Yu Minhong: Don't look down on yourself

Yu Minhong: Don't look down on yourself <br />Everyone has an expectation for the future and a pursuit of future career, achievement and happiness. While looking forward to a better future, everyone should avoid looking down on themselves.
In the face of the future, we are the easiest to make two mistakes: one is that I will not have a big role in my life; the other is that others will not do anything. When I was at Peking University, I made the first mistake: I decided that I have basically no success in my life, because my parents are farmers, I am too ugly, no one can see me and so on. At the end of the day, I became very depressed and finally got a tuberculosis. Obviously, the first mistake can not be committed, the reason is very simple, the starting point of life is not allowed to choose, the family you are born in is not allowed to choose. But why do people have two legs? Just to let you run, is to let you run faster, as long as you keep running, you will run out of your own unexpected distance. So, everyone remembers that what we have to do is to start from now and start from our point of view. Therefore, although I was relatively inferior at first, I still believe that since I can fight from a peasant son to a Peking University student, I can fight from Peking University to a higher level. I believe that I can do it from the bottom of my heart. So I did it.
Some students said: "Mr. Yu, my school is quite general. Can you see if I can achieve something in the future?" You look at the Chinese entrepreneurs who are not successful in school: Zong Qinghou of the Wahaha Group Li Shufu of Geely Automobile Group did not go to college. After Zong Qing did not make the biggest beverage company in China? Li Shufu did not even make one of China's largest automobile groups. Geely Automobile has now acquired Volvo Cars. How do you say that they have such achievements? They rely on their own concentration, relying on their own efforts, relying on their own love, relying on their own love. Therefore, we like, love, and focus on what we have learned, the profession we are engaged in, and how many times you are more important than your degree.
Some students said that there is no resource around me. My classmates are the sons of the ministers. Next door is the daughter of the secretary of the municipal party committee. Another classmate said that this world and this society are really unfair. I don’t have anything else. If you look at the brand-name clothing he wears, I don’t have it. He uses an Apple computer. I don’t have it. He uses it. iPhone, I can't afford even a mobile phone. This is not something you can complain about, why? Because this society is not fair. You don't work hard, no one will be fair to you. Only if you work hard, have resources, and have the right to speak, you can fight for fair opportunities for yourself.
The second mistake is that you better not to commit. why? You will lose a business partner who may be working with you in the future. For example, if you see the classmates around you, you may feel that the last few in the class will basically not have a future, but it turns out to be the opposite. Peking University once conducted a survey on the top five students in the class and the last five students in the class after 20 years of graduation. The result of the survey was that the last five of the class were not inferior to the top five. The top five students in the class are generally professors or scientists. Of course, this is not a big deal, but many entrepreneurs, social activists, and even politicians are among the classmates who are not in the class. Therefore, you should not look down on the classmates in your class, especially those who have poor academic performance.
Therefore, in the face of the future, there are often two kinds of people: one is that he wants to make a difference, and he firmly believes that his future will make a difference; the other is that he does not believe that he will have it from the bottom of his heart. The person who is acting. What kind of person will succeed in the future? It must be a kind of person in front. why? The reason is simple, because how big your heart is, how far you can go. Wang Shi, a famous Chinese entrepreneur and Vanke Group, wants to climb the highest peak of the world, climb once, and want to climb for the second time. He knows that every conquest brings a new height to himself. People always want to be great artists, and they always want to be great careers, great entrepreneurs, and so on. However, why do some people do it, and some people fail to do it? It is because of the people who do it, he must believe from the bottom of his heart that he can do things in his life.

Life is like a flower that blooms all year round. Some flowers bloom in the spring, some flowers bloom in the summer, some flowers only bloom in the fall, and some flowers only bloom in the winter. Life struggle is a process of life. When I was 20, I talked about whether I had achieved something too early, and my life was a marathon that I could not see. We have to fight endurance and concentrate. In other words, how many gaps you have with other students now is completely trivial. What we have to do is to move forward from now on, not rushing, not looking at the goal, and letting our life and our goals shine together. When we look back, we feel that this life has been worth it. If you can feel this way, even if you haven't lived in your life.