Young, that is tossed

The friend left Beijing. Every time I leave, it will be like never seeing again. However, time itself is unpredictable. Who can be sure that today's parting will not be the last sight? A friend said that she wants a dull life, she is a girl, she does not want to bear the pressure of buying a house to buy a car in Beijing, and she does not want to work overtime all day long to cry when she is quiet.

I nodded. You are not her, can't make a decision for her. But I know that she was not like this a few years ago.

When she first met us, she was a beautiful editor and she made a beautiful picture. She just graduated from college and determined to work hard in Beijing. I have seen her crying in the dead of night, and she has seen her working overtime. She used her free time and also reported an English class.

However, at this time, the parents urged her to marry, saying that she was twenty-six years old. In the local area, it is the golden age of getting married and having children. What is it like to be a person in Beijing? She struggles every day, and I don’t know when my efforts have turned into embarrassment in my parents’ eyes.

However, in Beijing, a relatively inclusive city, everyone will not talk about it because one person is not married. Gradually, the mother began to erupt, and she kept telling her daughter that it was only true that a woman was in a career, and that having a family and having a child is the most important thing.

In fact, a plain and faint sentence is true, and a lot of young people who are working hard are abolished. The elders said that the plain and stable is true, not false, because they have worked hard for most of their lives, and then, when they look back, they feel that it is true. But did they think that their children had just left the school and had not started to struggle, so they read plainly. The so-called dullness is nothing but mediocrity.

Finally, she chose the so-called dullness. She quit her job and accepted the position of a local civil servant that her mother had arranged for her. Then, the mother arranged her blind date, she met several faces, and then the mother hurriedly urged her to get married. She is getting less and less contact with us. After all, the road is different. Everyone is busy, and it is light.

Interestingly, after a few months, she returned to Beijing. Before I got on the plane, she called me and asked me to pick her up. I thought she was coming to play. I didn't expect that she took the big bag and got off the plane. Later, she learned that she fled her marriage, resigned, and went to the big city alone. She smiled and said that youth is tossing and fighting, I don't want to be flat. I sent her to the house she had rented. The night in Beijing, suddenly beautiful, people can not open their eyes.

No matter how difficult life is, always insist on it. After persistence, talk about peace and stability. After all, plainness is the indifferent after the world. If you haven't seen the world yet, you want to live in the mountains. In the end, it will only be the frog at the bottom of the well.

I insist on exercising and my body has very few problems. It was only in the middle of the night, and suddenly the toothache could not stand it. The next day I went to the hospital to see a doctor. When I walked into the hospital, almost everyone had pain on their faces, and everyone’s expression was very sad. The doctor said that my teeth were broken before the work was busy, and the acute inflammation was aggravated. When the hospital lined up, there were old people around me, only one of them, young.

In fact, no one knows what will happen tomorrow. The only thing that can be done is to live today and use the best posture to meet tomorrow. Young, is tossed.

Suddenly understand that the phrase "plain" ruined many young people. When the candle is burned out, it is qualified to sigh where the radiant light has been illuminated; when the moth is on fire, it is not worthwhile to discuss the value of the dream.

We are all the same, young, premature choice of the so-called stability and dullness, perhaps just mediocrity. If you can, I don't want to live a life like this. Or maybe, when we struggle for a lifetime, when we are white and green, and the most loved ones sit on the benches of the park, we can look at each other, look back on the past, and then lazily say that the plain life is really good.

Will this life make more sense?