Fu Lei's book reading notes three

Fu Lei's book reading notes

"Fu Leijiashu" is an excerpt from the letter of Fu Lei and his wife Zhu Meizhen, written by Chinese famous literary translators, to Fu Cong and Fu Min. The letter was written from 1954 to June 1966. This is a book, but it is not just a book. Mr. Fu Lei studied in France in his early years and had deep knowledge in art and music appreciation. When he communicated with his son, he also made in-depth analysis of Chinese and foreign artists and his works. There were many classics for musicians such as Beethoven and Mozart. Comments. Therefore, "Fu Lei Jia Shu" is also an excellent aesthetic appreciation works.

Because Mr. Fu Lei’s education on him was too strict during his childhood, the relationship between father and son was not close. In the face of such a father-son relationship, Mr. Fu Lei expressed his regrets to his son at the beginning of the communication, and in his subsequent letters, he repeatedly mentioned that his education was inappropriate, and lamented that his son could avoid these disadvantages. Become a truly outstanding artist. His confession is also mixed with pride: when his son Fu Cong won the grand prize at the international piano competition, he could not help but praise: "I don't think you have such talents, I can't think of your spring coming so fast, flowers It’s so beautiful, it’s open to the world’s music scene to release your fragrance... My father’s always underestimated you, you broke my mistakes with your talents and hard work, I’m so happy, I’m so proud, I’m able to There is such a son who overturns my wrong estimate!"; When he feels that his son is more philosophical in his thoughts, he writes: "Your analytical ability is much stronger than before, and the attitude is very peaceful. Dad sees how strict the words are, how serious the thoughts are from the text, and will not praise you casually; and when he feels that his son is maturing, he does not express his love and praise: "Child, you Everyday progress and development: In the past two years, your understanding of life and art has taken a big step. I love you more and more, except that you love me because you are the flesh and blood of us. And because you have such a brilliant talent and love you: Just because I love all the talents, love all the works of art, so I also regard you as a general talent, as a precious art and love you. "These words, even those without culture, can easily comprehend, because the parents of the world are like this!

We often say "strict father", and the strictness of the strict father is based on the anxiety of the future of the children. It is a more tragic pay. Because when the children are still young, they often cannot understand the feelings hidden under the serious appearance, and it is likely to have a deep ditch between the parents and their children. Only when the children are mature enough, even until they are parents, can they truly understand their father. Mr. Fu Cong wrote in his own reply that "I am more and more aware of my father's "first being a man, second being an artist, ...". It is obvious that he has gradually understood his father's painstaking efforts.

Based on his deep affection for his son, Mr. Fu Lei expressed his concern that he had never exported by letter and ink. However, how can such a deep concern only stay on the level of expression?

In the letter to Chuan Cong, Chuan said: "The long and tiring letter to you is not empty, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I really treat you as a discussion. Art, discussing the opponents of music; second, I want to provoke some of your young people's feelings, let me be fathers' fresh nourishment, and also indirectly spread to other youths; third, train you by communication- ─ Not only writing, but especially your thoughts; Fourth, I want to be an alarm bell everywhere, to make a 'faithful mirror', no matter in being a person, in terms of life details, in terms of artistic accomplishment, In terms of playing posture."

From the above words, Mr. Fu Lei did indeed ask him in his letter to Mr. Fu Cong's "being a man, being an artist, and then being a pianist".

Mr. Fu Lei is very rigorous, treating friends like this, especially when it comes to work. He suffers from his own text is too "real" and not flexible enough to perfectly display the original look of some original works. For this purpose, he read the works of writers such as Lao She and seeks more lively words. Fu Cong's younger brother Fu Min described his father as "Dad's life is rigorous, that is, the correspondence is organized in an orderly manner. Every time the letter to his brother is numbered, the date of the letter is recorded, and the mother transcribes the bottom; the letter from the brother They are also numbered, sorted by content, and compiled by the mother into a book." This kind of teaching, together with the entrustment of the letter, "reminds you that the letter says 'self-righteousness' is 'self-is', this is a clerical error, but also I have to mention it.", "I blame myself and have no action, I am the most disapproving. This is the basic style of being a man, not only for someone, but I used to tell you, only the facts can prove you. The mind, only action can show your heart." It shows that he always puts forward his own advice on his son's methods of doing things and even some details of life. This is a brush that condenses the thoughts of a wise man.

Mr. Fu Lei was arrogant and resolute. He was persecuted at the beginning of the "Cultural Revolution". In the early morning of September 3, 1966, he and his wife Zhu Meiyu both angered and abandoned the world, and walked through their lives tragically.

His high clean morality is revealed in Fu Cong's letter. Since Mr. Fu Cong has been studying and performing in foreign countries, Mr. Fu Lei always reminds him of the importance of his motherland and nation. When Fu Cong wanted to return to China to visit relatives, he refused to relieve the government's economic burden. In fact, he was very eager to reunite with his son. This may be the conscience of that generation of intellectuals - not too much for their personal life, but the love of work and the motherland is always unlimited.

The excellent character of Mr. Fu Lei in the book may have disappeared in today's society, but as Pushkin said: and that has passed, it will become a cordial memory. Therefore, based on this, this memory is even more valuable.

Fu Lei’s family book, the essence of the text is beautiful, is the revealing of the true feelings, read to be touching. From his book, we not only solved the touching story between the father and the son, but also learned the truth of being human.

Fu Lei's book reading notes

<1> Really, Balzac said it well: Some sins can only be redeemed and cannot be washed! <2> In public organizations, it is inevitable to catch up with the task and hinder learning. I expected this point. Everything is only for you to use your firm will and position to turn to the leadership and forcefully fight for it. <3> I blame myself without action, I am the most disapproved!... Only facts can prove your mind, only action can show your heart. <4> The bitter tears are the wine that cultivates your soul. <5> The success or failure of success or failure is as far as possible, and only seeks to do everything in its power. <6> People have been in a climax for a lifetime - floating in the low tide. Only a mediocre life is like a pool of stagnant water; or if you have a very high level of cultivation, you can be completely relieved and truly free. <7> The sun is too strong, and the grain will be burnt; the rain will be too strong, and it will drown the crops. <8> A person can only face up to reality and face up to mistakes. Thoroughly perceive with rational analysis; it will not be eroded by memories. <9> The most afflicting is not mental labor, nor physical labor. It is worrying. <10>...Think more about life issues and cosmic problems. Think of the individual as small. Then naturally it will reduce the risk of suffering. As a result, the mind and body will be comfortable, but the work will go smoothly. <11> Life is limited and energy is limited. In the long run, the marathon will run well. <12> The thought of Chinese philosophy, the idea of ​​Buddhism, is to enable people to control feelings, not to let emotions control. <13> If you can incite the feelings of the audience, make them so drunk, crying and laughing. And you are like Taishan, just like the generals who dispatched thousands of horses and horses. That is your greatest success, it is the highest level of art and life. <14> A person does not have spirituality, and talks about theory. It does not become a modern scholarship, a worldly ruin, and an eight-member expert is also fresh! The most important thing for learning is "communication", "communication" can not be rigid, not pedantic, not sour And not eight shares; "pass" can cultivate the integrity, chest, and gaze. "Tong" can become "big". If you don't have a big blog, you will have the danger of sitting in the sky. <15> Artists and administrative work are always inconsistent! <16> The purest joy in the world is to appreciate art... <17> Always keep the heart of the heart, and you will not fall behind when you are old. . We can always be in harmony with the heart of the world. The contradiction is the symbol of vitality. <19> Only the physical body is forbidden, and the spiritual activity is the most complete: this is the law that has never changed. <20> As long as it is advanced experience, the Soviet Union must learn, and other Western European capitalist countries must learn. <21> Our pursuit of life, how many generations of people in history have pursued nothing more than perfection. But perfection will never be pursued, because people's ideals and fantasies never end. The so-called perfect like water flowers, mirrors in the moon, can not be expected. <22> A person’s service to the people does not necessarily have to stand at the conference or do a terrible big business. Tell others about what they know and think about whenever they want, and invisibly plant them for the country. Fertilization, cultivation. <23> One person must do one thing and must consider it beforehand. Especially when changing the strings, when you leave the old road, you must make your own reason a balance. Put the old road and the new road in two sets and weigh them precisely. Twenty-four children, terrible enemies are not necessarily superficial, and they are a kind of friendship, and sometimes they will delay your precious time. <25> Now I am convinced that this is a magical obstacle. Every day, the skill of the day is art craftsmen, not artists... Art is the purpose, and skill is the means. People who always pay attention to the means will inevitably forget the purpose. <26> Those who are not "thin" in their sexuality, like the "thinness" in action, are the most embarrassing and incomprehensible. Just as a person who is not naughty plays naughty, the result is a loss, a truth. <27> The minds of the Han and Wei dynasties are closer to the original, the taste is thick, and the sky is full. Under a thousand years, it is still a memory. <28> Art in particular requires hard thinking and meditation, and is always in the heap of people. There will be no opportunities for reflection; thoughts, feelings, and feelings cannot be well organized and summarized. <29> And there are not many people like Taibai, and there are few people who resonate. The so-called high and low! At the same time, the peak of snow will also make people feel "Jiong Yuyu, high places are not cold", ordinary people do not dare to admire. <30> People are animals with emotions after all. It is not a shame to show them occasionally. The thirty-one climax doesn't overwhelm you, and the low tide doesn't overwhelm you. <32> Art is not limited to perceptual knowledge. It cannot be limited to rational understanding. It is necessary to carry out the third part of the feelings. <33> What the artist needs most, in addition to reason, there is also a word of "love." <34> All great artists must have a unique personality and universal humanity. <35> Subjectively, things are expected to be fulfilled, and objective aspects still need to be prepared in case of failure.

"Fu Lei Jia Shu" is a very special book. It is the refraction of Fu Lei's thoughts, and can even be said to be the most important work of Fu Lei's life, because "Fu Lei's family book" is a letter between him and his son, which shows that as a father, he is bitter to his son. "Fu Lei Jia Shu" 100% reflects Fu Lei's thoughts. It is written on paper that is commonplace. He is free and unconstrained, how to think in his heart, how to write in the pen, do not have to worry about "review", and do not need to worry about "criticism." Because of this, "Fu Leijiashu" is like a clear stream in the mountains, such as the white clouds in the blue sky, such as seagulls flying freely at sea, such as innocent white pelicans, such as transparent crystals. Feelings are so pure, so simple. There is no hypocrisy, and there is no need to pretend to be a little bit. The meaning of "Fu Leijiashu" far exceeds the scope of Fu Lei's family. Everything in the book embodies a strong fatherly love. Perhaps every father loves his children, but while he loves, he does not forget to play music, art, philosophy, history, literature and even health. In all-round education, even if such a large China can reach such a level, there are a few people who are unknown. Because this does require sufficient conditions, the father must learn Chinese and Western, and the son must know the book, and the father and the son are more A full understanding of each other should be achieved on the basis of mutual respect and love.

The publication of "Fu Leijiashu" is a good thing to be gratified. It tells us that a pure, honest, sincere, noble soul, although sometimes subjected to unexpected sufferings, insults, persecution, falls into a desperate situation that seems to be in the hands of the crowd, and finally the true light cannot be forever hidden, Still have to know for everyone, let its light and flame shine through the world, get the respect and love it deserves.

Fu Lei's book reading notes

Introduction

"Fu Lei Jia Shu" is a "teaching book full of fatherly love, painstaking and painstaking, is the best art apprentice's self-cultivation reading." "Fu Leijiashu" is a collection of letters written by my famous literary translator, literary critic and art critic Fu Lei to his son. He has extracted 186 letters from Mr. Fu Lei from 1954 to May 1966. The longest letter is more than 7,000 words long. Between the lines, the father's love for his son, his expectations, and his noble feelings for the country and the world.

Introduction

The parents' teachings in the family book, the child's sincere exchanges with the parents, the affection between the words and the lines, the strong infection of the parents and children of the world enlightenment „„ “Fu Leijiashu” – the painstaking and fascinating teachings: condensing Fu Lei to the motherland, to the son Deep love. The first thing that the letter emphasizes is how a young person can behave and how to deal with life. Fu Lei uses his own experience to present himself and his own life experience to teach his son to be modest, to be rigorous in his work, to be ceremonially appropriate; to be discouraged in a difficult situation, not to be proud of the grand prize; to have a sense of honor and disgrace of the country and the nation, to have art and personality The dignity of being a "artist with both morality and art and outstanding personality". At the same time, Fu Lei also gave a useful guidance to his son's life. He expressed his opinions and suggestions on how to work and rest in daily life, to manage money correctly, and how to properly handle love and marriage. Fist and love the heart of the child, overflowing with words.

Personality characteristics

Fu Lei: rigorous, serious, meticulous, selfless love for loved ones, conscience, arrogant, ambiguous and resolute Mrs. Fu Lei: teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, education thought is very successful Fu Cong: hard work, first person, then become "home", life has Reasonable, rigorous, love music Fu Min: integrity, kindness, diligence

The most pure joy in the world is to appreciate the art... 33 Thirty-three artists need, in addition to reason, there is a word of "love." <34> All great artists must have a unique personality and universal humanity. <35> Things are subjective and hopeful, and objectively, there is still a need for a mentally prepared person. After all, it is an animal with emotions. It is not a shameful thing to show it occasionally.

The publication of "Fu Leijiashu" is a good thing to be gratified. It tells us that a pure, honest, sincere, noble soul, although sometimes subjected to unexpected sufferings, insults, persecution, falls into a desperate situation that seems to be in the hands of the crowd, and finally the true light cannot be forever hidden, Still have to know for everyone, let its light and flame shine through the world, get the respect and love it deserves. Fu Lei’s book gives us an understanding of past history and opens a window to preserve the memory of that era. It is precisely because of its existence that the Chinese nation’s excellent morality is clearly explained. It is not only Fu Lei’s child. Education is also the criterion for us to act.

A good parenting education is a good thing for children. It can determine a child's life. After all, parent education is the first teacher. Fu Lei used a good method to educate his son to become a talent. Endless. In addition to teaching people to act, Fu Lei’s book is full of family ties. The family revealed in the words is moving. I can't help but think of my parents. Although they are not great people, they are not as famous as Fu Lei, and they can't say the truth of people's affairs. But they think about everything for me. No matter what they do, they will consider it for me first. intend. Fu Lei’s book has many principles of being a human being, and it is a valuable spiritual wealth. However, isn’t the parent’s daily teachings a norm for acting?

Since the publication of this book, the enlightenment of people's morality, thoughts, sentiments, and cultural accomplishments has been deep and far. Up to now, its circulation has reached 1.1 million copies in more than 20 years, which is enough to prove its impact. It is a profound portrayal of both ordinary and typical modern Chinese intellectuals. It is a good book that can help us improve our self-cultivation. For our students, it is more worth reading.

Many families are looking for a child to become a dragon, and a woman is a phoenix. Therefore, a good parenting education is essential, but how many families can properly educate their children? In China, many families are not properly educated and parents do not communicate with their children. I don’t understand the child’s situation, I didn’t guide the child properly, let the child go astray, and finally regret it. Some parents think that children are not beaten up, there are countless domestic violence, so that the child is physically and mentally hurt, not only does not make the child sensible, but makes the child become rebellious. Parents should appreciate this "Fu Lei Family Book" when educating children with appropriate parenting education. In fact, as a child, we also need to look at it, because it can infect us, let us know that parents are well-intentioned, know how to thank their parents, it allows us to understand the appreciation of art, to behave in life, to get the right guidance. .