Suffering is a fortune in life

Suffering is a fortune in life
"Suffering is a fortune in life." This is a kind of encouragement and forgiveness that people often say, but it is more realistic to learn to treat suffering correctly. After all, suffering is not a blessing, nor is it affordable for everyone.
At a party, those successful industrialists and celebrities talked and laughed, including the famous car dealer John Ayton. Ayton recalled his past to his friend, then Churchill, the British prime minister. He was born in a remote town, his parents died young, his sister helped people wash clothes, do housework, and earned money to raise him. . But after her sister got married, her brother-in-law took him to his family, and his aunt was even more mean. When he was studying, he was stipulated that he could only eat one meal a day, and he had to take a ride and cut the lawn. When he was an apprentice, he couldn’t afford to rent a house. For nearly a year, he was sleeping in a waste warehouse in the suburbs...
Churchill was surprised to ask: "How did you not hear what you said before?" Ayton laughed. "Is there anything to say? People who are suffering or are getting rid of suffering have no right to complain." This was once in life. The car dealer who has been frustrated and painful for a long time said: "It is conditional for suffering to become wealth. This condition is that you overcome the suffering and stay away from suffering and no longer suffer. Only here, suffering is a life wealth that you are proud of. When others listen to your sufferings, you don't feel that you are studying hardships. You will only feel that your will is strong and worthy of respect. But if you are still suffering or not getting rid of the entanglement of suffering, what do you say? In others It sounds like asking for cheap pity and even begging... At this time you can say that you are enjoying suffering, exercising quality in hardship, and learning toughness? Others will only think that you are playing spiritual victory and self-anesthesia. ”
Ayton’s words made him revising his creed of “love for suffering” in Churchill. He wrote in his autobiography - suffering, wealth or humiliation? When you overcome suffering, it is your wealth; but when suffering overcomes you, it is your humiliation.
Then, the premise of letting suffering no longer become humiliation is: to be strong, to be unyielding, to be brave, to overcome the suffering, and to make it a truly worthwhile wealth in your life!