After hard work, even if others do not recognize you, you must learn to applaud yourself.

Many people hope to get recognition from others after they have worked hard. It seems that only the loud applause of others is the best recognition for themselves. Maybe you have worked hard for a long time, and the final result is still unsatisfactory. The applause of others is as sparse. You can not be sad at this time. Only you have witnessed your own efforts, you can also give yourself the most loud applause.

Applause is a kind of recognition and encouragement. Many people are waiting for applause to affirm their efforts. It seems that without applause, all efforts are in vain. Even if no one agrees with oneself, I have to applaud myself. After all, I have worked hard, isn’t it?

Because of a sly experience, let me understand that instead of waiting for others to affirm, it is better to self-recognize first. At that time, I carefully prepared a performance. When I stood on the stage and gave a performance, I noticed that some viewers showed a boring expression. When I finished the performance and bowed to the audience, only a few viewers applauded. I forced to calm down the stage, trying to control the tears that were about to be rushed out. If I had nothing to do with other performers, I heard the audience once again thunderous applause for the performance of others.

I can't stand the difference anymore, hiding in a place where no one is crying. After crying, I wiped my tears, performed again in that quiet corner, and applauded myself. I clapped my hand hard, as if to make up for the applause that I just didn't get. My hand was red, and at that moment, I knew that my efforts were not appreciated by others. I felt that I was doing well enough.

After this time, I no longer wait for others to identify and encourage me, and no longer deny my efforts for those who are irrelevant. Yes, those who are irrelevant have never seen my efforts on the stage, and I have not seen my efforts in the audience. Why do I have to be sorry for their evaluation?

The same is true of life. We are not alive to get applause. We don’t have to wait for the applause to ring to appreciate ourselves. Learn to applaud yourself and offer the warmest applause for your efforts and efforts.