Grow in failure

Growing up in failure <br /> Success is a kind of happiness, and success is what we dream of, but everyone who pursues success may encounter failure and fear of failure.
People are afraid of failure. In addition to worrying that failure will make themselves poor, they are more worried that failure will make them unable to lift their heads in front of others. Can we alleviate these two concerns?
First, due to business failure, some people may owe huge sums of money in a short period of time. If you earn money by working, he may need two years, three years, or even longer to pay off. So saving a failure may take a precious amount of time. On the other hand, as long as we are willing to spend time, then we can save the failure.
There is nothing to be afraid of failure, because we can use time to save. So as long as you are young, as long as you still have a lot of time, then you don't have to be afraid of failure.
Second, when you fail, do you feel that you have no face in front of your parents? Do you feel that you have no face in front of your brothers and sisters? Do you feel no face in front of your children? Generally it is not. At this point, you may feel that you have no face in front of the distant relatives, and you feel no face in front of your classmates and friends, especially in front of the enemy, and feel no face in front of those who wish to fail. Your parents, siblings, and children can often bring you a lot of things, but what can your distant relatives, classmates, and friends bring to you? Generally it can't bring you much benefit. Your enemies, those who want you to fail, can't bring you anything. When you fail, the people you are most worried about who may look down on yourself are actually the ones who are most irrelevant to themselves. People who don’t care about themselves are worthy of being lifted by them, not happy for them? You can completely ignore their existence, you can completely look down on them and look down on their evaluation.
When you fail, instead of paying attention to yourself and paying attention to your own face, it is better to despise others and despise those who are not important.
Third, we cannot deny wisdom and diligence, but we cannot deny opportunities and luck.

It is normal for people who are not smart, who are not diligent, to be richer than you, to be happy than you, because their luck is better than you.
Failure and poverty are sometimes not caused by your lack of cleverness or diligence, but by the fact that your luck is not good at this time.
Fourth, we may not be willing to accept and adapt to the poor life, and we will not be willing to accept the ridicule and contempt of others, but the reality forces us to do that.
Reality is sometimes cruel and painful, but it is also perfect, because reality will bring us endless power.
Only when we fail can we enjoy poverty and be able to accept the ridicule and contempt of others, because without the persecution of reality, we cannot erupt a strong courage and strength.
Only those who have failed can accept the failure, and then enjoy the poverty or fight again, but if you have not failed, but only fear, then often can not fully accept the failure.
Failure is not happiness, but it is not necessarily painful to encounter failure.