Know how to decorate yourself and avoid the sharpness

A sharp edge can't bring you benefits, but it will bring unnecessary trouble. Appropriate performance, occasionally revealing the edge, you can leave a good impression on others; but be sure to grasp the degree of goodness, avoid the sharpness. Don't rush to comment on everything, not to be offside. You must know how to protect yourself first, converge sharply, wait for the opportunity, and avoid self-centered.

According to "Historical Records," Confucius once visited Laozi and asked him for teaching. Lao Tzu warned Confucius: "A smart and insightful person often hides danger, because he likes to criticize others. The eloquent and knowledgeable person will also suffer the same fate, because he exposed others. Disadvantages. Therefore, one is still temperate, that is, it is not acceptable, but a cautious attitude should be adopted."

Lao Tzu also warned Confucius that "the gentleman is a virtue, and his appearance is stupid." The virtue here refers to "excellent talent." That is to say, those talented people look no different from ordinary people who are clumsy and clumsy. According to "Zhuangzi", when Yang Zi went to ask Laozi, Lao Tzu also told him not to be too arrogant, but to be cautious and modest. Some people feel that modesty and caution are a passive and passive attitude towards life. However, if a person can treat others with modesty and sincerity, they will get the goodwill of others; if they can be cautious, they will win the respect of people.

As Hong Yingming said in the book "Cai Gen Tan": "Tibetan is in the hustle and bustle, and it is clear and turbid, and it is clear in the turbidity. It is a pot that is really involved in the world. It is also a cave that hides the body." Being a person would rather be stupid, and it should not be too clever; rather, it should be restrained, and it should not be sharp; it would be easy to be easy to follow, and not to be arrogant; rather, let it be a little bit, not too radical. This is a magic weapon that is hard to find.

Zang Feng Lu Yan and Feng Man Bi Lu are two completely different ways of life. Being talented is a good thing, the foundation of a successful career, and it is necessary to show your talents in the right place. However, to show your talents must be at the right time and place, to have the right degree. Everywhere, you can show your talents everywhere. It’s not a smart act. It only infuriates and strikes. Those who are interested in doing a big business should be jealous of their ambitions, know how to contain them, and when they are stupid, they will be stupid.

Yang Xiu was a slut, and he repeatedly committed Cao Cao's bogey. Cao Cao once made a garden; after Cao Cao went to watch, he did not set aside, only took a pen to write a "live" on the door. Yang Xiu said: "There is a word in the door, but it is also a wide word. It is like a garden door." So it was renovated. Cao Cao was very happy after seeing it again, but when he knew that Yang Xiu had analyzed his righteousness, he had already avoided Yang Xiu. Another day, Saibei sent a box of shortbread. Cao Cao wrote the words "a box of crisps" on the box and placed it on the stage. Yang Xiu saw it inside and actually took it and divided it with everyone. Cao Cao asked why? Yang Xiu replied, "You clearly write 'one person, one bite', we dare to violate your orders?" Although Cao Cao smiled, his heart was very dissatisfied. Cao Cao was afraid of assassinating him. He often told his men that he would be a dream of murder. Don't approach him when he falls asleep. One day he took a nap and put the quilt on the ground. There was a hurriedly picking up and covering him. Cao Cao jumped up and pulled the sword to kill the near waiter, then went to bed again. Soon after he got up, he was asked to kill the nearest waiter. Everyone told him the truth. He cried a lot and died. Therefore, everyone thought that Cao Cao dreamed of killing. Only Yang Xiuzhi’s mind was Cao Cao’s mind, so he broke the secret.

All of these are Yang Xiu’s clever crimes of Cao Cao; Yang Xiu’s death is rooted in his ingenuity.

The death of Yang Xiu reveals us: First, we must not reveal our talents. Yang Xiuben is a very intelligent person, and talented, but he does not know Tibetan mastiff, and his behavior makes Cao Cao feel that he is the master. This made Cao Cao's taboo. Second, don't break the facts. Such as the chicken ribs, Cao Cao is thinking about this, I do not know how to get rid of, Yang Xiu 捅 wearing this layer of window paper, is to humiliate him.

In our daily work, we will inevitably encounter the following problems: There are some things that everyone has thought of and realized, but no one has spoken in public. These people are not really stupid, but they are all fine. People do not want to speak, but the speaker is a big fool. There is a saying called "shooting a bird." If you say this, you must say that you must be jealous, or that you are in the pain of others, so that you will be unlucky. Yang Xiu is an example. His death is sighing and thought-provoking.