I also know what I want, and it’s never too late.

One of the most shocking messages I knew before graduation was that a certain school student dropped out of school. It is said that I have never liked the major of the university. After a few quarrels, the family couldn’t beat him and he could only drop out of school. Fortunately, the family was in a good family, and the English grade of the schoolmate was also very good, so I decided to re-apply to a foreign school.

The younger brother is a little younger than me. I have worked with me and I am very reliable. After the school dropout, he ran to ask me: "Sister, do you think that I am particularly stupid?" After all, in the eyes of ordinary people, one year after graduation, they gave up their domestic academic and undergraduate diplomas. It is a particularly uneconomical thing.

"One thing, but it's okay," I said.

"In fact, I hate the profession I am reading now. Reading well is just the inertia of learning. I have finally found out that I can't bear it anymore. I know what I like, my dream. What is it, I don’t want to waste time doing things I don’t like.” The younger brother said a lot.

"Let's cheer, go get your dreams." I said.

The message of a couple who have been together for a long time has attracted everyone's regrets. After all, many years of youth have been lost. Although both sides said that they broke up peacefully, the boys appeared to be particularly depressed. Later, they knew that the girls broke up because the boys were not the kind of people they wanted.

After a long time, I saw a girl. When she was eating together, she took the initiative to mention her ex-boyfriend: he was in good condition in all aspects and was very good to her, but the longer he got along, the more inappropriate he was. He can't satisfy the type she wants. The person she likes can conquer her and lead her instead of being directed by her.

The people around, including her parents, think it is unwise for her to break up. After all, it is not easy to find a suitable age. She asked me the same question as the schoolmate: "Do you think I am stupid?"

"It’s better to know who you want now than to get married and regret it."

On the last day of my trip to Dalian, I went to see the "Old Boy's Raptors Crossing the River" with two chicks. Two 40-year-old men are still living a lonely life for their musical dreams. Wang Xiaoshuai’s wife said to him: “I hope that you will find a stable job, and An’s heart will live.” Your dreams are sometimes incomprehensible to even the closest people. “Dream” is often understood as "Idiot people say dreams." Most of the people around you, including parents and lover, still expect you to live a stable life. They don't understand your dreams. You can only expect your food and clothing to be worry-free.

The words at the end of the movie made me particularly impressed: "When we graduate today."

Life is a process of trial and error.

Constantly correct your own ideas, constantly understand what you want, until you get closer to your own pursuit. Often the life we ​​realize is a constant compromise. But one day, the things you want will break through the bondage and become more and more intense.

Also know what you want, it will never be late.