How to spend the low of life

Maybe you, like most people, don't have a prominent family background. No one cheers for you when you lose, but it doesn't stop you from going to your dreams.

In life, many young people are questioning why I am not a successful person. How to spend the low point of life? Many people pray for God or a noble person to help. In fact, you can save yourself, only yourself, and trust your own power at all times.

There is a foreign movie called "Never Give Up," and there is a plot that is unforgettable. A football coach named Taylor, a member of the team named Brock, blindfolded his 72-kilogram teammates to do 50-yard "death crawling." In Brock's view, this is an impossible task, because usually he can only complete 10 yards. As expected, Brock wanted to give up several times. He constantly questioned himself and constantly denied himself, but Taylor gave Brock up to 102 times in 5 minutes. In the end, Brock played his potential and reached an unprecedented peak.

In fact, many times, the difficulty is far from the horror you imagined, and the victory is not as long as you think. The finale of winning or losing depends largely on what you believe. You believe that you can succeed, and success is a matter of time. If you believe that you are a loser, then you can only live as a loser.

Zhang Defen once wrote in "The Encounter of the Unknown" that there are no others outside, only you. The outside world you see is your inner world. If you are an optimistic person, the outside world is positive. If you are pessimistic inside, the world you see is also gray.

Believe in yourself, whether in adversity or in good times, first respect your heart.

One of my friends, like all the children who lost the college entrance examination, was at a loss after the college entrance examination. I am skeptical and confused about the future and even my life. Is it to repeat? Or to find a job? So she had an in-depth conversation with herself, and her inner voice told her that studying is her inner desire. Therefore, she reported to the higher education self-study. Due to the general economic conditions at home, she had to choose to work part time. In the three years of taking a specialist, in an advertising company of less than 10 people, earning the lowest salary. Go to work during the day, attend classes on weekends, read books at night, and use other people's entertainment time to read books and learn. After three years of college study, she entered a Fortune 500 company through an interview. She started from the assistant and took on a lot of work. She worked for more than 12 hours a day and treated each colleague well. It was her diligence and persistence that, in seven years, she not only rose from assistant to management, but also completed her undergraduate degree.

Did you think that this story is over? No, she chose to study for a first-class MBA in China and stood out among the 4,500 candidates.

During the interview, the examiner asked her: "You don't have a good education background, but get a good position. In addition to working hard, are there other factors? We question your original intention to pursue an MBA." She replied: "I The results I have achieved stem from self-confidence and self-management! In addition, my desire for success. I believe this is the quality of successful people. I believe that no examiner will reject an ideal, have goals, plan and work through his own efforts. The bottom line is the candidate for management."

The olive branch will always be thrown to the prepared person!

You should know that if you want to be better than others, when you earn 3,000 yuan, don't complain that the money is less work and more multi-tasking, but should bear the work of 8,000 yuan salary. It is normal to have no heavy responsibility in the short term, and success is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change.

Believe in your own strength, if you are eager for success, you will ignore the difficulties in your life. The big difficulty is just an episode, and it will not be a stumbling block on the road to success. You may not have a coach like Taylor, cheering for you when you lose; maybe you, like most people, don't have a prominent family background; but none of this can stop you from moving toward your dreams.

Time is the most equitable scale, giving everyone the same amount of time, but the results vary depending on the level of effort each person makes.

Believe in yourself, never give up, life will be wonderful!