Young people's dream realization guide

There is a Japanese drama called "Wage earners buy a house". After reading the first and second episodes, I understand why the show is booming. In the economic environment of Japan, more and more young people are unable to find jobs. Even if I find a job, I often feel that I can't match my talents and interests. Better, I live in the company; I almost resigned, then I find a job, then resign, and a vicious circle.

This is a universal social phenomenon, not only common in Japanese society, but also very common in China. Although the current economic environment in China is not bad, when young people face their first job and face a lot of different shades of gray in the society, it is difficult for most people to face it.

The actor resigned after working in the first company for three months. The reason was very simple. He did not adapt to the entertainment and hypocritical relationships with his superiors. Then he started to work odd jobs. The typical thinking is this: "You broke the unit / you broke the job / you broke the salary / you broke the leadership, but also count on me?"

I don't want to be a spoiler expert. In short, the actor has completely changed, found a formal job and found a beautiful girlfriend. In my opinion, the biggest gain is that he has changed this mentality.

I have experienced this stage with the warm hands. We have all complained that our company can't let us show our talents, the leadership can't tap our ability, and how bad the Chinese employment environment is.

And now we are beginning to understand that all the gains require our own efforts. To say that others are "rich second generation", "official second generation", "爹爹 is Li Gang" and so on, those are excuses.

By the way, I said the word "excuses". Everything can have an excuse. Learning is not good because I don't spend time at all. I can't find a job because someone else's father is surnamed Li. The salary is not high because the leader likes flattering. The girlfriend breaks up with me because the woman is a disaster.

Thousands of mistakes, we have not done anything wrong, are aunt's fault, social error, the country's fault, the environment's fault.

There were two young people who worked under me. One of the media reports that was asked to collect the day of the big event, he told me the next day that the kiosk next to the MRT had sold out all the newspapers of the day, and then he spread his hands and said: "No way. Yeah." Another, also on the eve of a large event, to send a notification message, but that day, our company's server was broken, unable to send a newsletter, so she used her mobile phone to send out more than 100 newsletters. .

The former is a graduate student at a prestigious university, and the latter is a junior college student. The latter one was smooth at work and was promoted all the way; the former one, and soon left my company.

I heard that the former young man complained to his colleague when he left the job, saying that his work was too monotonous, not in line with his interest, and that the leader did not give him enough space. But I think if he does not change this mentality and work habits, he will still feel unimportant in his next job.

After the actor of "Wage earners buy a house" left the company after the first company, because of economic pressure, he found a temporary worker on the construction site and worked hard. As a college graduate, his psychological gap can be imagined. However, at the beginning of his arrogance, he slowly realized the meaning of his work through various encounters, and learned that he can do his own talents by doing everything in a down-to-earth manner.

When I was a civil servant, I stayed at the Youth League Committee. The Communist Youth League system had a very popular saying, "I want to be a position." Because in the entire government system, the Communist Youth League is the most money-free and powerless department, so only by trying to do something, to get things done, will it be valued by other departments and leaders.

Now think of it, this principle works in many places. What you did, decided what you would have.

Neither society nor companies will bury their talents for a long time, because this is an economic society in which values ​​are exchanged. Unless this talent is just a talent that you think you are, not a value recognized by society and the company.

If I can give some advice, as a few of the guidelines for the realization of young people's dreams, I will choose these:

1. Love your job. No job is meaningless. Work is not just a simple matter of paying for a salary. Unless you really love your job, you can't do it well. In this Japanese drama, the person who turned the sand every day finally built a highway and watched it board the national traffic map. This is the meaning of work for society.

2. Do every job in your hands. If you think you deserve a better salary and work, be sure to build on the current job. Do not accumulate steps, no miles. Do every little thing, even if it is a broken company, believe me, because the company/leader/colleague is not good and perfunctory work, there will be only one person injured, that is, yourself.

3. Speak less and do more. In the era of universal education, in the era of information flooding, everyone has the right to say everything about everything. Especially when you are young, the blood is boiling, so many things you can’t understand, don’t say a few words. Believe me, only by doing what I can do, not to say, can really change the world.