To every one who is afraid of the future

No one is an island, we are all part of society, so you will definitely experience the time I am in, whether you have experienced it or not, you will definitely connect with society through work. I would like to talk about the confusion and embarrassment of an ordinary college student who is coming out of the ivory tower and facing the society. I hope that I can help you, who are afraid, confused and jealous as I am now.

We always say that we must work hard. In fact, we don't know why we work hard and how to work hard. What the school usually instills in us is the knowledge of death in books. It is true that knowledge is very important, but knowledge needs to be accumulated. It requires a heavy precipitation process. We are used to being taken away by teachers instead of walking in school. But when you walk out of the ivory tower, you will find that you have no courage to face the naked reality. You are protected too well. Like a patient who is in a sterile room all the year round, he can't stand a small bacterium, a fatal one.

So when a lot of roads are in front of you, which one should you choose, how to choose you will not regret it, how to choose you will lead to the future you want, how to choose to become a better self, let You are a little confused. Start a business? Postgraduate? Civil servants? enterprise? Working? You do not know. In fact, no one knows which way you chose in the future because we have no predictive ability.

We are the little people who live in the most present, and everyone has a heroic dream in their hearts. We think that we are a righteous partner from the heart, but after seeing too many cruel reality, we gradually return to the safe shell. If we don’t try it, we won’t get hurt. If we don’t go out, there will be no rumors, slowly we The justice that is understood becomes a good one, and it is snowing in front of the door.

You will definitely chase the stars. Sometimes you don't chase the star very much, but because of the glamorous light shining on him. He is very dazzling, he has done what you can't do, he has become the person you want to be, and he has easily got everything you want. Therefore, even if I don't chase the stars, I still support others to chase stars. Because that is the same as faith, with the direction of advancement, giving people unlimited power.

I am about to face graduation, ordinary university, ordinary city, ordinary family, ordinary appearance, ordinary talent, ordinary word like a spell, firmly hung on my head. Whenever I hear someone say that his parents have already found a good job for him, whenever I hear someone say that I have found a job, whenever I see someone who has not made a college but earns a lot of money, I will always be envious of vulgarity. I hate hate: I have read books for so many years. If I didn’t find my favorite job after graduation, in case I have only 1,000 monthly salary, in case everyone has a dream career, what should I do? ?

Some people say that you are only in your 20s, why are you afraid to make a choice? In fact, everything is just because I think too much, I am afraid of the unknown future.

Some time ago I read a great speech, Bai Yansong. I didn't want to understand it at the time. Now I think about it.

"If we are worried about the future, you have the opportunity for a lifetime, will you worry about your future forever?"

"Love the time you are in. The past has passed, what is the strength? The future has not come yet, what are you worried about? Do you know what is real fear? The real fear is not a picture of flesh and blood, really The fear is to mobilize your imagination and scare yourself."

I once dreamed of poetry and distance, but slowly lost my way and could not see the lighthouse, so I have been embarrassed. I thought that there was only one leaf in the darkness, but when I passed through the darkness, I went back and it was all the same. People can't compare with others, but they have to compare with themselves. Today, I am better than yesterday. Today, I am a little better than yesterday. It is very good. If you say envy, go to work; if you say hard work, go to action. What's more, sometimes it's because there is no choice. Because of impetuousness, so hey, so confused, so afraid. You can't do anything in fear, and you can be invincible without fear.

In fact, everyone is afraid of the future. Everyone is afraid of not being able to do what they want to do. They have not become better themselves and have not met the right people. You are just one part of it, but when you are all fearless, you will find that the sky becomes bluer, the flowers become more fragrant, and you become more beautiful.

The quantitative change will eventually reach qualitative change, the road is tortuous, and the future is bright. Feel free to try it, start a business, be a star, a freelancer, a graduate student, a civil servant, a part-time job, or a street performer. That's your choice. You can make life very exciting, not just because of your career, but because of yourself.

I should have lived differently, even if your final monthly salary is still 1000 yuan, even if you don't wear a suit uniform, even if you can't pay for it, you are still on the way to where you want to go, you will definitely Reach the distance you want to go.

Later, I chatted with my friends and found that whether we are now preparing for the exam, or the students who are seriously looking for work, or the students who travel around, we are all the same. Because young, because I don’t know anything, I’m so helpless, I don’t even know who to tell, because people who haven’t experienced it don’t understand it. People who cross it will think it’s just a trivial matter, and they don’t feel like this. .

Maybe the weather is just right. Maybe the book I read is just right. Maybe the bird outside the window is called. Suddenly I find that I am no longer afraid of the future, and I don’t want to worry about the future. Now that I am moving to the point of thinking, maybe I can't achieve the goal within a year or two, then I will use it in three years. Maybe the process is very hard, but I am doing what I like, and the bitterness is sweet. What's more, 80% of the obstacles I worry about will not appear. They are just demons. What I have to do is to overcome the difficulty of 20%.

I hope that you, like me, no longer fear the future, become a better self, realize the goal you want to achieve, and reach the place you want to go. Today, I am a better self than yesterday.