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Her legendary life makes all women jealous


Zhu Lingling pioneered the marriage of Miss Hong Kong into the giants, and became a typical struggle history of Hong Kong at that time. In 1977, she won the Miss Hong Kong Champion and the Most Missing Award. She was the first contestant to win two awards and was recognized as the most beautiful Hong Kong sister. 18-year-old married giants, 40-year-old divorced, 50-year-old married to the giants, her legendary life makes all women yo!

Generally speaking, 30-year-old is like a beggar. Standing on this raft, many women clearly know that the person is not suitable for them, but they are afraid of pressure and hurriedly marry, and then do it. But there is such a woman, married at 18, divorced at 40, remarried at 50, and married into the giants twice. In her dictionary, it seems that she never hates to marry the word: not marrying for marriage, but marrying for herself. Her name is Zhu Lingling.

In 1977, the annual Miss Hong Kong campaign site. When the 18-year-old Zhu Lingling appeared, she captured most of her gaze, her body was slender, her face was good, her family was superior, her education was good, and she was standing in the world financial center waiting for picking.

Among these gaze, including the son of the rich man Huo Yingdong, Huo Zhenyu. Subsequently, Huo Zhenyu launched a fierce offensive against Zhu Lingling. This competition changed her destiny. She did not join the entertainment circle like other Hong Kong’s established roads. Instead, she hurriedly married and married the famous Huojia in Hong Kong. .

Zhu Lingling was born in a timber merchant in Myanmar. She moved to Hong Kong when she was 9 years old. When she was running for Miss Hong Kong, she was studying for a college preparatory class at King George V School and working as a fashion model. This is the first double sister in history who has won both the championship and the "Most Mirror". Young, innocent, famous, and wealthy women’s conditions, Zhu Lingling has it. Therefore, when the reputation was the most prosperous, 18-year-old Hong Kong sister Champion Zhu Lingling married the 32-year-old son of Huo Yingdong, Huo Zhenyu.

It is worth mentioning that such a wedding, the degree of luxury shocked Xiangjiang. It’s been 30 years since today’s time. The descendants’ gossip is still relished: “Golden 10 million yuan, Italian custom wedding dresses, Miramar Hotel seats 350 tables, each seat costs 2,000 yuan, more than 4,000 elites go to The feast of the feast has created the 20th in Hong Kong."

The image of the digital paving, back in the same year, with the fire to cook the oil to such a grand celebration of a pair of new people, behind every seemingly inadvertent move of the giants, do not have deep meaning. Huo Zhenyu graduated from the University of Southern California. When he graduated, he did business with his father Huo Yingdong. Some media analyzed the various things behind this wedding: How to make the eldest son stand out and quickly enter the state in the political and business circle? The simplest and fastest way Yes: It’s a high-profile and luxurious marriage.

So this daughter-in-law was chosen by Huo Yingdong. This tradition can even be traced back to the next generation. The wedding of Huo Qigang and Guo Jingjing was also a sensation. The second generation of the giants broke into the national treasure Olympic champion. The degree of eye-catching was exactly the same as that of the father who married the Hong Kong sister. Less than two months after the marriage, there was a good news and a good man. In a few years, he gave birth to his second son, Huo Qishan, and gave birth to his youngest son in the 10th year.

From the face, this is almost the most enviable life of Hong Kong women. In and out of the bodyguard, no work, as if only need to take up the gentleman's hand at the charity dinner, a slight smile, you can calm down to the old, become a decent and stable lady who is envied by everyone, is this not a Hong Kong sister can The best destination to think of?

However, marriage is a gorgeous robe. From the ordinary people to the giants, they often have the same sentence. Behind the robe is whether the jade is gentle or riddled with holes. People outside the city can't see it. Only the people in the siege know. Zhu Lingling and Huo Zhenyu are 14 years old. It can be imagined that a girl who was only 18 years old when she got married, even if she has a family education, is not afraid of being involved in the world. Even if she is a child's mother soon, she still has no illusions.

Some commentators said: Every time Hong Kong newspapers appearing by Zhu Lingling and Huo Zhenyu, from the appearance, they can speculate on the difference: an old-fashioned, always big back and black-rimmed glasses, a beautiful and active, wherever they go are the focus of the center. Zhu Lingling has a lively personality, likes to dress up, photography, dancing, badminton, and golf. She is not sociable. It is said that she is almost a friend in the entertainment circle except that Ye Qianwen is a good sister.

Huo Zhenyu needs to socialize, wear clothes only to wear a brand, eat only to high-end restaurants, even if Zhu Lingling recommends him where to eat snacks, I hope to try it together, but the other party is not interested. The media even had such gossip details.

There is also the famous "borrowing jewelry" story. Legend has it once, Zhu Lingling wants to participate in an activity, choose one from the Huojia collection, but the butler has handed a form, which is a register, which not only requires detailed writing of what time to borrow the style of the home. Jewelry, and indicate the time of return.

The wealthy daughter-in-law can't do business on her own outside. In 1991, Zhu Lingling suddenly withdrew from her sister's business with the jewelry store, which is said to be for this family rule.

When a wealthy housewife with too many rules is too difficult, in the eyes of the media, Zhu Lingling is still competent and responsible for the role she should be responsible for: Mrs. Yin Hui, her husband, the family representatives in the charity event, and the decent appearance of the whole family. Daughter-in-law, the gentle mother who raised her son. If you play like this, Zhu Lingling's life can almost achieve the perfection in the secular sense.

However, the perfect appearance can not conceal the essence of this marriage: it is doomed to disagree with the minds of two people. Dissatisfaction is a dilemma. Women either consume, routinely become a wealthy wife, or break up. But in the face of how many women can't ask for stability, is Zhu Lingling reluctant? She is really willing.

In 1999, Zhu Lingling, against the Huojia family rules, spent 24 million yuan in his own name to buy a duplex unit in Hengange, Shoushan Village Road. At that time, everyone wondered her special actions.

In August 2000, Zhu Lingling moved out of the Huo family and moved to the Ganwan, Kennedy Road, Hong Kong, with her younger son. In December, Zhu Lingling returned. Huo’s caliber unanimously denied that there was a marriage change at home. However, people who saw Huo’s grandmother coming home to go home with the excuse of going to the UK to accompany his son or about Ye Qianwen. When the Hengan Court lease was full, she immediately took back the house and moved out of the Huo.

In 2004, the second son, Huo Qishan graduated and was photographed by the media: Zhu Lingling took the younger son Kaiqi, and Huo Zhenyu took Qigang and Qishan to board the plane to attend the ceremony at the University of London. After that, Huo Zhenyu was awarded the Golden Bauhinia Star, and Zhu Lingling left the Huo family to sit far away, and refused to take a big photo.

In 2006, Zhu Lingling opened her mouth: "I have used Zhu to return." Huo Zhenyu responded: "You all know what is going on."

It turned out that they had already agreed to divorce. However, compared with the spread of the marriage, from the beginning to the end, this marriage is extremely secretive and quiet. Like marriage, divorce is another way to test the wealthy family's handling of family affairs. In line with this identity, Zhu Lingling is like the original, and has won the essence of the giants. After so many years of edification and dip dyeing, the skill is getting deeper and deeper, and the sense of proportion is strong, but it is easy and smooth, and it is a step by step to smooth the relationship between the Qing and the giants.

Once faced with the various lace rumors of the husband in the media, Zhu Lingling used the "bearing character" to the end. In public, she never had a black face, and she never complained about grievances and won the sympathy of the world.

The Hong Kong people left Zhu Lingling to leave the giants, which was like the departure of Diana from the royal family. However, Diana’s fragrance disappeared, but Zhu Lingling was not. Whatever is unhappy is caused by hesitation and superiority, and when you are not strong enough, it will be bound to be bound. Perhaps for her, a woman's ultimate destination, rather than the superficial scenery of the wealthy wife, should be greater freedom. Therefore, Zhu Lingling’s marriage history did not cast a shadow on her. On the contrary, after leaving an unhappy marriage, she lived more like herself.

Did not become a blame. In dealing with the relationship between the ex-husband and the three sons, the long-sleeved dance is peaceful and friendly. In 2006, Huo Yingdong passed away. It was not the help of Zhu Lingling of Huo’s family to help her. She cried like her daughter to send her father, but she did not look at Huo Zhenyu’s eyes, and she did not lose her principle. Since the divorce, I have not received a bad review from the husband's family, enough to see the wisdom of dealing with the problem.

She is still radiant. For beauty, she once said: "I think people's beauty depends on two aspects. One is external beauty and the other is inner beauty. The beauty in the heart is cultivated by oneself, such as temperament, character, quality. And a young heart."

When Huo Qigang greeted Guo Jingjing, Zhu Lingling was busy from beginning to end. She smiled and smiled. She was free to enter and exit Huo Zhai. When she wore a pink lace dress, she was praised as the most beautiful mother-in-law. When she smiled and welcomed her parents, Guo Jingjing’s parents, Two consecutive actions are beautiful: the doorkeepers kissed their relatives and even praised each other for cultivating a good daughter. Seeing the media rushing out, the boom car was broadcast live, and Zhu Lingling accepted the visit generously, expressing her concern for the safety of the reporters. She was thoughtful and courteous but not artificial.

She has her own business. "Although I may be strict with the people around me when I am doing something specific, I just hope that everything can be done with the utmost care. In fact, my original character is more easygoing and simple."

He graduated from the Hong Kong International School and attended the preparatory course at the King George V School. He was praised by the teacher as "very linguistic talent" and speaks fluent English. Learn photography art and open your own charity photography exhibition. The collection of the charity Hui Ming Ya, established by Hong Kong sisters, focuses on women's health and charity, and is quite influential in the Mainland.

In 1999, Zhu Lingling attended the charity annual meeting. At the meeting, a handsome man walked up to Zhu Lingling and said: "20 years later, Miss Zhu is as amazing as before!" He is Luo Kangrui.

People say that the love of middle-aged people is like a fire in an old house. Most of them describe the wolverine of desperation, and they can't accept the meaning of the field. However, Zhu Lingling gave herself an elegant way. She was in the office building of Roche in Shanghai. She was a low-key proprietress. When she remarried, she did not fall into the wrong position but was in line with her identity.

On November 27, 2008, Zhu Lingling, who was just 50 years old, and Luo Kangrui, 60 years old, registered and married in Singapore and officially became a couple. Zhu Lingling turned into Luo Tai and started another marriage legend.

Compared with the previous hobby jewelry registered in Huojia, the second wedding is very low-key, but on the day of the marriage, Luo Kangrui has been eager to declare to the Hong Kong Stock Exchange that Zhu Lingling has become his wife, showing that his wife is in love, and later Luo Kangrui All the property has Zhu Lingling's share. After several twists and turns, the two can become husband and wife. I believe that money will not be divided into each other.

The 18-year-old scenery is married, and the 50-year-old is still married. If the Huo family is the glazed inner and cold diamonds worn on her ring finger, and the current is the more golden man who is happy for the rest of her life, marry a golden man, it sounds like a fairy tale, but this fairy tale, This is the real life that Zhu Lingling personally created. What is the position, only to complete the jump of each turn? In an interview, the reporter asked her what kind of woman she likes the most, she said:

Thirty years ago, I had a female teacher who has passed away now. This teacher came from the mainland. Before coming to Hong Kong, her life was very good. It was difficult in Hong Kong, but I never heard her complain that life is unfair to her. She has a good attitude and personality, and Under such conditions, it still pays a lot to society. At that time, I was still young. The positive attitude and responsibility for the society on her had a great influence on me, and I was so impressed.

In the face of the ups and downs of life, to maintain a positive attitude - no sorrow and sorrow, no story of resentment, people expect the heroic blood plot not all staged, leaving the decisive and remarriage, the most beautiful Hong Kong sister, seems to be a complete transition Like the action of volley smashing when playing badminton, it is not like saying that your life is controlled to every step.

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