Touched ideal

I have seen an experienced farmer feeding cattle. At first, the old farmer placed the fodder directly on the ground, allowing the cattle to feed without difficulty, thinking that the cow would eat well and work harder. However, after a while, the old farmer discovered that the cow learned to pick and choose, not only wasted a lot of fodder, the body was not as strong as before, but also often slacked off work, not taking the master's words seriously. Therefore, the old farmer thought of a way to put the forage on a shelf slightly higher than the head of the cow each time the cow was fed. In this way, if cattle want to eat fodder, they have to make some effort. Unexpectedly, since then, the cow has not only picked and picked, but also eats a little bit of fodder, and his eyes are filled with satisfaction and pride.

I curiously asked the old farmer why the fodder was placed on the ground, the cows would pick and choose, or dismissively, but when they were placed high, they ate with relish and were more likely to eat?

Lao Nong said with a smile, this is called the more easy to get, the less you know how to cherish, the less easy you can get, the more you will find it.

After listening to the old farmer's words, I can't help but realize. Not only cows, but people often do the same. Things that are too easy to accomplish often give people the motivation to move forward, and they can't find the slightest sense of accomplishment. Things that are too difficult to accomplish are easily daunting and unattainable. Only those things that can be accomplished through a certain effort will lead to a sense of accomplishment and happiness.

In life, many people always set their own goals in life very high, and believe that the farther the ideal is, the more successful the achievements will be. For example, some people have decided to become scientists, writers, and politicians since childhood. As a result, because they are so high and far-reaching, they are hitting the wall on the road of life. How can they not achieve their ideals, and finally they have to give up with frustration, and they are still branding. The shadow of inferiority.

In fact, we should set ourselves a tangible and tangible goal, so that when we reach the goal, we will reap the joy of success and build self-confidence. With self-confidence, there will be courage to overcome difficulties and step by step to success. It's a bit like climbing a mountain. If you set your goal at the top of the mountain, you will inevitably lose confidence and struggle at the difficult climb. If you set your goal at the top of the hill near you, you will conquer the hill with a sigh of relief. After you have tasted the sweetness, you will conquer another higher hill with confidence. Maybe you will finally reach the foothills. Time has been delayed, but you are much more happy than others.

A successful person is not because he sets his own goal, but because he always sets his goal in a position he can barely get. On the way to accomplishing a career, we need a visible and sensible “forage” to seduce us and inspire us in the past, to help us overcome many difficulties, to climb over the mountains and reach the peak of our career.