No one's happiness deserves envy

A few famous Taiwanese cartoonists said: One person always looks up and envy the happiness of others. When he turns back, he finds that he is being looked up and envious. In fact, everyone is happy. Just, your happiness is often in the eyes of others.

When you think about it carefully, you feel that it makes sense. In real life, we always consciously or unconsciously envy other people's lives. They are all in the red dust. They are all secular people, no one is higher than anyone.

Men usually envy those who succeed in their careers. Women often envy those who are more happy than themselves in the family. Old people usually envy other children's children. Children will only compare with children and envy others. Sitting in the car, envying the family's pocket money, the old money is too much to spend... When the indignation is out of balance, we are getting farther and farther away from happiness.

Always admire the lives of others, ignore their own days, always feel that others are more happy than themselves, because when we compare other people's lives, the eyes always look up, the reference coefficient is always maximized, in the attitude of looking up, refer to those At least people who are more happy than you are more happy than you, if you circle yourself into a dead end, infinitely raise the bottom line, force yourself to submit, accept unreasonable troubles, what is the meaning of life? Besides those who look happy and happy Is there really no trouble and depression? Is it really worthy of envy?

The answer to this question is of course no, living in the world, no one's life deserves our envy. Everyone is an asteroid in the universe, has its own scheduled track and lifestyle, you can't be someone else, others It is impossible to be you, others in your life can't copy, others' lives can't be suitable for you, and it's the most realistic to live your own life.

Those who succeed in business are not necessarily troubled. They have to bear more burdens and pressures than ordinary people. What you see is the phoenix nirvana, the attitude of flying, what you have not seen is the forbearance and suffering in the process of success. The dramatic effects of the ups and downs also require a stronger psychological endurance.

Those women who are happy in family do not have to be distressed. The scenery is always in front of people. People will be angry because of this or that. They will quarrel like the same, and there will be troubles. You envy her husband to earn a lot. Money, she envied your husband's thoughtfulness to cook.

Don't compare your children with others, life has its own opportunities, talents are different from person to person, you envy children's children across the sea, read big books to do big things, but people envy your children are close at hand, End soup, tea, filial piety, enjoy the heavens.

Don't compare your parents with others. You envy the parents' high positions to make money. People envy your parents and are kind and warm. In this world, many things can be chosen, and what kind of parents are things that cannot be chosen.

Your happiness, often in the eyes of others, through the light reflected by other people's eyes, you will see that the reflection of those rays is your happiness.

Just like the texture of two leaves in this world is the same, happiness and happiness are not the same. No one's life will be repeated with others. While we look forward to the happiness of others, others look back at us in the same way. No one's life is worthy of envy, and living a good life is the most important thing.