Yu Minhong: It is better to be worth than to have money.

Many people have two pursuits in their lifetime: one is rich and the other is valuable.

Some people are lucky, born in a wealthy home, and born like Jia Baoyu, the mouth contains jade, and money is not a problem. But money can't solve the second problem, that is, you are worthless.

Value is the embodiment of personal value. For example, if you go to find a job and someone gives you a million annual salary, it means that you are worth a lot. Money and value are two concepts. Rich people are not necessarily worth the money. For example, we often see some "rich second generations" who have a lot of money, but they don't have anything but squandering. Such people are "not worth the money." But the valued person will have money sooner or later, because the valued person has a certain ability to boast, and with this ability, he can not only settle down, but also accumulate wealth, such people do not even need to save money. For example, a famous painter, he only needs to draw a picture when he needs money. Therefore, people often say, don't turn yourself into a "piggy bank", because no one can rely on saving money to become rich; but you must turn yourself into a "printing machine", and you can rely on your ability to take it when you need it.

It is better for a person to become valuable than to have money. People who are worthy can understand what it means to be a sense of accomplishment. Where does the sense of accomplishment come from? From the gains you get from your own efforts, the greater the gains, the greater your sense of accomplishment. If a person's money is to reach out to his parents, no matter how much money he has, there will be no sense of accomplishment. If a person's money is earned on his own, then no matter how much he earns, he will have a sense of accomplishment, and as long as the road is right, the more money, the greater the sense of accomplishment. A sense of accomplishment is one of the important cornerstones of happiness. To a certain extent, if a person does not realize the sense of accomplishment brought about by struggle, then his happiness value in life must be discounted.

Nowadays, many parents have prepared everything for their children's future life in the name of love. It is a good intention, but in fact it deprives the child of the struggle space and deprives the child of the happiness he could have experienced.

A person is not worth the money, there is a turning point. When you graduated from college, you are eager to find a job, and you are asking your grandfather to tell your grandmother, no matter how much you are willing to pay. At this time, you ask others, your personal value has not yet been reflected, you can also say that you have no personal value at this time. When you set foot on a job, because you are not familiar with the content of the work, you need to ask others to teach you, this time you are not worth the money.

After that, through continuous efforts, you become an expert in a certain field or a very good manager. At this time, someone else is asking for you. The boss will give you a promotion and raise your salary. Please do not leave. Other units will provide Higher positions and higher wages, do everything possible to dig you. At this time, you are really worth the money. A worthy person can figure it out because of the capital of the spectrum.

For example, Zhuge Liang, why did he want Liu Bei to pay attention to Mao? It is because he knows his own value, he has to put a spectrum, so that Liu Bei will pay more attention to him, and the future will give him more room for development. Therefore, the analysis requires ability as capital, otherwise it is to find death. For example, in the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", the balance of light, knowing the spectrum and swearing, but there is nothing to rule the country, and ultimately die under the knife.

The process of continuous efforts by one person is the process of making yourself worthwhile: before you are worth, you are asking for others; after you are worth, others are asking you. But what needs to be pointed out is that the "others beg you" I am talking about here is not because you have the right, but because you have the ability. If you happen to be capable and have power, this time, no matter how valuable you are, you have to leave the money as far as possible.