Grow up when there is no road around

Grow up when there is no road around

When Weng/Gulang was still in middle school, he wrote a poem, two of which: "When there is no land, I walk the waterway", "When there is no road around, I grow up." When teenagers write poetry, it is inevitable to exaggerate, and it is also a bit "speaking for the new words." But I didn't expect that my own growth later was really like this.
For rural children, it is a good choice to study hard, read a small secondary school, or a teacher. At the very least, it will make both parents and themselves a little easier. But I am not good at learning and skipping school. As a result, I blocked all the land by myself, forcing myself to work south and walk the waterway.
At work, I had a good chance to go to the factory director. But I gave up and chose a job that was lower than my original position. At that time, I thought that my concept was right. I needed more exercise and more growth. "Too good things can't be taken seriously", this is a sentence that my mother likes most when I was young.
She often said: "Heavenly pies are not bricks or traps." "Don't always want to get cheap, people who love cheaper are easy to be deceived." "Don't want to take shortcuts, people who love shortcuts, easy to fall into the trap. "Although she never read a book, I think her words are very reasonable." Therefore, from small to large, I never take advantage of others. And when choosing the key nodes on the road of career growth, I also implemented her warning of “not taking shortcuts”.
But at the time, I was very difficult at this company. When I was swaying in various whirlpools and being smashed in the position of a good quality manager, I began to suspect that my mother’s words were right. If it is right, why have I suffered so much? After suffering so much tempering, what I have got is more difficulties and tempering? If not, then where should I go next?
In the days when I was laid down, on the surface, I didn’t care about everything; but in fact, my heart was very depressed and very tormented. I often can't sleep in the middle of the night, and occasionally ask myself: "Why don't you leave?" It is actually very easy. The question is: how to go? Where are you going? After calculating, I have been doing quality management for 8 years. In this position, I have been doing this for a long time without a qualitative breakthrough. It must be not only a problem of the company and the environment, but also a problem of its own. So where is my problem?
It wasn't until the evening when the consultant company entered the company to start coaching "5S". In the past eight years, I have not lacked the spirit of hard work, and the practical experience is also very rich, but the knowledge is fragmented, and it is not well integrated. When solving problems, there are often situations where there is more than enough power.
So before, whether I was dealing with problems on the spot or in my daily work, I did a good job. With the team, I could bring them to life and be energetic. But if I put them in a broader environment, the company will further develop. My knowledge is not systematic.
For a while, I blamed this for the low academic qualifications. In fact, I was not able to sort out the quality knowledge I mastered, and systematically use this knowledge to make my management philosophy a quantum leap from quantitative change to qualitative change. This is the most fundamental reason why the former owner and the current owner are not willing to provide me with further development space.
Many years later, recalling this past event, I guess, the new vice president saw my short board, so I was exiled and let me die. I also understand that he is not trying to cultivate me, but to make me improve, but I understand him.
The workplace has always been cruel. For those who can't use it right away, most bosses will choose to give up. Not every boss will design a career path for subordinates to guide the future direction. However, the difference between the yin and the yin, my hard work, and the influence of my mother's "do not take shortcuts", actually triggered her third re-start, and once again.
It was this time of demotion, the mentality of starting from scratch, and the practical process of advancing the project, which finally combined me with ten years of practical experience and systematic theoretical knowledge. The two-year coaching of the consultant company is coming to an end, and I seem to have been on a two-year, in-depth workshop. In the past two years, I have listened to the chairman, general manager, deputy general manager of the consulting company and the tutors of individual projects, and have heard many of their lectures. In the past two years, the company has changed a lot, and it is a new look. And myself, like a phoenix that ignites a fire, finally experienced a nirvana in the baptism of fire.

"When there is no road around, I grow up." This sentence, for me more than ten years later, is not only an old work, but also a life attitude. Now, it has become a new way of thinking when I encounter problems, in trouble. In the face of the exiled embarrassing situation, I did not get caught up in it, complaining about myself, but turning it into a new learning and growth opportunity, which became an opportunity for my next breakthrough.