How can we work hard to make our dreams come to life?

The contemporary master Ma Yun once said such a sentence, "What do you want to have, if it is realized?"

This sentence inspired many people to ignite the dream of the chest. When we were engaged in a career and made a big effort, we did not expect the huge difficulties to follow.

This dilemma is: I have worked very hard, but why not see any effect?

First, the direction is wrong, the harder you work, the more you become confused.

In recent years, I have found a phenomenon that the number of students who come to learn accounting is increasing day by day. However, I have to say that not all people are suitable for accounting.

There is a saying that is good, "Don't milk the rabbit."

This sentence can lead to various interpretations. On the level of dreams, I think I can use this format to put it another way, that is, "Don't expect to bear your own fruit in the soil of others' ideals."

I remember that last summer, the class came to an exaggerated girl. When I was in class, I went over and talked to her. It turned out that she applied for the interior design profession, but her parents were very strong and felt that the design was not It’s reliable, and it’s common to hear that designers sometimes work overtime to work. So they think that girls’ homes are not so tired, or it’s better to get a safe job.

When I think about it, my family thinks that it is still a good accounting, so I gave her the main report to learn the training class here.

Through chat, I found a fact that this girl is not suitable for accounting at this stage. Because the most critical problem is that this ideal is more like the ideal of her parents, not the direction she chose.

Under such premise, how can there be ideal results?

I later suggested that the girl go back to talk with her parents and tell them about their true learning status and inner thoughts. Otherwise, if they continue to perform like this, they will be a good youth.

There is a saying like this: "If you don't have the right direction, you will never be chased if you want it."

Second, vigilance against invalid efforts

1. Don't indulge in things that bring you vanity.

At the time of going to school, there was a classmate in our class who was particularly good at writing. In our opinion, the copying of hard work is not only not bitter, but also a kind of enjoyment.

This is not a big deal. He actually liked the feeling of copying books. Every time he copied the book, he gave the book to the teacher. The teacher naturally praised him and called on our class to learn from him.

However, the classmates who wrote this word very well, but the results have been seriously declining.

After a long time, we just want to understand that he can give him a great sense of satisfaction by writing and looking at it. Because he is too easy to immerse himself in this kind of satisfaction, he gradually forgets why he relies on copying books. this matter.

Maybe he just started to copy books to strengthen memory, but it is clear that strengthening memory does not necessarily require the use of copying, and endorsement can achieve the same effect; in addition, from time to time, copying books takes up a lot of his time, so Naturally, there is not much time for reviewing the questions, and the results will naturally decline.

For this kind of effort, my point of view is result-oriented.

If you are determined to become a calligrapher, then concentrate on the wording; but if you want to improve your grades, you can put a copy of the book.

2. Don't underestimate the hard work and hard work before success, and don't want to make shortcuts.

Many people have asked me how to become a financial expert in the shortest time?

In fact, I think many people have heard a theory called "10,000 hours theory." In other words, if you want to be an expert in a field, you must at least 10,000 hours of dedicated efforts.

If you stick to this matter for four hours a day, it means 2500 days, almost seven years or so.

And if you have not continued to work hard during these seven years, but often give yourself a magnified fake, a release is a month long, then you can recalculate, how many years will it take to reach your desired height?

We always like to envy others, but don't forget that the achievements that others seem to have achieved effortlessly today are all after many years of hard work. The reason why they do not render is not to advocate, because in their place, this kind of effort is a normal life, they have formed this habit, which is as natural as eating and dressing every day.

3, do not pursue perfection in some small things, you must learn to put it down properly.

For example, in the early days of the public, I spent a lot of time researching fancy typography and used a lot of WeChat editors, but then I found this kind of thing too laborious, because I am the original public number, guarantee the quality and quantity of the article. It was my focus, so I gradually put down the demanding requirements for typography.

Now I have found an assistant who helps me typeset, post articles and answer simple questions in my spare time, while my main energy is on writing articles, answering readers' questions, career counseling and valuable interactions.

I remember that my friend Xiaomi in the circle said such a sentence, which means "the ability that you will not give up, one day will become your burden."

If you want to do something, you must learn to stand on a higher pattern and look down on it. When you need to find someone to work together, instead of immersing yourself in it, you are eager to make every detail, which will hinder you. growing up.

4. Create your own scarcity, don't try to cultivate yourself into an "all-rounder."

I still remember that when I first started writing the public number, there were several articles with good communication rates. Then there were various editors who found me and talked with me about the book.

At the beginning, I was very excited. I wrote a manuscript to review them according to the request of the other party. Then I spent a lot of time talking about conditions with them. However, the problem is that I am not a full-time author. I still have my own work and I have to write in my spare time. In addition, I am completely confused about the issue of publishing books. I don’t know what the conditions are, etc. If I start from scratch, it will take me a lot of time.

I thought about it, my strengths are not in negotiation, so I need to seek the help of professionals.

By chance, I met today's agents.

At that time, some friends said that I was stupid. After having a broker, the profit was to be divided with the other party.

But I think that it is because the other party divides the money, so the other party can take my things as their own things and go to the trouble. In addition, the agent is indeed very responsible. My first book has taken a lot of effort from selecting a topic to finding a publishing house to a later catalog. Usually, if there is any problem, he can basically do a "second back" message. All the way gave me a lot of help.

A master once said: "The worst thing is to do things that are not important at all."

We must learn to work hard and smartly so that we can achieve good results at an early date.

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