Whether men, or women, only confident, can be calm!

Calmness is a realm that comes from the open-mindedness of mind and the determination of quality. Not impetuous, not mad, not quick success, not arrogant. Of course, all this does not mean giving up. On the contrary, it reflects more radiance of reason: in diligence, there is a degree of relaxation, perseverance, everything is more value-oriented, more emphasis on the feelings of the soul, as for the ending? Is fame and fortune in the grip? it is not important.

The sky is smooth, the earth is smooth, and people change. Everything goes with the flow, just like after Chunhua, the melons are ripe, and it’s like after the work, the water is ripe, just like the thirty, the name is made. Don't make a strong demand, not to mention too many things and things in this world, not to be able to succeed, such as adolescent ideals; not to be able to possess, but also like love. Everything in the world is a natural thing. Since Tiancheng, even if it is defeated, what is it? If it is, why bother?

Calm, or an attitude. Loss is good, it’s worth it, it’s not good, it’s not sad. Chaos between heaven and earth, between the gains and losses, there is no way. Why do you have to worry about getting lost, staying up all night, sleeping, suffering, and suffering, in vain, and harmless. There is such a newsletter that is good: look at life with a calm heart, the world is self-contained, and the world is grateful to the world.

When a person comes to the world with a red strip, there is nothing left. Reputation, wealth, power, such a common thing, originally the body and body, life does not bring, death does not bring, why bother. When you are in a cry, let go, what fame, what Lilu, what knowledge, what wealth, take it from the world, will be returned to the world one by one. How can you win the name of the thousands of people in your life? Even if you are rich in the world, what can you do with Jiangshan? The Buddha said well: You are born in the dust, and must be attributed to the dust. There are many things in the world.

When we are alive, we are called for a job title, and between colleagues, the name fights against each other, and it is intriguing; for an honor, between friends, intrigue, and against each other; for a small profit, brothers and swords fight, family members fight. There are also famous reputations, as well as invitations for rewards, as well as stagnation, retaliation, and even death. When your eyes are closed, a loess is covered, everything is gone, what are you fighting for?

Desire is the source of sin. In a certain sense, the Buddha’s words are correct. Calm, comes from a simple desire to see through fame and fortune. Because desire is simple, satisfaction, sense of accomplishment, happiness often surrounds us, and our hearts are often filled with joy. The word "joy" is the source of happiness. It comes from the maturity and fullness of our hearts. Calm, still a life detail.

In fact, in this world, what else can be more important than the safety of our lives? I don't think so. No matter standing and walking, always have a good eyebrow and a smile. Going to the feast of Hongmen, even if we are humble, we are still not humble, calm, or between rough meals, or single drink alone, or have a fine dinner with friends, we should sip slowly, not overeating, we Learn to chew delicious, learn to taste, and learn to enjoy life.

In ancient times, the grain was only used for the belly. Today, the meaning of food is not limited to this. It includes birds and beasts, including raw seafood, including sea and seafood. Their existence is only to provide rich and comprehensive nutrition for human beings. Let us enjoy life better, and it would be better if we could vegetarian. Undoubtedly, chewing is a wonderful prescription for taking in nutrition and enjoying life.

Out of the exquisite restaurant, no matter how important we are, when we cross the road, facing the red light, facing the wide road, facing the fast-moving wheels, we must learn to wait. Delayed the working hours, but remember to be late, even if you punish ten or twenty, what is the big deal? Missed the bus, the next shift, delayed an order, and new orders, lost an important opportunity. And there is a new opportunity. As long as we work hard, as long as we are diligent, as long as we persist, opportunities will always be there, success will always be!

On another level, calmness is still a kind of wisdom. It is another virtue hidden deep in our souls, called tolerance. Whenever and wherever, be guilty of negligence and tolerance; be patient with others, be compassionate, be awed by the heavens and the earth, and be humbled by all things. If you criticize the other person, you are unfortunately guilty; even if you criticize the other side, we must be calm and calm, not swearing, and be calm, like the spring rain, the silence is silent; calmly, it can make our opinions more pertinent and more objective, so as not to go to extremes, so as to hurt other people.

Only when we are in a hurry, we can be shocked, calm and calm, do not blame the people, and dare to take over, dare to take responsibility, do not evade, do not compromise, as far as possible with their own wisdom to understand the predicament. In the face of setbacks, it is not difficult for yourself to be strict with yourself. Because we are human beings, flesh and blood, not the Almighty God, not the God of omnipotence. Therefore, we must allow ourselves to have mountains that cannot be crossed, allow ourselves to have a rough time, and allow ourselves to bear the risks and sufferings that cannot be withstood. Therefore, we must not only tolerate others, especially to forgive ourselves, allow ourselves to fail, and then forgive ourselves. This is not only a simple life experience, but also a great wisdom in life.

Life is long, why bother every day, the line is in a hurry. If you encounter a beautiful scenery, you may wish to stop and enjoy it. Once you miss it, maybe we will not only miss a spring, but our whole life. For you, for me, for things, for things, we may wish to calm down! Men are confident because of calmness; women are elegant because of calmness; whether men or women, only confidence, can be calm!