Out of life

Good evening, everybody!

I didn't expect the students to put my "high" image on the big screen. This is the gap between ideal and reality. So I believe that the students will be very disappointed when they see my first sight. In fact, everyone is ordinary, and many things in life have little to do with future happiness and success, such as appearance, family background, university rankings, grades... These factors may be partially correct, but most of the basics Invalid, such as appearance.

If a person's appearance is related to success, then there will be no Ma Yun and Alibaba, because if the students present think that Ma Yun looks good, it must be an aesthetic problem. Of course, this does not mean that people with good looks can't do anything. Baidu boss Li Yanhong is very handsome. Therefore, no matter what the appearance, you can achieve success. The most important thing is the richness of your inner world, the cultivation of your own demeanor and temperament, the expansion of your own mind and the unswerving pursuit of ideal goals.

So is there any relationship between success and family background? We often see that the "rich second generation" is born with a golden key, sometimes it is dissatisfied: why does he have everything, and I have nothing? I am in college. There has been such a normal mentality. My classmates have the son of the minister, the daughter of the professor, and I am the son of the peasant. Three college entrance examinations only wore cloth and led the poles into the university gate. You will find that you can't keep up with their status. Maybe they stop and do nothing for a lifetime, and they have more things than you.

But you have to remember a truth, life always goes forward, we have to go for a lifetime. Although I don’t know how to live, but if I go on, I have hope for success.

Of course, some students will say that you have been successful in Peking University. If the university means success, then there is no Ma Yun. I have a lot of similarities with Ma Yun. He took the college entrance examination for three years and I also took three years. He took the English major and I was. In the third year, I went to Peking University. He went to Hangzhou Teachers College. I believe that many of my classmates have never heard of this college. Then I should be more successful than him in this life, but now Alibaba's market value is three times that of New Oriental. I have nothing but New Oriental, but he not only has Alibaba, but also There are Taobao, Alipay... So, your future success has nothing to do with what university you are in. You can get out of the best in your life. The university has laid the foundation for you, but you can't decide your life.

Then, is it true that our life will be long when there is a long way to go? No, there are two ways to walk in life: one is going on the plains, going to 90 years old, very flat, when you look back, you will find a piece blank. The other is like the endless mountains, there are always countless peaks to conquer, and once you climb the peak, the infinite scenery will be revealed, the whole world has a panoramic view.

Even if you choose the peak, there are still different ways to go. Once, my friend asked me who is walking with the camel and the camel? I think it must be a horse. He said that the camel is going far more than the horse, because the horse will stop for a while, and the camel will start. If you don't let it stop, it won't stop.

Just like my original college entrance examination. Some people in our village have been tested for the same period of two years as me. The total score is three points higher than me. I told him to take the third year together, but he did not take the test. In the third year, I was admitted. So I came to two conclusions: First, people must run forward, not necessarily fast, but they must run for a long time; Second, they can't stop, they can't fish for two days in three days, and they must be persistent.

There are many confusions and pains in our lives, and as long as you stick to it, the pain will often be solved. In the process of walking, I also shed tears in pain, but I did not expect that New Oriental can train 13 students and now become 1.75 million students. In fact, you don’t have to think about all of this. Just stick to it. Just fine.

Still my old saying: Live your life a little better. I have a metaphor: people's lives are like streams, there is always a dream - flowing into the sea. Just like the Yangtze River and the Yellow River, a mountain rock passes through the mountains, one bypasses the nine bends and eighteen bends, and the final goal is to flow to the sea. The final goal of life re-bending is unchanged. The only thing we have to remember is to continue to flow forward like the Yellow River and the Yangtze River. In the process of flowing, we will live our own wonderful things instead of becoming muddy. In the end, we will settle down and precipitate our lives.

All in all, the beauty of getting out of life depends on yourself not relying on others. There is never a savior, you want to live wonderfully and be happy, you can only rely on our own efforts!