How to have fate decision-making power and opportunity creativity

If the real life is a movie arranged by God, and you choose to listen to the passive role of playing the known role, or take the initiative to attack, add a different story for your story?

Perhaps unconsciously, when we begin to make arrangements for our lives with superstitions and numbers, you actually lose confidence in yourself...

I have never made any predictions about my future, nor let anyone predict my future. I think the future is in my hands. Even if my life is gone tomorrow, it is still in my hands today. ......

We often listen to people around us about fate and luck. What is fate and luck? Is there a fate? I have the following points, and everyone can share it.

No one can predict your future except God. If anyone can know the future through prediction, life is not worth living.

First of all, I believe that perhaps the god of destiny is in heaven, mastering the life of all beings and the rules of the world, so we cannot be disrespectful.

Confucius said that it is far from respecting ghosts and gods. If you think that the world is too ordinary, too common, not afraid of performance, and not afraid of it, I think it is also problematic. The development of China over the past few decades has proved that the result of fearlessness is environmental damage and pollution. We have said that "people will win the day", but we can't win the day. The Tao in Tao Te Ching is the way of nature. We must protect nature, because from the day we were born, nature will bring us sunshine, bring us rain and dew, and bring us a green forest. We bring a blue sky. This is a wonderful world. Since you have come to this beautiful world, you must respect this beautiful world.

We assume that everyone has a specific purpose in this world. The purpose is that God of Destiny has arranged for us. This is what Li Bai said, "I will be useful when I am born." From a negative perspective, many people will think that my lack of interest is caused by my destiny. If you really have a fate, then your destiny improvement is controlled by your own efforts. Since we know that our lives are useful in this world, then we must use our own lives instead of trampling and wasting him. But we must not use a variety of abnormal mentality to calculate our own life, or to predict our own life and future, it does not make sense, because no one except God can predict your future. If anyone can know the future through prediction, life is not worth living. For example, you now know what you will do every year when you are 80 years old. Which woman will meet this year, which man will meet next year, life does not mean anything to you. I have awe of destiny, but this does not make me succumb to fate. I know that any good result in fate must be obtained through hard work. When you think your destiny is not good, if you don't work hard, it will always go bad. If you work hard, it will at least get better. Just like Sun Wukong, because he worked hard, he hit the Hades and crossed his life and death, so he became a long-lived person. In fact, the life of each of us is controlled by our own efforts.

As for the second point related to fate, don't burden the life unreasonably. Believe in your own judgment, don't be superstitious.

There is such a small story in my own life that everyone can learn from. When I was 20 years old, I was in college, and when I had nothing to do with my classmates in the dormitory, I started to fortune. The so-called fortune telling is to take a Xinhua dictionary and turn to the first few pages, saying that the first few words are the fate of decades. Other students are smarter. They all count on the fate of 80 years old. Even if they turn to the word "no", it doesn't matter, because 80-year-old is nothing and normal. But my life at Peking University was more painful, so I said that I would like to see how my fate was when I was 30 years old. The result turned into the word "殡" in the dictionary, and I felt extremely fearful at the time. The whole decade of life from the age of 20 to 30 is wasted in this fear. Of course, not every day is fear, but I am afraid when I think about it. Obviously, using superstition to calculate my future is an expression of losing confidence in myself. At that time, I was in this state, because my life at Peking University was a mess, and the final result was the loss of confidence in myself. When a person loses confidence in his or her life, he will certainly rely on some kind of external force, and the most easily relied external force is to predict his own life and hope that the future can become better. But the chances of your predictions of good and bad are 50% to 50%. Let me give another example. During the SARS period, I was anxious about New Oriental. I went to Dajue Temple to drink tea and saw that there was a lottery. I said that I would take a pump to see how the New Oriental is. As a result, I pulled out a sign and shook my soul. On the third day, I thought about going to sleep, so I ran to Dajue Temple. I said, I will draw another sign for New Oriental to see what it is, and the result is the signing. As you can see, this prediction becomes meaningless. When you start to make arrangements for your life with superstitions and numbers, you actually lose confidence in yourself.