Be yourself: every character can succeed

Be yourself: every character can succeed

Do you always hear words that only a perfect personality can succeed; only those who are calm and slick can succeed; only those who are soft and soft can succeed... Are you often told: 20% success depends on intelligence, 80% By emotional intelligence?
These sayings permeate around you like the air, leaving you lingering. You are a person with a cautious personality. Then, you must have the disadvantage of being cautious, timid, and arrogant; you are a brave person, then you will not think before you, you will behave recklessly. Disadvantages; you are a wild character, then you must have the disadvantages of your own, informality... You realize the shortcomings of your character, you try to change it. So, you started a long and difficult "personal improvement project", you torture yourself one day, trying to change your character and make your character perfect. What were the results? Time is not spent, energy is not less, not only is not harvested. Instead, they have become trapped in more troubles, making themselves less and less confident. Why is this so? Why is it counterproductive? This requires looking for reasons from the character itself. There are two reasons for your mistakes: First, while you do this, you don't realize or consider the difficulty of character transformation, and you don't understand or fully understand Jiangshan Yichang. The truth is that the nature is difficult to move; the second is that you only see the defects and shortcomings of your character, and do not see the strengths and advantages of your character. There has never been a perfect personality in this world, and there has never been a natural victory character and a failure character. To know. Every character can succeed.
It is more difficult to change a person's nature or character than to change a country. This is a common sense and a common sense. For example, your feet can only wear 4l yards of shoes, but in front of you is a pair of 37 yards of shoes, what will you do at this time? Is it possible to make the feet smaller to adapt to these shoes, or simply give up the shoes in front of you, and then look for a pair of shoes that really suits you? This metaphor is used in character and profession, then character is the foot, occupation is the shoe. Fitted shoes can make you walk easily and walk like a footsteps; shoes that don’t fit your feet will be pinch, and even more frightening is that it will not only make you walk to be uncomfortable, but even wear your feet. . Wearing shoes that don't fit, you may miss out on success and you may pass the championship on the runway of life. When your personality conflicts with your career, what do you want to change is your career or personality? Almost everyone in life knows how to cut the footsteps. However, people who change their character for careers are everywhere. Do you really need to adapt to the huge cost of changing your personality? This is a typical inversion. This is a simple truth in everyday life, why do we have to spend a few years. Even decades can you really understand it? Some people have suffered from "personality deficiency syndrome". The left-handed control is the right one. The more the comparison, the more the personality is flawed. I feel that I am far from success. I even think that the personality determines that I will never be in the first place. Day, the day of success. In particular, those who are weak, depressed, and taciturn, who are identified as "bad character" and "despicable personality" by "traditional habits", are more painful and fall into the abyss of inferiority. There are still many parents who don't understand the truth that every character can succeed. It’s not good to accuse your child of all the time. It’s not good. If you don’t move, you must change your character. Otherwise, you can only become a waste when you grow up. Therefore, many parents have tried every means to find ways to transform their children's character. As a result, they intentionally or unintentionally suppressed the child's nature and killed a child's talent. As a result, when the child grows up, it really becomes nothing.
The key to a person's success is not the level of education, nor the richness of work experience. The key to a person's success is the ability to accurately identify and fully exploit their character strengths and talents. Personality is the key to unlocking your door to success. Only by recognizing and accepting their own personality and talents, finding a career that is suitable for their own character and talent, and using them continuously, and persisting, is it possible to succeed. Therefore, whether the choice of occupation or position is consistent with its own personality is directly related to the success or failure of life.
From the moment we come to this world, each of us has a mission. This is to find a suitable field for our character. In this field, we can show our unique personality and complete a brilliant life. . There are many who have accomplished this mission and they have succeeded in their respective personalities. But more people are still engaged in a career that is incompatible with their own personality, they are still in confusion and pain. One of the mistakes people often make is to always look for work according to the professional or work experience they have learned, what they should do if they think of what they are learning; or in which industry they used to work, they still do not want to leave the original industry when they change jobs. . Many people choose a major when they go to college or accidentally enter an industry after graduation, and then decide their life. They are not based on their talents and personality, which is the main reason why they can't succeed in the workplace. There are a lot of people who don't know what their talents are, and what kind of work they are suitable for. Some people even do it when they have a job opportunity, and do not make any screening. Many people are therefore at a loss in their jobs, and they have to be unemployed and eventually thrown into the streets by the society.
Give play to your personality and find a career that suits your personality. This is not only a shortcut to success with half the effort, but also a right path to success. In any case, you have to develop in the direction of your own character. Let yourself choose the job, not let the work choose yourself.
Do you always hear words that only a perfect personality can succeed; only those who are calm and slick can succeed; only those who are soft and soft can succeed... Are you often told: 20% success depends on intelligence, 80% By emotional intelligence?

These sayings permeate around you like the air, leaving you lingering. You are a person with a cautious personality. Then, you must have the disadvantage of being cautious, timid, and arrogant; you are a brave person, then you will not think before you, you will behave recklessly. Disadvantages; you are a wild character, then you must have the disadvantages of your own, informality... You realize the shortcomings of your character, you try to change it. So, you started a long and difficult "personal improvement project", you torture yourself one day, trying to change your character and make your character perfect. What were the results? Time is not spent, energy is not less, not only is not harvested. Instead, they have become trapped in more troubles, making themselves less and less confident. Why is this so? Why is it counterproductive? This requires looking for reasons from the character itself. There are two reasons for your mistakes: First, while you do this, you don't realize or consider the difficulty of character transformation, and you don't understand or fully understand Jiangshan Yichang. The truth is that the nature is difficult to move; the second is that you only see the defects and shortcomings of your character, and do not see the strengths and advantages of your character. There has never been a perfect personality in this world, and there has never been a natural victory character and a failure character. To know. Every character can succeed.
It is more difficult to change a person's nature or character than to change a country. This is a common sense and a common sense. For example, your feet can only wear 4l yards of shoes, but in front of you is a pair of 37 yards of shoes, what will you do at this time? Is it possible to make the feet smaller to adapt to these shoes, or simply give up the shoes in front of you, and then look for a pair of shoes that really suits you? This metaphor is used in character and profession, then character is the foot, occupation is the shoe. Fitted shoes can make you walk easily and walk like a footsteps; shoes that don’t fit your feet will be pinch, and even more frightening is that it will not only make you walk to be uncomfortable, but even wear your feet. . Wearing shoes that don't fit, you may miss out on success and you may pass the championship on the runway of life. When your personality conflicts with your career, what do you want to change is your career or personality? Almost everyone in life knows how to cut the footsteps. However, people who change their character for careers are everywhere. Do you really need to adapt to the huge cost of changing your personality? This is a typical inversion. This is a simple truth in everyday life, why do we have to spend a few years. Even decades can you really understand it? Some people have suffered from "personality deficiency syndrome". The left-handed control is the right one. The more the comparison, the more the personality is flawed. I feel that I am far from success. I even think that the personality determines that I will never be in the first place. Day, the day of success. In particular, those who are weak, depressed, and taciturn, who are identified as "bad character" and "despicable personality" by "traditional habits", are more painful and fall into the abyss of inferiority. There are still many parents who don't understand the truth that every character can succeed. It’s not good to accuse your child of all the time. It’s not good. If you don’t move, you must change your character. Otherwise, you can only become a waste when you grow up. Therefore, many parents have tried every means to find ways to transform their children's character. As a result, they intentionally or unintentionally suppressed the child's nature and killed a child's talent. As a result, when the child grows up, it really becomes nothing.
The key to a person's success is not the level of education, nor the richness of work experience. The key to a person's success is the ability to accurately identify and fully exploit their character strengths and talents. Personality is the key to unlocking your door to success. Only by recognizing and accepting their own personality and talents, finding a career that is suitable for their own character and talent, and using them continuously, and persisting, is it possible to succeed. Therefore, whether the choice of occupation or position is consistent with its own personality is directly related to the success or failure of life.
From the moment we come to this world, each of us has a mission. This is to find a suitable field for our character. In this field, we can show our unique personality and complete a brilliant life. . There are many who have accomplished this mission and they have succeeded in their respective personalities. But more people are still engaged in a career that is incompatible with their own personality, they are still in confusion and pain. One of the mistakes people often make is to always look for work according to the professional or work experience they have learned, what they should do if they think of what they are learning; or in which industry they used to work, they still do not want to leave the original industry when they change jobs. . Many people choose a major when they go to college or accidentally enter an industry after graduation, and then decide their life. They are not based on their talents and personality, which is the main reason why they can't succeed in the workplace. There are a lot of people who don't know what their talents are, and what kind of work they are suitable for. Some people even do it when they have a job opportunity, and do not make any screening. Many people are therefore at a loss in their jobs, and they have to be unemployed and eventually thrown into the streets by the society.
Give play to your personality and find a career that suits your personality. This is not only a shortcut to success with half the effort, but also a right path to success. In any case, you have to develop in the direction of your own character. Let yourself choose the job, not let the work choose yourself.