I am a Phoenix man, but I am not wretched.

I am a Phoenix man, but I am not wretched. <br /> Editor's note: This is a post from Peking University BBS. The gap between urban and rural areas is getting bigger and bigger. It is getting harder and harder for students. It is even harder for Phoenix men. It is. As a kind of label, Fenghuang male refers to the whole family's strength. He has been angry for more than ten years and finally became a "golden phoenix flying out of the mountain nest", thus bringing hope to a family. After they entered the city, they married peacocks and lived in urban life. However, due to the imprint of the original rural identity, they had problems with their love, marriage and family with peacocks.
I am rural, I am still a bachelor, but I am not wretched. I have a dream, I will fight for the hard work I want, I sometimes feel pressured, sometimes I feel inferior. But I have always believed that I can support myself with my own hands and will be able to support my wife and children in the future.
Pure rural people, the number of people who can be counted are rural people. My aunts, all of us are rural people, and their children are all rural people. Apart from my wealthy aunts, her children have basically become urban people.
My family's situation: There is a brother in the family. After graduating from college, I will return to my hometown for about 3,000 a month. I can't afford to buy a house in the city. Besides living in a home, I live with my parents. My nephew is his small family. It is also rural. The family built a building for them to get married, and the decoration of a building in the countryside was also more than 100,000, almost all the savings in the family. This is a good thing in our village, because my parents are very frugal and hardworking. More than half of the family sons are married to the family, and there are two college students.
It should be said that I basically did not feel inferior because I am a rural person. My family is very happy. Although I can't say that my father is kind and filial, my brother loves my brother. But my parents are honest farmers. They are very simple, very honest, willing to endure hardships, respecting the elderly, being selfless for children, and having a relationship between the neighbors and the family. There is also a reputation in the village. of.
When I saw the top ten stickers, I suddenly thought of one thing on my own. A few days ago, a good buddy wanted to introduce me to my girlfriend. Today, he said to me: We are all reasonable at the age of looking for a girlfriend, and they all started to look at the background. What do I mean, he said that you are rural, and some girls should not like it, I said oh.
This buddy must have said this for me, but I did not feel very comfortable at the time. Although I am a rural person, I treat my friends and treat the people around me. I dare not say that I am stingy. Although I dare not say that I am honest, I think I should be at least a medium level. I have been self-reliant since I was in college because I don’t want to I want to pay for the house, although the family doesn’t say that I have no food for my living expenses. Every time they call, they ask me if I want money, but I just don’t want them to ask for money. I have the ability to support myself and do it myself. Well, I still have to trouble them. What's more, I can earn an hour of work for my father to work hard for two days at the construction site. What reason do I have to make them difficult? Anyway, if you take a few hours a week, you should change your mind and do something else, not tired.
Although my parents have no money, no background, no culture, they are very kind. My high school classmates have more difficult homes, and the holidays will let me bring my classmates to play at home for a few days.
My brother’s marriage almost costed my parents’ savings for half a lifetime. They always felt sorry for me because I was sent to the middle school and high school. I basically spent a meal. After I went to college, I didn’t ask the family to pay for it. My brother was re-read in high school, and the university did not stand on its own. The house that was married was also covered by the family, so my parents always felt sorry for me.
Once, my dad was drunk and told me that I was sorry for you and your mother. After your brother got married, I was not very old with you and my mother, and I earned money for you. I said that I don't want it. Why do I want your money? You two are tired and earning some money, even if you don't give me any big effect. My mom said, can't say that, at least when you bring your girlfriend back, you have to give a face-to-face ceremony, or wait for you to get married and buy a jewelry for your daughter-in-law, or when you buy a house, there are more, tens of thousands. It’s better to have a piece of money than it’s not. Some people may feel very shabby, but this is the case in our countryside.
I am rural, I am still a bachelor, but I am not wretched. I have a dream, I will fight for the hard work I want, I sometimes feel pressured, sometimes I feel inferior. But I have always believed that I can support myself with my own hands and will be able to support my wife and children in the future.