Chen Guo Quotations

Chen Guo Quotations:

1. People are the most cruel to the closest people, because they are too close, and often do not see the advantages of each other.

2. Take care of yourself and care for others. Tianzhu self-helpers have to be happy and they flatten this bowl of water.

3. Make friends because I love him. Love him, don't make trouble for him, don't let him worry about himself.

4. Friends are not vassals, they will not only agree and compromise. In the real world, friends need to be as good as they are.

5. When I can't see everyone, I have a spiritual gaze on them. This gaze is called miss.

6. In order to create an atmosphere of being a good person → behind the self-sacrifice is the expectation of return – not caring.

7. Noble and true emotions are the only foundation of friends and the foundation of everything. Friendship will be ruined by hypocrisy and pretense.

8. There is no form of loneliness to follow. Loneliness is not about deliberately training yourself, giving yourself some kind of thought and certain temperament.

9. The tradition of gratitude. Be grateful for everything, the goodwill around you. Gratitude is not a "thank you" to go.

10. Loneliness is the most primitive and authentic state. After leaving the mother, the person has never physically been with anyone.

11. Loneliness is our destiny, but it is by no means a bad thing. When we can't change our destiny, we obey it with obedience and respect.

12. I can't bear to let my friends take on some utilitarian and cause trouble for me for my own reasons.

13. He is more lonely than fireworks. The fireworks bloom invisibly, disappearing into the air, and there is a short release, accompanied by boundless loneliness.

14. Yan Hui: “Do not anger.” “No.” It means that you vent your temper and unhappiness to your door, window, mobile phone or classmate.

15. This is fortunate, the thinker is lonely in the soul, the lonely person is extremely rich and interesting, has the most honest and reliable friends. Thought comes from loneliness.

16. You don't have to explain, I know enough about you, so I won't doubt you. Therefore, before becoming a friend, quite strict doubts are necessary.

17. Caring for the heart: The motivation for true care is deep in the heart. It is the least intelligent behavior to waste your time because of the drive of conscience and happiness.

18. A true farewell should have more room for commemoration, reflection, and aftertaste. Rather than being jealous, drunk – verbal violence, behavioral violence.

19. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, and loneliness is a carnival of one person.

20. Lonely people will need to socialize.

21. Loneliness does not ask for foreign objects, but seeks oneself.

22. Social is very cheap, valuable but not high.

23. Two masked people do not have to be friends.

24. Truth is the highest and noble, and beauty is only true and false.

25. Courage is demonstrated when reflecting on self, and self-reflection is the source of all thoughts.

26. Ask yourself: Why care for others? In what way? Only for the dedication of self-love.

27. Tolerance: Before you can tolerate others, you must also tolerate what you have to do, but not what you have done. Tolerate your own destiny and life.

28. Don't refuse to accept love. This is not weakness. Don't be afraid to dedicate your love. This doesn't mean losing. On the contrary, it reflects your wealth from the side.

29. “Keeping the silence” – The spirit of the Japanese tea ceremony is in harmony with the environment, showing a proper respect and not affecting your own quietness and coldness.

30. Loneliness is a cage of no comfort. Because lonely people are at a loss, they are restless. Their thoughts are thus barren and ridiculous, creating a sense of self-aversion.

31. The accumulation of loneliness is impossible to reduce loneliness, and the group of loneliness cannot jump out of loneliness - it is meaningless to repeat a myriad of meaningless things.

32. Friends should be useless. . When you are with him, you will feel free. The handle is silent, but the mind is clear.

33. Being alone with friends is also a kind of loneliness. But this kind of loneliness is better, it will be more comfortable than when you are alone. Because the real friends are completely undefended.

34. People often lack vision. Only pursuing an endless stream of goals. People are cruel and ruthless to their intimate people. Take it for granted.

35. A woman is using a hard, beautiful youth for a lifetime to maintain a promise. Her vanity is understandable. Anything is too cheap to say more. "necklace"

36. I don't install QQ and MSN, because I need my own time, many things don't need to be shared with others, and I don't want to fall into some conversations intentionally or unintentionally.

37. There are two types of treatment for the population. One is that the interests need to build connections, this is only mutual utilitarian; there is also the mutual warmth of the lonely people, which is cheap exchanges.

38. I am sorry if I say "I'm sorry". The real "sorry" is heavy, not only for the person you have hurt, but also for your own conscience and morality.

39. Social Motivation: Interests and Future Practical Relationships – Building a Network – The purpose of utilitarianism, using the tools he uses by others, or the warmth of a group of lonely people.

40. Those who are willing to be lonely: loves to love and love to read. It is always full of fun, and the broadness of creative thoughts can bring happiness and lasting loneliness to make the communication between thinkers and thinkers more smooth.

41. Distances must be maintained between people, and distances produce beauty. By relying too close, we will see more and more shortcomings. Two stones are thrown into the water, too close to each other, and the water waves will interfere with each other.

42. Friends are not friends, playmates, comforters in loneliness, spiritual shelters, not connections for any utilitarian reasons. It is often not a friend, but a lonely crowd.

43. Friends are luxury goods, and luxury things are not practical things. This kind of thing should be satisfied, because true friends, apart from friendship, can't give you anything.

44. What is loneliness? Loneliness is a disease, a spiritual hunger. Since it is a disease, it needs treatment. How do lonely people find a cure? The method is the crowd, and the lonely person always needs the company of others.

45. Lonely people also like to talk to nature and meditation. The soul of the communication with thoughts and souls is pervasive. The fun of the lonely people is the real fun. The catering and imitation can only be boring, chatting, and fun.

46. ​​Loneliness is not a pretense gesture, and loneliness is a state of mind. Silence is not necessarily lonely, there is no form of loneliness, it is the spiritual self-wandering of the lonely. It is called impetuousness, which is a kind of vanity, in order to attract attention.

47. Based on the equality of human nature, I love myself “self-love”: recognition of self-character and development is the foundation of caring for others. Knowing what is good for you will know what is good for everyone else, including me.

48. Friends are helping each other to understand themselves and to know each other better. When we understand the true nature of our friends, we must do our utmost to care for, defend and protect him. But this protection is not rewarding, and does not even require any response.

49. A true friend is a world of two. We are quiet but not deserted. One more person will inevitably have a topic that cannot be discussed together. This is a kind of distraction, from a kind of undefending to a kind of social. The world of three people is too crowded.

50. This belief: to help people be the foundation of happiness, care is to confirm the richness of the world in my heart. Be grateful when accepting the help of others. It is normal to not help you. Helping you is a kind of self-dedication in his heart, which is worth remembering.

51. Real friends are not always connected or related. After two or three years, the person on the phone seems to have never left. The so-called "friendship" that requires frequent contact to maintain is not reliable, because once they are not contacted, they will be broken.

52. Friends will not cancel loneliness, but teach you how to better accept loneliness, so that you will not feel cold in the lonely time, because of the friend's sense of empathy and spiritual tacit understanding. Loneliness at this time is a warm state, full and beautiful.

53. Some so-called confession and punching bags are language violence. It should not be used as an excuse for "this is trust for friends." This is an abuse of friendship. Friends should not bear this kind of catharsis. Soulmate, the soul of one, he \ she does not have to bear my trivia.

54. What is loneliness? Loneliness is the pleasure of stealing from the crowd. She is proud and beautiful, and she is completely spiritual freedom. Loneliness is to let us have time to be alone, to do "as I am", completely do not need to dress up, pretend, do not need to wear a hat to smoke the deep.

55. “Yangquan Xiangbao” is not just for those who give you good, but for all the people you can see in the world – after being infected, to infect others and share it with everyone else. Keep your eyes on what you have already got. The vision of the Jewish clan: spreading goodness everywhere.

56. There are no practical requirements for friends. When I have a crisis, you don't need to do anything for me, just stay with me. At this point, maybe just shaking hands with each other, but enough. The spiritual tacit understanding and sense of empathy are enough. I am not alone when you are there.

57. There are too many people around, so we are indifferent to the crowd. Many of us like to travel, why? Because we want to find a place where no one is going to exile. Why should we avoid others? Because lonely people are interesting people. Loneliness is the way I am looking for a pastime.

58. A friend is not a person who agrees with any of your opinions and attitudes, and greets his attitude, showing his weakness and compromise. Friends are often very harsh and even harsh to you. Because he can't bear to see you continue to fall.

59. Romance is not hypocrisy, utopia, a rare beauty of sublime and even sacred emotions.

60. If you treat your friends as a backup for male and female friends, then you insult your friendship and love.

61. A lot of things can be seen in time. Either go further and further, or get closer and closer.

62. The premise of a friend is sincerity. That is, when I am with a friend, I can be myself. Under the principle of equality, I can act and speak as I want. You can even think quietly without words. He can be himself in front of me, and I recognize that he can act according to his own will. I do not impose any principles.

63. "Feathering" self-disappearing material When I forget to study, the pleasure of communication: When reading, the other party is not talking about his own words, words that you have always wanted to say but can’t express - describe me or just want to say The thought of it's me wise man's life is that you suddenly disappeared in the corner of the dusty corner of the heart suddenly suddenly.

64. Both friends will not be bound by friendship. Friends are to make us more free to understand ourselves. Therefore, the time of encroaching on friends is also a sin. So that's why friends have to make an appointment before seeing them in between – how can you be willing to upset your friends' pre-arranged time plans?

65. True friends have always violated instrumental rationality. It has always been against any secular, utilitarian, and practical purpose. So instrumentalists and those who always use the "friends" to help themselves in the name of the other person will not have real friends. Only by giving up the idea of ​​"useful" can you have friends.

66. It is important that both of you become friends with a clear-headed person. This is why only lonely people can be friends, but only in this way can we distinguish between what is friendship, what is dependence, what is independence, and what is encouragement. There will be no unequal relationship between the protagonist and the accompanying person. Between friends, two people are equal and support each other.

67. Loneliness and loneliness are not equal to loneliness. The lofty self-contained system is a complete state. The loneliness shows that the noble and featheredness of the roundness is not missing. The loneliness is forced by the helplessness of nothingness, bored, anxious, confused, unable to Loneliness is the temperament brought by thoughts. There is no deliberate request for the environment: being alone or being in a lively situation is your own state of mind.

68. The beauty of friendship is the beauty of the soul of man, and the beauty of the soul requires the training of time and the test of life. Therefore, it is difficult for a friend to say: We often don’t know enough about it. We don’t know what the other party’s insurmountable moral bottom line is. We don’t know what the most important values ​​of the other’s life are, and we don’t know each other’s character. What is personality?

69. Don't ignore the function of time, don't underestimate the sharpness of time. We are often too anxious, based on saying that we are friends, and it seems that we will not grow up from now on. True friends are constantly changing, supporting each other, growing and maturing each other. A friend who is in trouble can not be established overnight. Whether you can be friends or not is determined by time.

70. When people need to be alone, spiritual freedom will give you a true self. Most of your time does not belong to you. It is occupied by other things. The external world occupies our sense of loneliness so that we can live happily. It is often a very interesting and rich self-selection of self-selection. In the solitude, it always enjoys the inexhaustible pleasure and constantly provides fresh resources to life.

71. Tolerance and confession: When you repent, you should not expect the other person to tolerate you and forgive you. This original intention proves that you have no regrets. You just want to get rid of each other's accusations as soon as possible. This is a kind of selfishness and utilitarian. purpose. When you are hurt, if this kind of damage can be smoothed out in time, then you have to be forgiving and forgiving. Don't let others bear the heavy spirit for your life for your reasons.

72. Caring and grateful: When we are a caring person, we should not expect the gratitude of others. Because we give care because we have the belief that helping others is the foundation of happiness, and caring is to prove my inner richness. At the same time, when we accept the help of others, we must have a grateful heart. The reason why he is going to help you is his self-dedication, and his dedication is worth remembering.

73. There is no such thing as “reasonable” love. He is good to you because he loves you, and implementation is an understanding, tolerance, and dedication to you. Love, in the final analysis, is only sacrifice, self-sacrifice, and love for others. Love makes us feel the warmth of the distance between people. But we tend to remember a stranger's help to us, but we can't remember the people who are close to ourselves.

74. It cannot be tolerant of misfortunes, frustrations, and sufferings. The emergence of non-free confrontation itself has created a kind of restraint and reconciliation. It is not the need to implement the power of free confrontation. But in order to take the other side to face the dilemma, can not change the fate, and accept this fate with respect, this is a reconciliation with life, is a noble obedient attitude, the attitude of the atmosphere is a gesture of noble and obedient attitude to the atmosphere.

75. Friends are rarely seen at first sight, just as a couple loves at first sight. A friend is not someone you can think of without worrying, and you can use your brain to output troubles and complaints. Otherwise, you are selfish. You are using your friends, not unprincipled mutual support, sharing, thinking for each other, not as a language trash can, emotion. trash can. Why do you feel that your troubles and pains are added to the other person? Complaints are a poisonous gas and debt.

76. Interpersonal communication, the language is of the lowest grade. When you can only communicate through speaking, the relationship between the two of you is far away. Intimate relationship, when you know that I know, a look, a handshake is enough. When you are with a real friend, you don't need language, no deliberate pretentiousness, no action. Because friends are healthy and peaceful air. When you are together, you are quiet but not deserted. Based on years of trust and mutual understanding, a relaxed atmosphere is formed.

77. Friends are not asking for, but for dedication. Why do you want to love him if you have love? Because this person makes you feel the tacit understanding that has never been seen in the spirit. Friends like the air, like water, "I don't always think about it, but it is everywhere." When a friend brings us a "compassion" in real life, when they encounter a crisis, they often don't find friends to help, but find some benefits. People with clearer boundaries help. Friendship is like love, so crystal clear, pure and beautiful.

78. The use of Chinese utilitarianism - traditional thought friends are useless - no utilitarian use. Making friends is not for use, shelter, or a safe channel of venting. A friend is so important that he won't let him take advantage of it, without any sensory stimulation. There can be no non-friendly factors in friendship. The gentleman's friendship is as light as water, and it is often remembered but everywhere. Friends are not real supplies, friends are luxury goods, once they have, they feel satisfied.

79. Loneliness is not a gesture, it is a real realm, a poetic dwelling of the soul. So there is no need to look for a specific quiet corner. Loneliness may show silence, but loneliness and silence are not necessarily related. The loner is a wandering mind and spirit. Smoking or drinking is just a means of paralysis or a cool way to create a false and false appearance. Those who have no thoughts and no spirits can't be alone. At best, they are just a lonely person.

80. People are “squatting”. We are often in a crowded environment where people interfere with each other, lack respect, and constantly need to speak with others, so they rarely talk to themselves. It is because of the loss of interest between people, and the noise caused by crowding is against our leisure and tranquility. When you are quiet, you will appreciate the beauty of life and the beauty of others. Only when you don't have to be forced to talk to others, will you talk to yourself. Dialogue with yourself is self-reflection and wisdom when thinking about yourself.

81. The gathering and spiritual sharing between true friends must be two worlds. It is not easy to find a topic of common interest between two people. It is even harder to find topics that are of common interest to three people. It is natural for two people to talk without deliberate. When three people talk, one of them will be out of the topic. At this time, the other two people will need to take him into this topic because of friendship, and deliberately say that he will be interested. Sincerity does not need to be deliberate, no need to pretend, even if this deliberately has goodwill. The best state of conversation is: When I talk to you, there is only you in my eyes, in my world.

82. Friends should have "sympathetic understanding" and "compassionate understanding" sympathy: feelings of empathy. The heart of compassion: the same body and great compassion. When you don't have time to reject me, I won't take it because I know that if I were you, I must do it. I know that you have more important things to do. Friends, like the air, coexist with each other, but there is no interference. Will not be jealous and will not be restrained. The laborious task between anyone is an explanation. Between friends, there is no need to explain, compassionate understanding, understanding of sympathy.

83. Learning: “Learning” refers to imitation and emulation, and “study” refers to practice and practice. “Learning to learn from time to time” means continually investing what you have learned and emulating into your life, thus becoming an intrinsic requirement from an external standard. Confucius and his disciples lived together, getting along with each other. Jesus and his 12 disciples are also where he went and where they followed. Therefore, true learning is to seek the power of example. Real learning is to seek spiritual master. The spiritual instructor will use his words and deeds to silently tell you the difference between mediocrity and greatness. Lao Tzu once said: Do not teach. Real education does not require too much language. "The heart will be the gods" "can be understood and can not be said" This is the truth of things. "Threesome, there must be my teacher" role model in life.

84. Interpersonal communication, the language is of the lowest grade. Friends don't need to define. The human language is so vulgar that when we produce real sorrow and shock, we tend to say "I can't express in words" - vulgar language can't carry such rich emotions. And all the traits of friends are high above the vulgar, and they are all beyond the vulgar. The best criterion for measuring friendship is that when you are with friends, your heart is satisfied, and the higher is peace. There is no need to do anything, there is nothing to say, no enthusiasm to break the cold, not to invest. What a friend brings is not a lively popularity. What a friend really does is to let us better understand the happiness of being alone, far more than the happiness of one person alone. Because a person is embarrassed, uneasy, and skeptical when he is alone. When you are with friends, it is absolutely safe, relaxed, peaceful and fit.

85. The love of an old wife, like the air, does not require language communication, but it is irreplaceable.

86. How can a superficial and short-term exchange have a deep understanding and know that you are only valuable to you?

87. Confession is facing reality. If it is wrong, it is wrong. Do not explain. Repent, but don't overdo it.

88. Only those who have a sense of loneliness and who look at themselves may have precious friends.

Personal profile:

Chen Guo is often used in the name of the person, Chen Guo, a girl after 80, was born in Shanghai. Dr. Fudan University's philosophy department, known as "Fudan North District" one of the three treasures, has studied under Dr. James D from Harvard University, Ph.D., Evelyn, Ph.D., University of Chicago. He is currently a teacher at the Department of Social Science Foundation of Fudan University, “Ideological and Moral Cultivation and Legal Basic Course”. In July 2019, the video of Chen Guo’s lecture was hailed by Fudan University students on the Internet, which quickly became popular on the Internet.