The pattern of women is far more important than appearance

I really like the commentary on "Happy Tale" Zhongguan Yuer’s thoughts on Fan Shengmei’s thoughts into a higher class:

"What kind of grades can she do when she goes? Although people are equal to people, this society has a class. You ignore class and only try to do things, and it is true to overcome limitations." ”

I also clearly remember Andy's definition of Fan Shengmei's work: office oil.

This is why Fan Shengmei is so familiar with the world, but only mixed up in the middle of the road.

The pattern is a prerequisite for anyone to achieve great success.

As a girl, if the heart is higher than the sky, and not willing to die than the sad reminder of paper, at least there must be an atmospheric way of thinking, willing to work hard to struggle; rely on oneself to seek dreams, not just a mind-dependent attachment to others growing up.

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The pattern of this thing can be big or small, look at the individual, after all, the material basis determines the superstructure; but even if there is no congenital environment, the vision and the mind can be exercised day after day; but sadly, there are always people in this world who are self-sufficient and self-satisfied.

After finishing the intermediate interpreter, the friend went to a ramen noodle restaurant near the pilot to have lunch. She sat three opposites diagonally.

According to a friend's description, the three girls saw that they had not received much education to kill Matt. Whether it was from dressing up or behaving, the judges everywhere exude a taste of challenging aesthetic nerves.

The three men all spoke an authentic Shaanxi dialect, and they ignored the loud voices of the innocent people. One of the girls kept telling her history of marriage proposal from the beginning.

To put it bluntly, this is the case: the man bought her for 100,000 yuan, including the bride price, the banquet, and the car.

No matter whether her family does not need to give any dowry, the man has a house built by the county.

When she said these words, the two single girls next to her eyes were staring at the imitation of the cartier rhinestone that was turned from time to time on her ring finger, and she continued to give a marvelous tone of speech, which made the married girl quite useful, saying The more you start, the more you start.

"My fiancé spent eight hundred dollars to rent a super beautiful wedding dress for me. It is the same style that I wear when I am married to the xx star. Come back and show me to you!"

The chin of the wedding girl was triumphantly raised, and my friend mimicked me.

No ridicule, no contempt.

Needless to say, "Everyone has a different definition of happiness." "The people you are obsessed with are happy."

Only a woman who relies on her own ability to buy a set of exclusive wedding dresses, wears a wedding dress to bring a fake costume full of fake jewelry, and becomes a wife of a husband who is arranged to be blind and squeezed money for marriage. And how much respect and happiness can you get by relying on the poor recognition and satisfaction of others who are not in a good position?

I only know that women who can buy with money are not respected; happiness that can be compared is not sincere; it can be said that the sky is not the bottom of the frog.

Some things, the hard work and hard work can be justified.

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The pattern needs to be cultivated and grasped, and what kind of life will have what kind of life. We say that a woman has a pattern that means she is a person who is knowledgeable, independent, and thinks; what is terrible is that some girls enter a wider world, but they never have their own thoughts and opinions.

When the professional class teacher studied, there was a very beautiful girl in the same class. The long hair was gentle and kind, and the Tingting was beautiful. It is the image of the first love goddess in the heart of a typical boy. Walking on the campus, I can always get a high return rate. Naturally, she became a dream lover of the whole school and even the whole school male, and has a large number of pursuers.

Among the many admirers, the smarter A Jun stood out. He played a little trick and the girl was transferred to the same tutor, and began a long career of courtship.

The so-called near-water towers have the first month, and A’s daily care is ready, and the cold and warmth quickly makes the girls fall.

The girl is a different person, first came to other places; because she is too dazzling, her personality is introverted, she has no homosexuality and is willing to be her friend. Therefore, a little warmth is enough to make her dependent, not to mention her personal performance to her every day. Everything can be "feeling".

It is not difficult to imagine that when her relationship with A is getting more and more embarrassing, everyone will express some understanding when they are surprised.

However, to be astonished, it is because A's appearance is too unbearable. Regardless of the appearance of the association, the ordinary people will see that they will also feel that flowers are inserted in the cow dung. The facts also prove that the inner essence of A Jun is also a veritable cow dung.

That was the day after the two people got closer, A Jun asked the girls to sing and said that they were the activities of the students, and they helped in the past. But when the girl arrived at the scheduled place, she found that only A Jun was waiting there, and because of the friendly girls, she did not want to sing with A.

The next thing is that everyone will cast a hate, yes, A Jun did a special act.

Even more hateful, I returned to school the next day. A Jun not only did not have a hint of guilt and apology, but instead knocked every door on the floor, triumphantly swaying to all the boys; "Hey, I put yours." The goddess is up."

Since then, everyone in the school has seen the girl’s vision changed.

It should be said that the girls not only did not have an alarm, but even did not react with A Jun publicly recognized the relationship between men and women. This is why A Jun dares to be so unscrupulous, he counts her weak dependence.

Yes, the girl, even if she relies on it, must distinguish between right and wrong, and have independent personality and thought.

It is said that independence is the most beautiful gesture of a girl. Don't be vulnerable, just seek the protection and love of others.

You are a graduate student at a university, and you have excellent appearance. You have already worn a crown, and why rely on others as a scepter.

Therefore, a woman with a small pattern can only be vacant with a vase with its appearance, and the world is the most beautiful.

Life is your own, and the life with a sense of security is also created by yourself. Don't pin your emotions on anyone, and don't gamble on your own future, because no one will pay for your mistakes except yourself, not to mention a scum man who has no character at all.

Girl, don't get used to it, don't take anyone as your only reliance, because once you have a sense of dependence on someone, you are the same as exposing your softest part to others, you will be bound, then Slowly lost self, lost his fighting spirit, and accepted control.

Once you get used to the company of a person, you will lose your life, because your focus is no longer your own.

So, girl, you must have your own goals and pursuits, to be beautiful and independent. If you want to be happy, connect life with goals, not with someone or something. In this way, there is him, very good, without him, no big deal.

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Women who have a pattern are not good enough. They are willing to work hard, slowly laying the foundation for growth, and firmly choose the life track. Even if it is not natural enough, it is necessary to grind a skill and create a track that life has not given.

When I was learning Japanese, I met Orange Sister in the class. We are obsessed with the year. Orange sister is already in her 30s, but she still maintains the vitality, better body and delicate makeup of teenage girls.

It seems that the more lively and dying, her heart and dreams are as good as any young girl who just graduated from college.

She said that because there is no good environment, from small to large, there is no condition and ability to do what you like.

Today, she has finally created a considerable amount of deposits on her own. She hopes to regain the hobbies she had to give up because of the financial constraints and spend the rest of her life with her favorite lifestyle.

She comes to study Japanese every Saturday morning, and the rest of the holidays are arranged according to the time schedule to participate in a variety of very elegant activities such as temperament training, incense, flower arrangement or pottery.

I asked her, your life has been very successful, why bother to learn a small language in the icing on the cake.

She came back to me and lived until she learned that she could live a richer life. Why not make life more colorful?

Sister Orange is very interested in Japanese culture. She wants to go to the field for a self-service parade. She will learn some basic daily communication terms three months in advance.

I said, then your man and child.

Orange sister smiled. Today, I tried so hard to get it today. Isn’t it just to marry another person, but also have the opportunity to take the initiative to choose the level of life, and have the freedom to fight around men and children?

I have enough chips in the high water and long water.

Looking at the orange sister who shines from the inside out, I am even more determined. I must upgrade my height to live in my own way.

I remember a happy base camp, Fan Bingbing said amazingly, "I don't need to marry into the giants, because I am a giant."

Everyone is amazed at her vision and tolerance.

But I know that a woman has the confidence to say such a thing. There are many ways to see how cool it is, how many thorns and thorns have been experienced, how many times it has passed, how many steps have been taken, how to struggle and how to survive in exchange for Huaguan Lifu Yan pressure group.

You have to grow up, you have to work hard, you have to live a life of arrogance and arrogance, you have to turn your back and go forward.

Therefore, the girl, the pattern is far more important than the appearance, it embodies a person's vision, tolerance, insight, and heart, and it is a weapon that is surprisingly successful at all times.

It requires us not to use anything as the sole reliance and not to work; not to kidnap for advocacy, to be confused by dependence, not to complain about natural deficiencies; to take the first step and to grasp the future in our own hands.

So, girl, may you win the applause after a period of silence.