People with average talent, how to improve themselves in a short time

Recently, when I chatted with my cousin QQ, I suddenly thought of a problem. For the cousin who has been working hard, but the performance is generally harvested and there are no more people. What is the significance of our efforts? Or, to give a lot of time and effort, but the gains are still no one else, but do not insist on working hard?

Regarding this question, I asked my cousin. I said that you, you, are weaker and slower in comprehension. Just like me, I feel that I have tried my best but gained something. It’s like a tortoise and a rabbit race. Others are rabbits. I am like a tortoise. Although everyone runs on the road, it is different in speed, so I always comfort myself with the talents of others. However, since no one else has good conditions, it is only a matter of bitterness and urgency. What's more, I never go to success with good people, I only improve with my past.

The cousin heard me say this. She told me that although she is not as good at learning as she is, she will insist on painting, and even if she works in the future, she will not forget the research on comics.

Then, she told me that she will change this summer, not only in learning, but also in the body will lose ten pounds of meat. I encourage her to have a good plan to implement. Busy is a very fulfilling life, but busy is not busy, but has to have a goal to solve one by one, not to fish for two days in three days. The cousin listened to me and told me to tell her how to do the project.

In this case, I will list the following items for how to use the summer vacation to improve myself:

1. The plan to be developed is short-term feasible and difficult.

According to the surrounding environment and their own special traits, the "tailor-made" is in line with their own goals, don't make it for myself. I want to test the provincial civil servants. I want to enter the famous enterprises. I want to go abroad. I want to earn hundreds of thousands a year. According to your own situation, you can make a small target that is not difficult to complete. For example, if you don't ride a bicycle, you can use the two-week bicycle to get the foundation and strengthen your confidence and lay the foundation for the feasibility of the next project. In college, you can use college time to prepare for your career goals in the future. For example, if you want to work as a teacher in the future, you must first get a teacher qualification certificate and then do tutoring. If you want to work in literature, you should read more books and practice pens, and break down the big plans into short-term feasible small targets one by one. If you are preparing for a civil servant or a public institution exam, then you can test the surrounding townships first, instead of trying to take the provincial level just after the exam.

2, refine the big goal

Don't make it for myself before the summer vacation. I have to read a lot of books during the summer vacation. I have to report many training courses. I have to study hard. The first thing I should think about is how many books I want to read in a certain field, such as 10 books of psychology, 10 books of classical literature, and professional classes. 10 related books. The first thing I want to study hard is that I have to remember the theory owed in the last semester and raise the weak subject. If you want to take the English Qualification Certificate, Mandarin Qualification Certificate, Computer Certificate, etc. in the second semester, you can systematically study the contents of the relevant exams during the summer vacation.

3, playing summer holiday experience is not easy to earn money

Sometimes a certain skill or hobby we have mastered can be used in the summer vacation, which not only expands our ability to make money, but also has a sense of accomplishment, and then learns some social experiences in advance. Many boys have a driver's license to drive, then you can apply for a driver, if you have obtained a sports-related qualification certificate, you can also teach children to swim and play billiards.

If you have a teacher qualification certificate, you can give counsel to the national students. If you are a literary enthusiast or a painter, you can contribute to the magazine. If you have published some articles or published a book, you can also teach your child to write.

If you are familiar with office software, and you will be proficient in PS, then you can go to the print shop to recommend your summer vacation.

If you want to open a tea shop or cafe in the future, you can go to the tea shop cafe to work, and expand the network to exercise daring and eloquence.

If you are very proficient in a game, you can do it for yourself. You can do a Taobao model with your own high value. If you have free money, you can buy cheap things and sell them on your own. In fact, as long as you are interested in your own special hobbies and what will be carefully Thinking, summer vacation can still earn some pocket money.

4, learn to love yourself

In this tea after dinner, everyone loves to talk about the face value, if a person does not pay attention to their appearance is easy to attract people. Imagine being a little fat but dressed in a clean and tidy face, and with a girl who is fat and doesn't like to dress up, of course, the former gives a good impression, because the overall clean image of the other person will make people ignore the actual existence. Fat problem.

Love yourself, when you send a reward, buy a brand of clothing that suits you, rather than a lot of Taobao explosions in the closet. Of course, for girls, skin care is very important, and a clean, light-skinned face is more pleasing than a heavy makeup. My good friend maggie is keen to use essential oil maintenance. She is completely oily, because she likes to collect the used good oil boxes from her own DIY, used for flower arrangement or small jewelry or directly as a decoration. A few days ago, at her house, I saw a particularly good-looking casual door-shaped Afro A dream gift box, a pink wooden raft, which reminds me of watching a cartoon at home at 5 or 6 o'clock. Memories.

If you have some cockroaches on your face that are obvious and have a great impact, then you can use the summer vacation because you don't have to go to school, you can read a book at home and listen to the song to rest. For dental implants, treatment of myopia, and laser beauty, these can be done during the summer, because there is a long enough recovery time.

5, check for missing traps

If you have weak communication skills, you can let optimistic friends bring new friends to you. Boys go to places where there are more girls, and women go to places where boys are more convenient to get rid of singles. If you can easily forget things, set a reminder on the phone in advance or put a note on the computer. Spend more time learning to invest in yourself, less complaints and less criticism.

6, insist on getting up early and getting up early, so that the body has a good conditioning and can guarantee enough energy for the next day to do.

These are some viable "dry goods". As for those who are strong inside, don't feel inferior. Don't be afraid of the theoretical terms. Don't write about how to be strong. How to be inferior is more about how you experience it in your daily life. In short, use the summer vacation to complete what you want to accomplish, and develop your hobby into a habit, and your current investment will pay off in the future.

Many people ask me what is the meaning of my efforts, or is there a reward for desperate efforts?