Dare to admit that you are different

I always like to look at other people's lives. In our eyes, the right or wrong of one thing seems to depend on the number of people who are doing it. Gradually you find that you have to do the same thing with them, otherwise you will be seen as an alternative by outsiders, and as a kind of person who is not gregarious.

When you were young, when you found out that your point of view was different from others, you would raise your hand without hesitation and say your opinion aloud. When you grow up, you find yourself many times different from what they said. But you never raise your hand right away, because you see that most people say that it is right, so you naturally kill your point of view in silence. In fact, sometimes you also know that your point of view may be right, but because you are afraid that when you say it will be laughed at by others, you will be said to be nonsense, so you would rather choose silence and admit that most people think it is right.

Have you found out that you can't admit that you are different from others, and you don't dare to say something different from others. You see that others are doing that, so you are doing it later. You always hear people say that the thing is right, so later you said that it is right, you don’t even think about it, do you really want to Do it or is it true? When someone suddenly asks you why you do it, you will even answer because everyone is doing this.

I saw a girl while running on the playground some time ago, and her impressions on her are still very deep. Let me notice that her reason is not much longer and more beautiful, but when we are all running counterclockwise along the playground, only she is running clockwise, so it is particularly noticeable. It didn't take long for me to hear someone commenting and suspicion about her behavior. Why is she running like this? Is she okay? There are problems, I want to attract attention... All sorts of sayings, anyway, many people think that there is something wrong with running like this, even though they can't say anything. Later, I was thinking that the biggest problem might be that her direction was different from their direction. But whoever stipulated it must be counterclockwise.

This reminds me of my high school. I used to run along clockwise before running. I can't say why, I feel that it is not so comfortable to run counterclockwise. I later found out that I was alone in the same direction as they were every night. I think that I was like this girl in their eyes at the time. It seems that this practice is an alternative to them. But I couldn't hear these sounds at the time, because I had a habit of putting on headphones to block all the sounds around when I went to the playground. One person ran for two years in the opposite direction.

In fact, this is not a big deal. What may make them most unreasonable is why I always like to run when it rains. Every time I get drenched. Every time I finish running, they will pull me and ask what is going on, nothing, like it, because in their eyes, it seems that only those people who are in a bad mood will risk heavy rain, so I should be bad mood. Every time I say that I am fine, I will see that their suspected eyes are falling on me. I told them that I just liked that feeling, and then they undoubtedly said that they were "sick".

Ok, I admit that I might be the kind of person who is seen as someone else by others. But why is it because it is different from the way they do it? Can we not have a unique approach to ourselves? Do we have to choose what everyone thinks is right? Do you all say that it is wrong? We must not do it?

Do you know what shape it is? Round. Really? I am not sure, but everyone said so... This reminds me of an article in the elementary school. It seems to be about painting carambola. There is a child who draws differently from other people. I I think this time we all think that this child is wrong, because only him is different. The result is that he is right, but he looks in a different direction. Many times we see things like this carambola, we are the people who paint the carambola, then do you dare to be like this child, when you find yourself painting different from others, dare to come up with their own paintings.

In fact, each of us is not exactly the same, and there are always some differences. Start with what you have to say, because they have to go. If you don't go, you will be seen as someone who is useless. Maybe it is not what you really want to go. Maybe you find that you think that you are always different from the people around you. If you want to do that, you can't convince yourself to do the same. In fact, this does not mean that your ideas can't be agreed, but you always come from Another point started.

We have to dare to admit that we are different. When you want to do something, just think that it is not so much after careful thinking. Sometimes we need to hold our ears and look at the direction of our efforts with our eyes. There is no need to listen to so many different voices. As long as you think it is right, don't be afraid to be said to be a different kind of person. You have to understand what you want to do, not just people. If you look at what others do, you must be like them. This is not a rebellious mentality, but everyone should know when they are real themselves, not in the eyes of others.

So dare to admit that you are different, and admit that you are different is an affirmation of yourself.