Do not struggle, why live a comfortable life

Living a life you want is something that everyone is looking forward to. At the end of last year, a movie "Wait for the Wind" focused everyone's attention on this topic. In the film, the heroine holds a salary of two thousand yuan but has to guide how the person with a monthly salary of 20,000 should live. The actor bears the burden of "rich second generation" and cannot realize his ideal. This movie has resonated with many people.

Pursuing ideals is a good thing, but the realization of ideals is a long and difficult process. Coupled with the glitz of life and the desire for materiality, many people have deviated from the fairway on the road of pursuing their dreams, and they have been getting farther and farther by anxiety and impetuousness. Many people in the workplace always feel that their work is particularly bitter, and they are not the days they want. With the over-promotion of some foreign thoughts, many people have begun to "chasing the inner voice". They greeted their resignation and traveled, and they were not squandered; the work could be pushed and pushed, but they were looking for a quick way to make money faster than 8 hours; when they got home from work, they watched TV and didn’t want to learn something... In other words, in the face of people who work hard around them, they will also sneer: "The mind teacher said, people should not live too hard." However, the more you think about it, the easier it is to get rid of the reality, and then the endless complaints. .

People always think that happiness is to get the people and things that they want, to go where they want to go, to do what they want to do, so they are pursuing these so-called desires all their lives, and at the same time trying to confront and eliminate those who do not want. In fact, most of the so-called life that I want is to enjoy the benefits and get something for nothing. For example, Fantasy meets a rich second generation and gives himself a large sum of money to travel around the world; but when it comes to working hard to make money, I feel that this is not the life I want. In addition to the impetuous mentality that young people have just entered the society and are confused, there are several reasons for this: First, for more than 30 years of reform and opening up, the rapid development of society has accelerated the pace of people's lives. In addition, at the beginning of the reform, many people became rich overnight, so that latecomers always imagined that they could have such an opportunity. Secondly, many media have over-emphasized successful people, so that many people have unrealistic expectations of reality, and regard success and wealth as a universal thing. As everyone knows, success depends on luck and ability to a certain extent. In the end, the school and parents kept instilling the idea that “there is a bright future when they go to college”, so that children can simplify and idealize their life. When they go to college, they slow down the pace of struggle.

Some time ago, I read an article with a very good saying: "Your university volunteers are chosen by your parents. Your course in the university is a good choice. Then why do you want to live the life you want? "This sentence tells us that not complaining or giving up is the most fundamental state of mind for everyone to pursue ideals. In addition, we have to lower our posture, not always think that the current pay and harvest are not proportional. In the face of things that make us painful and unsatisfactory, don't fight, but live in peace with them. More importantly, we must enrich ourselves and make ourselves stronger. In short, if you really want to do something for your heart, then start fighting now!