Someone in this world is lucky to help you, no one is helping you is normal.

Yesterday, I read Xiao Zhao’s book. The word “reaching the hand” reminds me of some small things that have been happening around me.

I always receive letters from many people, telling my own distress, telling the current situation of my sorrow, whether it is telling the teacher not to like myself, or the small entanglement between colleagues, asking me what to do? Or let me help A study plan, whether it is to learn English or graduate school, I hope to tell you how to do it? At the beginning, I took a lot of time to reply very seriously, but many people replied that the last sentence did not disappear in the wind; Some students have asked me a higher-level version of the question, I am looking forward to giving him an answer. However, I am more and more unable to reply to these emails because it will make people more and more angry. Everyone's life and cognition are different. I can't stand in my life experience and tell you that there is no money at home and I want to go abroad to study. Poor parents can't bear to spend their hard-earned money. There are a lot of students who send emails very confidently and very rude. If you don't receive my timely reply, I will also chase several emails to question me. To be practical, I am not obligated to solve your personal problems. I also confiscate your money and solve your own problems. This is a good time to exercise your ability to solve problems. Young people are generally likely to have choices about persistence. I have a lot of questions about colleges and workplaces in my blog. I have written them in different books. Can you go and see for yourself? Always look at nothing. Zhang mouth asked, just want to get the answer in one step, I really can't let others have a mood to help you.

Reaching the party said that it is small and wants to get something for nothing. It is said that the high-end vocabulary is lack of initiative. I always hear newcomers or interns who are new to the workplace complaining that they feel that their leadership is not strong. They don’t care what they are, they can’t learn anything. Such complaints always occurred in the transitional period of the campus and the workplace, and they were just as arrogant as they were grievances. Without the teacher's embarrassment, the parents' control, the classmate's selfless help, the school's maximum protection, and whether we have learned to actively seek and fight for what we want, even to go to the society? In fact, there is no workplace. What people should teach us, even their own predecessors or leaders. The workplace is not a school, there is no teaching task, and in addition we have not paid the money, the company also gave us money. Everyone is an adult, graduated at least 22 years old, who needs such a large person to look at the ready-made meals before they are willing to eat? Therefore, those who have graduated from a special open young people It is also a person who is always said to be a very thief by many people. It is generally a very active person. It takes the initiative to find things, take the initiative to help the meal, take the initiative to ask for good voices, take the initiative to work in the morning, and observe carefully. Is this the case? ?

Someone will ask, can't I ask others, must I delve into it myself? Don't use the convenience conditions, are you tired and tired? Hey, social information is so developed, will not go online to find it? Some people say that I don't like the current job. I don't like the current profession. I want to learn XXXX. What should I do? Recently I studied emotional management, life and death, and child psychology. My approach is to go to Douban first. Stack books, buy a book to look at, find out the doorway, self-summary and thinking, after popularizing the basic knowledge of a subject, then buy some high-level information to see, keep moving forward. If you encounter problems, you should first check and think about yourself. If you want to ask questions, you should ask for a higher level question. The other party is willing to answer you. Your initiative and ability to solve problems will be enhanced. Of course, the money I spent will only feel cherished and worthwhile. Of course, even if you ask at the beginning, no one can answer you. Even if you answer you, you will probably not do it. You have not eaten the pain, you have not fallen, you have not done a detour. The struggle is just mediocrity, there is no trace. There is no memory.

We always admire American children's education from a small age. They always admire the open education of the United States, and arrange a topic to go home and find a way to write a small essay. Then they scream at how China's exam-oriented education is deadly. You can ask yourself, what if you throw ourselves into such an environment? Do you really go to the library to check the information? The copy of Baidu is probably the common practice of most college students in the paperwork. Everyone said that they want to change China's education. But they are all reaching out to the party, and the school education is no longer strong. It can't resist the influence of the parental education of the parents. Don't say that you are not reaching out to the party. Each of us is a party. Resolutely stop the reach of the party, starting from every episode of dependence. Every tiny change in life comes from active attack. The so-called positive energy is nothing more than the self-confidence and enterprising sense gained after each active attack. Someone in this world is lucky to help you. It is normal for no one to help you. Don't think that everyone owes you. After a long time, they all owe themselves.