Can suffer hardships, bitter life, can not suffer hardships, bitter life!

From the day I put on the military uniform, when the squad leader opened the class meeting, he often said this to us: "The concept determines fate!" I used to think that the squad leader said that this sentence is a bit empty. Now I have grown from a warrior to an officer, and I have grown from a grassroots cadre to a cadre of the military district. I am deeply touched by the squad leader’s statement. What makes me unforgettable and deeply educated and inspired is that I read the book "Decision on Destiny" by Mr. Zhang Shoufu.

Once the concept is out of order, no matter how knowledgeable, how capable, and how ethical, you lose meaning; will it really be like this? Concept is the psychological root of all human wealth. I am the true master of my own destiny. I am the only thinker of my own life. To create a happy life and change my own destiny, we must start by reforming our own habits of thinking. Especially after returning to the local entrepreneurship from the army, the feeling is deeper and the mind is more consonant.

Today's world is really full of excitement. Everyone has different fates for everyone. Some people are rich and expensive. Some people can only count the pots. Some people live very well and happiness, while others live very well. Busy... Why are people all the same, but the fate has such a big difference? Some people attribute their fate to family origin, and some think that their own objective conditions determine fate. In fact, concept is the most fundamental factor determining a person's fate. Barton once said: "If a person does not have the concept of transcending the environment, he will never do anything big." As the saying goes, what kind of ideas are there, what kind of way out. If you change your mind, you will change your mood; if you have one more idea, you will have one more way out.

There is a saying in China that “the difference between a thought and a thousand miles” means that small differences in concept will have a great impact on the actual work. However, the change of concept cannot be arbitrarily made. If it is not changed well, it is likely to cause a devastating blow to life. Yugong Yishan is a famous fable in ancient China. It is said that there is a Taihang in front of the Yugong family, and the mountains on both sides of the Wangwu house obstruct the traffic. The entrance and exit must be detoured. Therefore, the power of the whole family is launched, and the mountain is removed. The matter touched the heavens and sent people to remove the two mountains. It is. This story is a typical example of a willful person, and his original "fool" spirit also infiltrates all walks of life. But today, as long as we think hard, we will naturally sigh for Yugong. That is to say, the foolishness of Yugong lies in the courage and ignorance. Although he has a tenacious, tenacious spirit, he lacks flexibility and does not think about it. If he chooses to move instead of moving mountains, the problem of the two mountains can be solved, and the children and grandchildren do not have to work hard! For this reason, from ancient times to the present, I do not know how many people like Yugong, do not consider comparative interests and long-term development, just keep in mind the lessons of the ancestors: "As long as you go down one step at a time, you will certainly win the crown of success." There are a lot of people who have done their life in a down-to-earth manner, or they are still standing still. The reason is that they are too stupid, and they will always remove obstacles a little bit, and will not consider using other methods to quickly achieve their goals.

Napoleon once said that there are four kinds of people in the world, smart people, stupid people, hardworking people, lazy people; smart and diligent people, smart and lazy people, even stupid and lazy people are available, only those Stupid and diligent people are not available. Because stupidity usually causes them to go in the wrong direction, and the direction is wrong, will their diligence not cause more trouble? To this end, in the era of modern life competition, when we encounter difficulties and setbacks, we should consider whether to “move mountains” or “move”. It may be a better choice to change ideas. Morning greeting

Yes! The road to life begins with reading, and success or failure depends on the heart. "Sometimes you think you lost, in fact, you won." This is a very classic sentence in the movie "The Dream Come True." All the knowledge and skills that successful people need on the road to hard work are not from genius and deliberate learning, but because their usual heart is always concerned about the information related to their own career, they all have a good The eyes that are found, they are curious about anything, and anything that happens around them can be linked to work. But many of my friends often see the winners and losers very seriously. In fact, life itself is between winning and losing. The difference is that some people lose their arrogance and lose their arrogance. The more they fight, the more they are brave, and the weightlifting is light; some people talk about "losing" discoloration and not "losing" the leader. Napoleon had all the external conditions that people pursued—prestige, status, and wealth, but he said, “I have never had a happy day.” Hai Keller, she met everyone. Undesired fate - blind, deaf, dumb, but she said: "I feel that life is so beautiful."

An old leader of mine once said to me: "When I have the right, I am on top of it. Others look up to me and think that I am successful, won the position, won the honor, and I think it is high. There is no cold, no pure friendship, less time and space that is dominated by individuals... On the contrary, in our lives, there are many ordinary people, although they are low-ranking and have a low life, but you have a cold A hot partner, a filial child, and a heart-warming friend have a healthy body. This is a fortune that is hard to buy. You think you still won. In fact, losing and winning is not terrible. As long as you learn the lesson and are determined to lose, you can lose to win. On the contrary, if you win, you will forget the shape, and you will lose your chances. It is a compulsory course in life to know whether to win or lose and to win or lose. "Understanding the loss, will win" is the motto of Mr. Leung Kam-sung, former Financial Secretary of Hong Kong. I wanted to be the king of Chu, Xiang Yu, who defeated Wujiang and smashed the sword. Du Mu had poetry and sighed: "Jiangdong's disciples are more talented, and it is not known to make a comeback." If Xiang Yu regroups, perhaps history will change. On the contrary, how can you always win if you are afraid of losing? Cao Cao lost in the Chibi World War, but he still fled back to the North with a few people, and the East Mountain revived. In the modern history of China, the 25,000-mile long march of the Red Army can be described as a heavy loss. From the 300,000 people before the Long March to the 30,000 people who won the victory, the loss was shocking, but the Red Army eventually won. To this end, "knowing to lose, will win" is the philosopher's advice. Life is always inseparable from the baptism of losing and winning, and losing one time does not mean losing one, winning a moment is better than winning one. Ancient cloud

: "Forbearance for a calm, retreat to the sky", "small can not bear the chaos" all indicate that the small loss in front of the eyes is in exchange for the future win. Life is impermanent, no one can not lose or win, we must learn to be patient and face up to the loss of time to win the world. After all, life is "the road is no clear but sunny." Xu group words

Of course, in life we ​​can't stick to the rules for losing and winning. At a certain moment, you only have the courage to give up and have the opportunity to gain longer-term benefits. "Perseverance, gold and stone can be awkward" is a good saying of the ancients, but this is only one of the conditions for a person to become talented, and other conditions, such as opportunities, talents, hobbies, understanding, and physical qualities are also indispensable. Giving up is a rational expression. Abandoning requires wisdom, foresight, courage and courage. Those who refuse to give up and what "benefits" want, often result in themselves in a situation of painful abyss and even "no one at all." Life requires us to learn to fight, but also requires us to learn to give up, and should learn to give up in time and be good at giving up. Let us remember the words of the ancient Roman playwright Seneca: "The people who refuse to lose their luggage will never swim to the other side."

The world is changing, the long life is ups and downs, and the future scenery is in the fog, going there, there are rough mountain roads, there are dark swamps, and the feet are shallow, although it is dangerous, but it is limited. A shortcut to success and happiness in life. If you are not actively meeting the risk challenge, you are passively waiting for the risk to come. Adventure is like gambling, there is loss and win; if you can't afford it, you can't afford it, but no one can't afford it. Because life itself is an adventure, life without risk does not exist, whether you dare not take risks. Each of us should be based on reality, face the risks, not afraid of taking risks, and create our own glory in the adventure. At any time, we should not bear any risks brought about by no risk. Of course, people sometimes go the wrong way. Doing the right thing is the right way. If you do something wrong, you can repent and be righteous, and "the prodigal son will not change the gold." Being able to find the root of the wrong way is the greatest value of the wrong way. The "enlightenment" we often say is actually a "mistake". It is the right way for a person to take the wrong path by paying attention to reviewing and summarizing and understanding the sentiment, finding the root cause of the error, and raising the value of the lesson. Life is not afraid of making mistakes, it is afraid of committing mistakes before and after, and repeating the regrets of others is the biggest regret. There is a lyrics that are quite philosophical: "Life is too short, don't leave regrets." The connotation is to avoid repeating the regrets of others. As Oslowski’s famous saying: “A person’s life should be spent this way: when he looks back, he does not repent because of his vain, and he is not ashamed of his inaction.” write

of. Therefore, let us remember that repeating the regrets of others is the biggest regret!

A thousand miles begins with a single step. The true meaning of life is to do. There is a saying that “there will not be a stuffing cake in the sky”. Only by doing it, can you exchange the diligent hands with the fruits of the hard work to meet the basic needs of life; only by doing, can you show the vitality of the mind and the society. Originally colorful; only do, you can feel the five flavors of life, and thus experience the inherent meaning of nature to give life, and vice versa, if only "do not move hands" or only ideas do not act, then all colors in life will be You have no chance. Your life will only be spent in repetition, and the truth of life will always be the moon in the water and the flowers in the mirror!

A hard work has a harvest. As long as you start from “doing”, you can experience the value of life and show the grace of life. As long as you are based on “doing”, the diligent person will become a genius, and life will shine brilliantly. I really like this sentence: "You can endure hardships, and you will suffer for a lifetime. You can't suffer hardships and suffer for a lifetime!" Suffering is nowhere for life, everywhere. However, "there is no cure for the plum blossoms." Hardship is the process of success. To achieve something, you must work hard, work hard, study hard, and practice hard; if not After hard study, no hard work, no hard work, no hard work, it can't be successful. In this sense, hardship is to eat. Life is always thriving in setbacks and tribulations; thoughts are always mature in jealousy and frustration; will, always love cruelty and ruthlessness. Suffering is a vivid teaching material for people to understand the society and understand life. Suffering is an opportunity for people to mature. Suffering is an inevitable challenge for people in a competitive society. The famous successful master Carnegie said, "Suffering is the best education in life." A large number of facts in ancient and modern China and foreign countries show that great personality can't be cultivated in mediocrity. Only through smelting and suffering, will the desire be stimulated, the vision will be broadened, and the soul will be Will sublimate, life will be successful.

"The aim is to step on the ground, the top of the mountain is the peak, the foot is longer than the road." People do not have mountain heights, no matter how far in the distance, I am afraid that the two feet that have not been pursued will arrive. The same is true of life. We are not afraid of high goals. We are afraid of the courage, enthusiasm and perseverance that we have not pursued. As long as our hearts are burning with firm beliefs and proceeding forward, we will be surprised to find out that many so-called distant places are actually true. Not too far away. The famous psychology professor Mike Houwei specializes in prodigy and genius. His conclusions are very inspiring: "The average person thinks that genius has a natural, smooth and unimpeded shining talent. In fact, genius must also It takes at least ten years to learn their special skills. To become an expert, you need to have a strong personality and a strong charm." So, life journey is like riding a train. A man of great ambition, coupled with talent, hard work, and opportunity, is like riding a high-speed train. In a limited life time, he will definitely go very far. The scenery he enjoys must be the most spectacular. Odd and even dangerous.