You can be immature, but you can't grow

Why is growth, not maturity? Maturity is a result, a state, a state that tends to be perfect, and growth is a journey, a time of progress. Only on the road of growth, I have traveled far and far, and I have traveled all over the world to see through the scenery. I will be able to take up the word "mature" when I am able to carry the foot and foot in the front.

Maturity needs to go through a lot of hard work to achieve, and growth is how hard it is. Before maturity, the problems and worries that are faced can still be tolerated. After all, there is a gap between reality and ideal state. However, if you don’t grow up and don’t go through hard work, it’s the stagnation of thought and the laziness of action.

We can be immature, but we can't grow.

Growing up is an important proposition in life, and can even be called the clearest one. When people live, they want to live their lives in adulthood. In the so-called destiny, they infuse people into the ingredients of heaven, and this process is actually growing. Whenever I see the status of some teachers and employees on Weibo, their busyness and hard work often make me feel bad, but when I see them transforming the effort in their work into the growth in their life, they feel more Happy. Some of them will tell me that the work is very hard, but it is very rewarding, especially when I look back after busy, the pay has become a growth, I feel very worth it.

These young people who are in the midst of a good age, using growth to define youth, are naturally worth encouraging, but I often say one more thing, slowly.

Take your time, don't worry. Growth, not only through hard work, but also through the birth of time, can produce a series of positive results. Just like backing up English words, some children will ask me how can such a thick word book be smashed down? I said, don’t worry, don’t worry, chew slowly, follow the words of the teacher’s class. Laws, day by day, step by step, unconsciously, the words that are backed down are all backed up, far better than the horrible food produced by the gorging.

It is like stewing soup, waiting for a few hours, but also simmering slowly, looking around, and taking a pot of material to taste good nutrition. Growth is also true, not eager, not only in the pace of the disease, but also in the mentality to be as calm as possible, blindly anxious, quick success will wipe out your intelligence and sobriety. When Yang Zhenning mentioned his own growth experience, he believed that his father's philosophy of “getting it slowly, not rushing” gave him a calm mentality and enough space for exploration, so that he could learn happily and grow up happily. . Some young people are indifferent to their own immaturity. Of course, there is indeed a kind of growth in the world that has been formed overnight. However, this growth often comes from major accidents or incidents. Many people Can't be so fortunate or unfortunate, so forced to grow up.

In this world, more growth is carried out through continuous struggles, and it takes time to experience the mature situation. You may not be mature enough, or even mature enough, but it is good to be on the road to growth, from small growth to your life, all in an hour and an hour. Day after day, year after year, every step of the way is down to earth. When you look back, you will find that time will be carved into growth, the maturity you are looking for, has grown up in you. Body.