If it is wrong, change it, fail and stand up again.

Many people will hold the psychology of "doing more and more mistakes, less doing less mistakes, not doing good". Maybe not doing a good attitude is not going to fail, but he will never succeed.

At the time when most people are afraid of failure, those who have become famous will regard failure as a reversal moment that can "temporarily" resolve the crisis. Learning in "success" is also the road to success. No one will never make mistakes. The so-called "knowing mistakes can improve Mo Dazhen". As long as you know what went wrong and can correct it in time, the chances of mistakes and failures will be reduced. Life is not found in the mistakes, in failure. Comprehend life.

It is not shameful to do wrong things, but you must find the factors of failure in your mistakes, face challenges again, find the power of renewal in your life, do not have to make excuses for failure or doing something wrong, face yourself bravely, face failure, It is the power of re-learning. Life is always ups and downs, stumbling, "when it is wrong, it will change, and failure will stand up again." As long as it does not fall, life will have a chance to start again.

Failure is a process, success is the goal, and with the hardships of the process, there is success. Some people are afraid of failure, so they fall back to the original place when they encounter setbacks. They prefer to be mediocre but not willing to accept the test. They are the same as most people who have an ostrich mentality. Even if they are not satisfied with the current situation, they are not willing to let go. Fight, always someone will comfort themselves or make excuses for themselves. Usually, such people are people who have no success.

Cai Zhennan, the best singer of the Golden Melody Award, once spent the low tide of life by taking amphetamines when he was frustrated. In prison, he constantly self-reflects past mistakes, and after he is released from prison, he regains the respect of people with his voice. Although he made a mistake, but the power to stand up in failure is even greater. Don't think that a mistake will ruin a lifetime. Of course, it is not to encourage others to make mistakes, but to learn how to reflect from mistakes and stand up in failure. Who can't guarantee that he will not make mistakes in his life? If one day, when we make a mistake, please remember! Don't be tripped twice on the same mistake.

bias

"Prejudice will prevent you from heading towards your ideals and goals."

You must stick to your beliefs, but you must abandon your prejudice at any time, because prejudice limits our ability to respond effectively to change, prejudice limits our vision, prejudice only allows us to pay attention to the facts that exist, prejudice will rigidify creativity, prejudice Let us not see the real problems, prejudice limits the flow of information. Prejudiced people choose the facts they believe in, rather than open their hearts and accept the ideas of others. Putting aside prejudice is no easy task, especially the older people are usually harder. To eliminate prejudice, you must open your heart and accept the thoughts and opinions of others.

As people grow older, they will unwittingly add extra cloaks, such as appearance, face, money, and status. For example, some people think that when they are 30 years old, they must be 30 years old. When they are in charge, they must be the supervisors. What should a 30-year-old look like? What is the style of being a supervisor? The more these ideas are lacking in creativity, the more you will be unable to move, especially the more specialized people, the more difficult it is to overcome the fixed shackles, the freedom to create free creativity, and the easy prejudice for any new thing. Prejudice is produced by 焉.

In fact, we have been caught in thousands of restrictions since we were young. We always accept or follow the teachings and lifestyles of others. We have many excuses and reasons for many things. For example, I don’t have such conditions and I am educated. Not enough, I am too young, I am too old, my talent is not enough, I don't have enough capital... If you have this situation, it means that your mindset is full of prejudice.

Prejudiced people will lose the ability to be curious and suspicious first. People with prejudice will pay more and more attention to any abnormal phenomena and do not ask why. What kind of message does your response reveal? Although everyone will always be unable to listen to others' opinions, if you are already in a closed mind and self-righteous, you may have entered a dangerous state.

If you want to be a leader or a successful person, first test whether your bias index is too high, and the problem of solving problems or leadership must come from constant challenges; if you can escape the boundaries of the past, and continue to It is very important to take risks and uncover prejudice, because many capable people are defeated in prejudice. Putting down prejudice may allow you to see the core of the problem, not to look at the world in a well-known way, to be a leader with a broad vision, not to be a dictator.

Success syndrome

Success comes from the integrity and thickness of a person.

If you ask what is real success? There are probably ten, eight, and various successes and reasons. Although the definition of success is different for everyone, it is undeniable that only the talents who are full and full are successful, otherwise success is only a success. The appearance is only.

Today's society is becoming more and more utilitarian, so successful books and success rules are eager for everyone, lest they are not a successful person, or they can't keep up with the "success". But it is also strange to say that the more people who want to succeed, the ones with the highest failure rate.

There is nothing wrong with pursuing "success", even if it is necessary, but excessive pursuit of fame and fortune, as a means of success, often loses that simplicity and sincerity. In the process of pursuing, the "corruption", "嗔", and "idiot" in the mentality make people fall into the trap of being able to extricate themselves. Many people have been trapped for more than half of their lives by "famous locks", only to find that there is no time to stop. Let's take a look at the scenery along the way, care about the relatives and friends around us, when youth is gone, or the personnel is long gone, then even if it is "successful", this success is still not enough.

The best-selling author, Ms. Zhu Jinning, once wrote in her book: "The so-called success is your own understanding, understanding the way you should go, not dreaming of others, or fulfilling the ideals of others." If you must To be successful, first think about your definition of success. And what do you think is the real success? What modern people should learn is the meaning of repositioning success. Success is not necessarily equal to property and power. The typical successful life under the media is often the various kinds of Chinese houses, famous cars, diamonds, beautiful people, etc. Material elements, successful men, of course, may not be rich and powerful, and they are surrounded by a group of beautiful women. If there is such a success, what is a successful life?

I think it is good to try to be a successful person, but it would be better if you can work hard to be a valuable person. Each has its own set of ideas for success. If you must succeed, you will live the success you want.