Instead of looking up at the aura of others, it’s better to go

A year ago, a friend said to me: "I hate my current life. I go to the same place every day, go to the same place, eat the same things, copy yesterday's life, and endure the parents' jealousy... After graduation, my biggest regret is that I didn't go out and take a look at the world outside." When she spoke, the hot cup was lying on the hand, the song of Shuimu Nianhua was playing, and the sun was shining in the sun. Tea shop.

In the past year, some of my classmates who are running in the North, such as those who live in the economic center, enjoy the most abundant opportunities and professional resources. Looking at their talks or blogs, the most common ones are: "tired, annoying, lonely, homesick, tears..." such a hearty word.

What kind of life have we thought about?

Every young person will meet a lonely moment at the beginning of his work. Youth will be exhausted, and the teenagers stand at the full intersection of life, looking up to see the beautiful and quiet sky, looking down at the muddy land. There is no limit to the possibilities of walking in any direction, but it is also accompanied by danger and uncertainty.

If there is a bus to the destination, the car is crowded. The first option is to squeeze you in. The bus will send you to the place you want to go in the quickest way, but you need to struggle to compete with others for limited. Space, there may even be other dangers of conflict or unpredictability with others; the second choice: running to the destination, the advantage of this is that the air is fresh and beautiful, but it is much slower and has to endure a lot of wind and sun. .

What kind of life would you choose?

I remember when I was young, no matter how much snacks my mother put in my little panda bag, I would still stare at the delicious drooling in the hands of other children - my own is always better than others.

All wandering life dreams of calm, childhood little yards and golden rapeseed, just as all seemingly comfortable life dreams of daughter red, rivers and lakes and drunken dreams.

People floating in the north and the north always read "this heart is in my hometown." People who stay in small towns in their hometowns always complain about the singularity and limitations of the environment, taking advantage of the outside world.

It has been said that the lives of others are just like the photos of his own P. Just "looks beautiful." I nodded after hearing it. In fact, what we are longing for, another kind of life, is really just a kind of life that looks "beautiful", which is taste, sweet and self-aware. No matter what kind of life is the ordinary people's five flavors, all the glamorous and bright is an experience, not a sense of happiness.

No matter which kind of life you choose, you have to bear the cost of choice. You will get some and lose some at the same time. This is inevitable.

Then there is only one life, how can we spend it?

What do you really want in your heart? Is it the joy of chasing the sweat on the road to success? Is it an orange lamp in the warm living room? Is it the wonderful world outside? Is it the approval of others? Is it the freedom of the spirit? Or status and reputation?

These questions, when you can't find an answer outside, please remember to go back to yourself and ask your own heart - all the answers are actually there. Our own resources are enough to make us happy for a lifetime, and we don’t have to go out to explore.