You are not incompetent, but you have not forced yourself to Liangshan.

The ability is forced out. If you don't push yourself hard, you will never know that you can be great.

1. I broke the boat and I realized the independence of the economy.

Like everyone else, I am just an ordinary college student. I always thought that as long as I went to school, I had to study hard, have a good relationship with my classmates, and left a good impression in the teacher's mind. Finally, I can get a diploma smoothly. Until one day, our teacher Ma Zhe said something like this in class:

In fact, when you are 18 years old, your parents have no responsibility or obligation to you. He gives you living expenses because of humanitarianism. He does not give you living expenses. It is also reasonable, so please don’t feel yourself. Still small, spending parents' money is justified. I suspect that many of you will not survive if you leave your parents.

After listening to the teacher's words, my heart is very complicated and my mood is very heavy.

At that time, he happened to participate in the National College Student Challenge Cup Entrepreneurship Competition and met a very savvy senior. He said that he would not ask his parents for money when he was a freshman. I asked him why, he said that he couldn't ask, especially when he was dreaming at midnight, his parents' hands full of daddy always dreamed of falling into a dream, tears often wet the pillow.

Maybe from that moment on, I want to achieve economic independence. But I am a college student, I still have to go to school every day, and I can't have too much time to go outside to work part-time.

I want to be free and want to make money. Does this work exist?

really exists. That is, the freelance that everyone usually calls. I find that among so many freelances, the only thing that can bring me economic benefits is my text. So I started searching for jobs like copywriting part-time on Weibo.

Fortunately, a website was recruiting a number of part-time editors at the time, and I was hired with a good writing skills. But the wages are pitiful, and there are hundreds of them in a month. Just enough to buy snacks, let alone support yourself.

At this time, an editor came to me and asked me to help me write a home-based advertising copy. Just give you a cup or a dish, you have to write a 140-word original copy, written from its modeling material and use properties, can not be repeated.

On the first day, it took 4 hours to write 15 advertisements. After a week, I feel that this will not work, it will be a waste of time, and the wages are not high. But I can't find a suitable part-time job for the time being. What should I do?

I decided to force myself to make one call and make a phone call to my parents. I don't have to transfer money to me in the future. I have income every month and I can support myself.

In fact, my account balance at that time was only three or four hundred, and there were 20 days left before the salary was paid. I was a foodie myself. That period of time was definitely the most embarrassing thing in my history, no one.

Because there is no retreat at all, I am the kind of person who can't borrow money from friends. I can only talk to the editor and increase the workload. Write 50 advertising copyes every day, 7000 words, and write them all kinds of dishes, plates, cups, sheets, quilts, can not have repeated statements, but also original, every day, racking their brains, writing to the brain several times, I want to Don't let go. But if you don't do it, you can't afford it. You can only stick your teeth. And it is a change that it is necessary to write 50 pieces from the previous four minutes and three hours to three.

As of today, I have written thousands of home copywriting. Everything written and written every day is just the same thing, but I can write it differently. If someone told me about it a long time ago, I would definitely think it was a night of talk. But today, I just want to say: Everything is possible, and human ability can always come out in some special circumstances and surprise you.

Of course, in addition to writing seven thousand words of copywriting every day, I also regularly write articles on other writing platforms, brushing the sense of presence while practicing, and bringing some extra income to myself.

Sometimes, people really need to push themselves to death. Only then can you inspire your hidden talents and let you know that you can also be a very bullish character.

2, left the road = no retreat

I am a person who will never leave a path for myself. Because once you leave the road, you will have a lucky feeling. If you encounter difficulties and setbacks, you will think that this road will not go and go the other way. It is easy for you to forget your own efforts in many reasons and excuses. And meaning, so I chose a path that suits me from the beginning, and I have to go to the end, leaving no room for a slight turning point.

When you don't have a retreat, you will force yourself to try to solve the problem at hand, instead of being half-hearted, and the last thing will not happen.

From the time I went to college, some people said that they faced unemployment when they graduated. I once resisted the heavy topic of graduation, but there is no way, it is still coming, you have no way to refuse.

From the first to the fourth year, my goal is very clear, that is, looking for a job, not taking civil servants and not studying. Because I knew what I needed and I knew how to stick to it, I quickly got the job I wanted. Some friends are not, because they have left countless retreats at the beginning, so they will continue to miss opportunities.

Xiaoyue is my girlfriend. Her goal is relatively clear, and she is a civil servant. However, she thought at the beginning, taking part in the national exam to try the water, there is no provincial examination, and there are no local enterprises and institutions to recruit. There should be a lot of people who think the same as her, but the end result is that she has not passed the provincial and local exams.

A few days ago, she called me. She said that she should not leave too many retreats for herself. Otherwise, the interview for the national examination will pass. Because she always thought about her own opportunities, the national examination test scored 137 points, the interview was not prepared, there are still exams and the provincial test, the results of the interview came to the face. It was a very simple interview question, because I was not prepared enough, and the position I had was so handicapped.

If you don't give yourself a way out, you will force yourself to bite your teeth and stick to it. Believe that human potential is incalculable, reaching a certain fixed value will explode infinite power.

3, you are not incapable, just did not force yourself to Liangshan

If you ask me who I admire most in my life, I will not hesitate to tell you that it is my cousin.

The cousin is called Ajie, because the aunt and the aunt want him to be an outstanding person. It is a pity that Ajie Cousin did not like to study when he was a child. When he was 14 years old, he dropped out of school and went to Guangdong to work hard. When I was 17 years old, I bought my first car. When I was 21, I made my first one in my life.

Is it a very inspirational and a little fake? Many people hear this version, and what I hear is another version. Do you want to hear it?

The 14-year-old boy is full of blood, has a dream and a distant place, but the reality is very cruel. After I arrived in Guangdong, I was not familiar with my life. I have not yet reached the legal working age. I can only do some manual work. I earn more than ten yuan a day, but I don’t even have a place to live. Had to live with a group of tramps under the overpass, or curled up on the stone bench in the park.

Every night, with the stars of the sky, there is a warm sun awakening every morning. It is very beautiful to listen to, but when I am sick, I don’t see a disease. When it rains, I can’t find a place to hide. In a strange city, there is not even a familiar person. Even dreams are all about making money. Do you still feel beautiful?

He struggled for a year like this. One day he helped a person to repair a car on the road. I didn't expect to meet a noble person because of his kindness. It was the master of a garage. When I was chatting, I knew that Ajie Cousin was also an unemployed person. He said that he could give Ajie Cousin a job, but there were only six hundred pieces a month, but it was wrapped and wrapped. For Ajie Cousin, it was the pie that fell from the sky, and he did not hesitate to agree.

Every apprenticeship is late for work, and Ajie Cousin gets up very early, takes the initiative to cook breakfast for Master, and goes to the garage to clean it in advance. I usually wash the clothes for Master and run errands.

I asked him, tired?

He said that I have no retreat. Since I have made a choice, I have to climb.

A year later, because of his skill, Ajie Cousin opened a small shop with the support of Master. Every day, he started to get angry. In addition to his work, he also took the time to sign up for the car audio training class.

At that time, car audio appeared in the Foshan area, but it quickly became popular. Ajie Cousin earned more than 10,000 pieces and bought a used car with his wise investment and his own enthusiasm.

The next thing seems to be a matter of course for everyone, but only Ajie Cousin knows that his success is not as easy as others seem.

When a person pushes himself to Liangshan, it is difficult to succeed.

Many times, we are not incapable, but you are always reluctant to force yourself. If you don't force yourself, you don't know that you can become a big man who can't be underestimated.