The world is so big, it’s the same everywhere.

From the media writer Xiao Li’s sentimental article on the resignation letter of “The world is so big, I want to see it”: the world is so big, it’s the same everywhere.

"The world is so big, I want to see it." A female teacher's resignation letter triggered a hot discussion on the Internet for many days. I saw the girl's photo, a typical literary young woman, but don't forget, she has a skill. Young female literary and art, senior psychology teacher, is also a young woman of literature and art with a certain economic accumulation. She has been teaching for ten years, the backbone of the school, the rich people are not counted, but it is still possible to stop and hang in the world. .

So, I really didn't think there was any good discussion. People live to a certain age, have a little money, have a little skill, and want to change a living method, that's all.

I think most people are also listening to a piece of music, and then continue to work at the desk. However, I can't get it, my heart is longing for it. I always feel that this reinforced concrete lattice has imprisoned your imagination. The secular responsibility has broken your flying wings. I always hope that one day I will be willful again, and I will take it back.

Longing for? Longing for. However, the truth may not be as good as imagined.

A girl lost her love, has money, is willful, resigned, carrying a bag and began to travel to European countries. But wherever you go, you are sitting at the lake, at the top of the tower, in the mountains, in the square, crying a lot, swimming back in a circle, then calling the ex-boyfriend.

A business owner, the company has reached the bottleneck period, daily anxiety, insomnia at night, friends distressed him, go, retreat. He dragged him to a golf course on a hill a thousand miles away for a few days. In the super five-star luxury suite, he still sees his sleepless nights; in the mountains far from the earth and the beautiful scenery, he still looks at his lonely night.

The world is big, but if you go around, you can't walk out of your own state of mind.

San Mao can write the Sahara, not because she has traveled all over the world, but because she is San Mao; whether the female teacher can be happy after she resigns, not because she resigned or not resigned, watching the world or staying at home, but in her own No ability to be happy.

"The world is so big, I want to see it." The reason why this sentence is so fascinating is that most people are so dissatisfied with the present life. Because I am not satisfied, I want to escape. But don't forget, the land you step on, the blue sky above your head, the people and things around you, are also part of this world. You can't appreciate the scenery around you. What ability do you have to look at the world outside?

"The world is so big, I want to see it." The reason why this sentence is taken away is because we pin our hopes on an impossible illusion to dispel our inability to live in the present. No matter the pressure of work or the helplessness of family life, it seems that it is insignificant and irrelevant in the vast world that cannot be touched in the future. But you may never really take the step of running away from home. You are thinking about the way you have gone, walking through your bleak life and soothing your desperate mood. You don't have the courage to put your eyes from the future of imagination into your real life. Objectively and calmly analyze and bravely seek change.

In the film "Road of Revolution", the couples played by Leonardo and Winslet lost their passion in day-to-day heavy work and boring family life. Both husbands are eager to find another possible future, to live an artistic life in their dreams, and to regain the flame of love. However, they do not have the ability to change their lives in ordinary days, and they lack the spiritual power to break through from the inside out. Therefore, the two hoped to use the conversion of large scenes to change their lives with vigorous measures. They decided to move to Paris, France. This is the Hollywood version of "The world is so big, I want to see it."

In the end, the actor was shaken. After all, not everyone has the courage to go out. In desperation, the heroine let herself abort through self-mutilation and died in the hospital. In fact, even if they moved to Paris, the mentality and mental state of the hostess would be the beginning of another painful cycle.

Then don't go out and have a look?

of course not. Looking outwards makes us open, diverse, and rich, and everyone needs to broaden their horizons and enhance their levels in a broader world.

Going to Penghu to see the Mosuo people's marriage, you may have a new perspective on love and marriage; Go to Seda has seen the celestial burial, you will have a new understanding of life; from the Nile River, down the stars, the stars Human civilization makes you feel that your life is just a small splash in history.

But our exploration of the world must be based on a sublimation on the enjoyment of real life, rather than escaping.

People who are happy in real life are happy outside, and those who run away from reality are depressed.

The world is so big, it is the same everywhere. I am very good. When I go on, I will step on the lotus flower and step by step. I am depressed. When I go there, I will see the mountains and see the water and hate the water.

The world is so big, and your path of practice begins with a single step.

About Xiaoli:

Xiao Li, female self-media writer, emotional consultant, special guest of global information broadcasting.