The road to success is not that hard

Yesterday, a friend who was frustrated with stocks complained to me. Why did he sell a stock every time, and that stock began to rise? Why did the stock keep falling every time he bought a new stock? Is it that your own vision is not good? Is the decision-making ability not strong? Or is it bad luck? If you have a "moonlight treasure box", how good it is! Whenever a decision-making mistake occurs, you can overturn the wrong decision and let the correct decision I can always be executed, so I can make a splash in the stock market! I know this is his joke, and it is a kind of self-comfort after he is frustrated in the stock market. I believe that if there is a "moonlight treasure box", I believe that many people will rush, but unfortunately, "moonlight treasure box" does not exist in the world, this is just a spirit of self-deprecation after making a mistake.

Don't repent for what you missed. People and things you miss, others have a chance to meet; others missed, you have a chance to have. Everyone will miss it, everyone has passed, and it really belongs to you, and will never miss it.

Do not say that the stock market is changing, the workplace is even more elusive, and people in the deep are inevitably confused and confused. It is not terrible to be confused or confused. What is terrible is that many people are faced with confusion and confusion. The handling attitude is not appropriate and the mentality is not correct. There are two main types of workplace confusion:

Unlimited feelings:

They generally work longer hours, near or have passed the age of the past, but have been shackled at the grassroots posts, holding wages that are not "fit" with their age. In the process of telling my professional experience, I have a lot of emotions. The words "repent", "ignorance", "naive" or "if" are always used, such as regretting the precious time of the university for a few years; should not be graduated Coveting immediate interests, blindly choosing high-paying jobs, giving up jobs that they like and more promising; because they are not persistent enough in their work, interpersonal relationships cannot be handled well, and they cannot turn "chicken ribs" into "chicken legs". Work; I know what I want in my heart, but I don’t have the perseverance to study on my favorite work. On the other hand, I don’t know the result of “backwaters”... So they often think that if there is a “moonlight box” in the world. How good it is, you will not be so idle, you will definitely invest unlimited energy into unlimited work, but unfortunately... Hey!

Shifting responsibility:

After reading my article, some people will leave a message on QQ or send an email saying: Teacher Li, the article you wrote is very relevant and practical. It is very inspiring to me and has caused my own thinking about the profession. Unfortunately, the time I saw was a bit late. If you see these articles before and after graduation, you will definitely not go wrong, and you will lose a lot of detours. However, when time passes, many opportunities will not come again once they are missed. Moreover, they have to consider marriage or have their wives and children. The reality has not allowed themselves to toss again, and they can only settle in the status quo. I hope that I have a "moonlight treasure box", so that I can return to the professional origin, have the opportunity to re-select, maybe a great success can be achieved in a few years...

Everyone wants to be successful, and everyone's side always has to be a successful person who envy or envy. But what I want to say is that if you don't want to do it, even if envy becomes "red eye disease", it will not help. Because the case of any successful person is influenced by the inevitability and contingency, even if you seize the necessity and imitate others, it is accidental but not demandable. Just as others are preparing for entrepreneurship, you don't necessarily want to start a business; when you want to work hard, you find that your ability still has a lot of deficiencies; after you have the ability, you may lack startup funds; etc. If you have funds, you may not have the right project. When you find a suitable project, you will find that you have not had enough energy. You feel that you have gone in the workplace because there is always dissatisfaction in reality. local.

We often say that there is no road in the world that is absolutely perfect, just like people who are not perfect in life. Everyone has one or the same mistake in the career development process. This is a very normal phenomenon. We should treat the mistakes we have made. After all, even if you choose the right one, no one can guarantee that every choice after you is correct. Therefore, we don't have to wait for things that have happened or been missed for a long time. After all, what has happened is irreparable. We must learn to be confused or confused in the inclusive profession. After all, this is also the only way to grow. At the same time, we should learn to follow the trend, identify the areas that we lack, and then improve them. Don't let your professional ability show obvious shortcomings. The most important thing is to make good use of the accumulated experience and strengthen it. Together, they form a system that transforms into their core competitiveness.

Many career planning articles often quote the success stories of some representative customers. Many people may think that the road is not suitable for themselves. Indeed, each person’s experience is different and the reasons for confusion are different, but these cases do not directly apply to you. But if you don't look at it, you have to look at it a few times. I believe that every time there will be different gains, the most important thing is to master the methods of learning and thinking in these cases, from "heart" to "action", then you Can grow quickly. At the same time, to develop a summary of the experience, we must make clear why this matter is wrong, where is the root cause, the only way to avoid repeating the same mistakes. As long as we can persist, good results will always come.

I think, we should be thankful. Fortunately, there is really no "moonlight treasure box" in the world, and time will not go backwards. People can learn to choose carefully and take every step, not just a glimpse or a strange move. At the same time, it is precisely because there is no "moonlight treasure box", let each of us learn to cherish: cherish time, cherish every job, cherish everyone around you. Because only those who know how to cherish the present can have a better future.