “The liberal arts, do you still recognize me? I can’t forget you!”

I looked at him very seriously, shook my head, and there was really no impression in my mind.

Therefore, he mentioned that the whole city recruited non-party deputy heads of the year: "Remember that the open recruitment of six people, your third place in the written test, the interview results are also in front, but when the list is announced, no your name, We all have some regrets."

I just remembered that in 2004, the whole city recruited non-party deputy heads. According to the practice of recruiting civil servants, it is generally based on the proportion of written test scores and interview scores, and then according to the level of scores. The Organization Department of the Xiangyang Municipal Committee did not do this. Instead, 18 people were selected for the interview according to the written test results, and the top six were selected according to the interview results. My original written interview scores entered the top six. Since the organization changed the rules of the game, my interview score was seventh, 0.1 points less than the sixth. Although the written test scores were good, I was still unsuccessful.

The chairman of the town's people's congress can't help but sigh: "The liberal arts, this is your life is not good!"

My life is really bad, I have experienced too many setbacks and sufferings. When I was in the middle of the country, my grades were always among the best in the class. There was no suspense in getting the ideal secondary school. At that time, taking the secondary school was the squid leaping dragon gate, which really changed the fate. Unfortunately, in the third semester of the third grade, I was mistaken for the entrance examination because of a serious illness. Then my mother died of illness. The students who scored a lot better than my grades went to the secondary school, but I had to work in agriculture. Later, I took a Zhang Zhongzhan diploma by reading an adult secondary school. Shortly after graduation, the Agricultural Bank of Xiangyang City recruited ten staff members. I applied for reference and the written test scores ranked fourth. Because I did not go to the relationship to give gifts, the interview was eliminated. In 1995, I participated in the city cement factory recruitment examination, the second place in the written test, because others engaged in the relationship, brushed me off, until half a year later, I asked the director to ask for advice through a cousin who is the director of the street office. The factory hired me as a contractor. In 1998, the Municipal Radio and Television Bureau recruited six journalists. My score was second. The interview was also passed. At that time, Wang Heyun, the deputy director in charge of the news, appreciated my writing talent. I strongly recommended me when I was studying the party group. Due to the opposition of the Secretary, it was not accepted. I have known it for a long time afterwards, because someone has engaged in relationships. I am a person who has no social background from a poor farmer and is naturally eliminated.

Every time I go back to the past, I often think: Every time I take the exam, I have excellent grades. Why are they all lost? In the final analysis, my fate is not good. Although, later, I entered the public security organs through the pen in my hand and changed my destiny. But relative to many peers, I still have a bad fortune. At that time, Xiao Qiang, the director of the Public Security Bureau, was very important to me. If he did not have an accident later, I would follow him. There should be a good future, but he had an accident. This is life, have to believe. There is an old saying in China: "A person wants to be the champion, relying on one life, two movements, three feng shui, four accumulations of yin, and five readings." If you want to have a good life, you should only study in the fifth place. It can be seen that the fortune of life has its own fixed number. Even if you work harder, it is only a partial change, and it will not change the overall direction. Especially in today's society where everything depends on money, it is difficult for a person to have great success with only talent and hard work. This is the cruel reality.

There used to be a fatalism that believed that the destiny of man was in the hands of God or the gods. This is obviously wrong, and the fate of man is still in the hands of the master. In ancient times, Confucius advocated "knowing life" and negating the agnosticism of fate. Mozi advocated "non-life" and opposed the so-called "destination". Wang Fuzhi proposed "making life" and believed that people can dominate fate as long as they recognize and follow the inevitability of things. For the first time, Marxism scientifically stated that "the essence of man is the true social connection of man" is determined by the sum of various social relations that exist in reality. The destiny of man is the basic state that people show in the process of dealing with various relationships in the objective world. In the same social environment, the fate of people will show great differences, mainly caused by a series of objective conditions and subjective conditions. Among them, the internal factor is the subjective condition is the basis of the change of human destiny, it is decisive, and the influence of external factors can not be ignored. The reason why I take the exam every time, the excellent results are lost, it is the influence of external factors. Therefore, personal destiny is not mainly grasped by individuals. Many times, you cannot grasp it because you do not have the conditions to grasp.

I believe in fate, but I believe that if you are in adversity or in good times, you should smile and face life. How to treat fate. There is a saying in the old saying that "the sky will be reduced to the sinners, and they must first suffer their minds, work their muscles and bones, and be hungry." Although we may not have a big job, when we are in trouble, we should not be pessimistic and disappointed. If life needs to endure hardship, we must insist on persisting. Suffering should make us great. It is only temporary. As long as we work hard, we will gain something. Some people are in a poor family and say that they do not believe in fate. They must be rich people. After years of hard work, they have finally lived a prosperous life. Such people can proudly say: "I have mastered my own destiny!" But, behind their success, is there no chance of success? And those chances, after all, are still destined, but you are more than others. A positive and enterprising, you are lucky to grasp. Many people shouted in a rhetoric: "I don't believe in fate, my fate is in my hands." If the fate is in his own hands, can you do whatever you want? Actually, a serious illness, a car accident, an unexpected disaster can make you fly to heaven. How many people can really master the fate?

Looking back at the frustrations and sufferings that I have experienced in my life, I am still full of grateful hearts, grateful to all those who have helped me in my life, and those who have shattered my ideals and even brought me pain. Because of those sufferings, I have become stronger and more able to understand the suffering and bring a sense of sublimity. Someone said: "When God closed a door for us, it also opened a door for us." Believe in fate, I believe that as long as we work hard, we will certainly gain something in our lives. Even if you don’t have the hope of harvesting, you should work hard and calmly. Because we can be ordinary, but not mediocre!