Girl, why don’t you stand up and struggle

When you are young, you should have a foresight and perseverance. I saw people around me falling in love, seeing who went to KTV, and seeing who stayed in the dormitory for a few days online. So, you can't hold your breath, you doubt what it is for now, why others are comfortable and comfortable every day, and I have to be lonely and constantly struggle. Especially when you are still a girl?

An aunt told me that when she was in her twenties, all the people around her were married, but she was not alone. Looking at the old colleague who was holding a child who was more than one year old, she appeared in front of her. She only went home and silently swallowed tears. Just at this time, she met my uncle, and everything was right, she married herself. Originally, she reported a college training class, but after marriage, there is still time to read books, and it is even more impossible to have children. Another woman who can be with her is different. She is 26 years old and 26 years old. In a small place, in the last century, she could basically marry her life without waiting for her. However, she has been sulking, short in the neighborhood of women, and steadfastly learning in gossip. Needless to say, at the end of this story, the aunt language told me with great enthusiasm that the woman who is now has gone to Shanghai, talking and behaving, and her vision is far from what she can match. And all of this started with the university's refresher class.

The mother said that the happiest life of a woman is a life of rising life. The most tragic women I have ever lived in are those who were young and cared for in the palm of their hands. They failed to marry a good husband. After the youth turned away, their ages went up, and they did not work hard at the golden age. After that, life will go all the way down, losing the biggest and only capital, but in the end of his life, he can no longer adapt to the situation and life that is not in the hands of everyone. In his 40s, he sold vegetables in the market, fluffy hair and dark yellow skin, burying his head in bargaining, and even never noticed that acquaintances passed by. What about youthful beauty? This woman is the worst woman I have ever seen.

Girls in their early twenties are undoubtedly the most beautiful and beautiful years. But most of the girls at this time are not clear about their own lives. We don't know what we want, what we are pursuing, how can we get happiness. Indeed, if you spend the most beautiful time in love, comfortable and comfortable every day, it will be one of the most beautiful memories, but after the good?

Beside you, the boy who is in his twenties and has nothing to do with childishness. If he chooses to struggle, then in time, your horizons will gradually separate. When the heat of love fades, he repeatedly shows good to mature female colleagues. Don't be jealous that he has no conscience. After enjoying your best years, but not giving you happiness, after all, life is not maintained with moral condemnation and conscience.

If he chooses to play with you, then when people go to middle age, when you look back at life and compare with people at different levels, you should regret that you have dragged your lover, or you are listening to Shakespeare’s “true love makes people When you are up, you are wondering if there is true love between you? Then please don’t ask the husband’s brain to be incompetent when he is in financial difficulties. You know, you have at least half of the credit for this status quo.

Girls, whenever you have, have your own goals and efforts.

I have seen many girls, who have a lot of goals and pursuits before they fall in love, talk and behave in a generous atmosphere, and do not want to have all kinds of abilities. After I fell in love, I only saw a little girl who was also behind the boys. The three words were her boyfriend, and the whole life would be around him in advance. Maybe you will say that women should show weakness and be too strong, and boys will stay away from it. What I want to refute is that the premise of showing weakness is that you are strong, rather than relying more and more on frogs in the greenhouse of love. You are not a bird in the golden cage. When you are about to fly, you find that you are not adapted to the cruel world outside. Moreover, if a girl has a goal and a dream is called strong, then I want to say that such a boy is too weak, he wants to use the weakness of the girl to maintain his weak self-esteem.

I have always despised those sensational men. In my opinion that may be extreme, men should do great things, not completely indulge in their children. Lyricism is a responsibility for a woman, and is not responsible for all others, including himself. Fu Lei said to his son in his family book that he should not ease his career because of women or feelings. The patriarchal thoughts inside us are for the time being, and his arguments are not unreasonable. How many heroes are not saddened by the beauty?

Every successful man has a powerful woman behind him. Maybe you can't force it, but at least you don't want to be the pull-down resistance in his efforts to get on the road. You know, the gravity of the earth is so big that it is not easy to drag a tail. Moreover, the most important thing is not this, but when do you still have to endure all kinds of irrationalities in the patriarchal society?

Why are you struggling? I want to ask you why boys are struggling and you are not?

The saddest thing is that the sages reveal the truth to mankind but are misunderstood by the masses and are killed by the people he loves like Socrates and Jesus. However, after countless women have rushed for the society of equality between men and women, more contemporary women imagine and resort to the natural means of losing weight, facelifting, makeup, whitening, and then marry a rich second generation sitting in BMW and adult life. dream. You have to know that there are not so many rich second generations. You have to know that putting a vase at home will also be awkward. You have to know that the young and beautiful girl is like a green onion.

In fact, these are still the words of masculinity. Why do you struggle because you have always been and should be an independent individual.

Don't think that because the status quo is unreasonable, you think that it is the right state. Don't slip back to the comfortable little home because of your inertia and the strong inertia of history. And the family has more than just ease, it also has trivial housework, day after day vulgar TV series, but how long you are full of mourning all the sights will be short of your parents.

Whenever I think of Nightingale, she opposes the resistance of the whole family, and then resolutely opens up a new profession, I can't wait for tears; the Republic of China Qiu Jin, Xu Guangping, to the police, how many women break through the secular prejudice In pursuit of freedom of love, how many women save the country as a man like a man; not to mention the country after the founding of the country, women have worked like men, digging trenches, and entering factories. Of course, this is also widely criticized by today's people as having no female characteristics. Whether this is completely reasonable, we will leave it for the time being. But looking up, what about women now?

Too many women's dreams of life are to catch a golden turtle. No one comes to rule her, but she automatically sends it to her door. More and more female college students imagine that they are not fighting for a world, but marrying a good man and realizing a leap in life. How many women rely on their faces to gain a position. Woman, don't be self-deprecating, don't be self-respecting. The society is falling, you are not clean and you don't need to be the first to fall. The door of the times has been opened up on equality between men and women. Women, don’t let this door be hidden because of yourself.

You know, Lin Huiyin, who made the three men unforgettable, she has more than just a beautiful appearance. She also has outstanding writing skills. She went to the United States to study with Liang Sicheng less than 20 years old, and Liang has a common interest.

Woman, please don't wait for a man to give you happiness, give you money to care for you. Waiting like this is like buying a lottery ticket. Why don't you give yourself happiness yourself. Before you have the luck to get the happiness that a man gives, please have the ability to give yourself happiness. Or, you shouldn’t wait like this, it’s the same society, why do men fight really, and women have another completely different success trail? Whether it’s rugged or swift, the rules of the Chinese society are also Learn the United States as a double standard?

When every successful woman talks about it in an interview, she has to say: woman, too good, unless there is a good man, otherwise there is no good end; the glamorous female anchor, the beautiful face is not a trace The well-known pain, the heart of the heart said: women, there is no fairness in the workplace; beauty life is smooth, ugly women can not turn over; the whole society's pursuit of women's beauty is as high as the pursuit of men's success, or, women The greatest success is potentially defined as the beauty of the face and the devil's body, the fastest way to succeed is to rely on beauty. When all this is the status quo that you are aware of, do you not want to make a little change?

One hundred years ago, our students did not have the opportunity to study freely. The bullies were bullied, the warlords fought, and how many family fathers sold their daughters. The old man starved to death. But the sacrifices and efforts of many generations have been exchanged for everything we have now; one hundred years later, if China’s land still suffers from high prices, food is unsafe, medical is insecure, going out, fearing being hit, children afraid of being abducted Then this will be a shame for our generation!

A hundred years ago, several generations of women broke through the shackles of feudal marriages. You now have the opportunity to fall in love with your boyfriend. One hundred years later, if your offspring still have to endure injustice in the workplace, they will continue to be vulgar in their families for the rest of their lives. It’s still a shame that the ugly woman will never have a day.