Inferiority is worse than mania

Dear students, dear friends, good evening everyone!

When someone is standing on such a stage, many of our classmates will be envious. I will think, maybe I will speak better than he said. But regardless of whether the classmate standing on the stage is facing failure or the final success, he is already on this stage. And you are still just a bystander. The core element here is not whether you can give a speech, whether you have a speech or not, but you dare not stand on this stage. How many things we have in our lives is because we dare not do it.

Yu Minhong: Inferiority is worse than arrogance

There used to be such a boy who had not spoken in a relationship for four years in college and did not participate in a cadre campaign for the student council class. Who is this boy? He is me.

When I was in college, don't I want to fall in love? Why didn't you? Because I first saw myself flat. I am thinking, if I go to chase a girl, this girl may say that you pig, actually dare to chase me, I really want to eat swan meat. In the case of this, I can do anything but hang up and dig a hole in the hole. So this kind of fear blocks all the emotional feelings that should have happened in college.

Actually, I want to come, this is a ridiculous thing. How do you know that there is no girl who likes pigs? Even if you are rejected by a girl, what about it? Will this world change because of this? People who see themselves too high, we say that he is arrogant, but a person with low self-esteem must be worse than a man of arrogance. Because a arrogant person may still be able to catch an opportunity in his life that was not his, but a person with low self-esteem will always lose the opportunity that belongs to him. Because of inferiority, you will be afraid, you are afraid of failure, you are afraid of others' eyes, you will feel that the people around you are insulting and insulting your eyes to see you, so you dare not do it. So you degrade yourself with an element that should not be degraded, and you lose your courage. All the doors in the world are closed.

When I resigned from Peking University, as a teacher of Peking University who was about to become a professor, I immediately changed to wearing a broken army coat and carrying a paste bucket. I went to Peking University to post small advertisements. I just started to feel filled with fear. I think this is my student, and if so, the students will come over. Teacher Yu Yu, you are advertising here. I said, yes, I went out from Peking University to do a training class myself and posted my own advertisement. The student said, Teacher Yu is not in a hurry, I will help you post it. I suddenly found out that the students did not look at me with a kind of demeaning eyes. The students just said that Teacher Yu came to help you, and said, I will not only help you. Post, I am still watching here, not letting others cover it. Gradually I realized that in this world, only when you overcome your fears and don't care about others' eyes, can you grow. It is also with such courage that slowly increases, I have my own business, have my own life, and have my own future.

Looking back, I think about it. Ma Yun, one of my friends who is very popular in the world in recent days, is much better than me. Ma Yun has many similarities with me. Of course, it is not similar in appearance. Everyone knows that there is still a gap in this appearance. He looks more distinctive.

We both took the college entrance examination for three years. I was admitted to the undergraduate course of Peking University. He was admitted to the specialization of Hangzhou Teachers College. Everyone immediately discovered that in this sense, I should look better than him anyway. But the excellence of a person is not because you are admitted to Peking University, it is not because you are good at Harvard, and it is not good because you look good. The true qualities of a person come from the intense desire to be better and the passion for life. Both of Ma Yun’s bodies exist.

If at that time, Ma Yun can succeed, Li Yanhong can succeed, Ma Huateng can succeed, Yu Minhong can succeed, and all of us are from ordinary families. Today, you have more than one hundred times more resources and information than we did at that time. You have no reason not to succeed.

When we have the courage to take the first step, we must first overcome the inner fear, because in this world, only you can walk in the footsteps you can hear.

So I hope that the students can seriously think about what kind of fear I have in my heart, what kind of fear I have in my heart, and whether I care too much about other people’s eyes, because these things, my quality of life is not affected. Because of these things, I dare not take the first step of my life, so that my life path will not go any further. If this is the case, ask the students to bravely face your fears and bravely speak to others' eyes, No!Because I am myself.

thank you all!