How to learn to be your own master

How to learn to be your own master

The childhood of the famous American actress Sonia was spent in a dairy farm on the outskirts of Ottawa.

At that time she was studying in a small country near the farm. One day she returned home with tears and her father asked why. She said intermittently: "The classmates in the class said that I was ugly and said that my running posture was ugly."

The father did not speak after listening, just smiled. Suddenly my father said, "I can touch the ceiling of our house."

Sonia was amazed after listening. I didn't know what my father wanted to say. He stopped crying and asked: "What do you say?"

The father repeated it again: "I can touch the ceiling of our house."

Sonia looked up at the ceiling. Can the father touch the ceiling that is nearly 4 meters high? She didn't believe it. The father smiled and said proudly: "Do you not believe it? Then you don't believe what your classmates say, because some people say it is not true!"

Sonia understands that nothing can care too much about what others say and do what they want.

She was already famous when she was twenty-four. Once, she was going to a rally, but the agent told her that because of the bad weather, only a few people attended the rally, and the atmosphere at the venue was a bit cold. The agent means that Sonia, as a newcomer, should spend time on some large-scale activities to increase its reputation. Sonia insisted on attending the rally because she promised to participate in the press.

As a result, the gathering in the rain, with the participation of Sonia, gradually, more and more people in the square, her reputation and popularity soared.

Friends who are embarrassed on the road of life growth, please remember that you are your own, no one can replace, don't care too much about what others say, you have to take your own ideas! Be your own master!

Destiny is always in your own hands. The greatest learning in life is how to dominate your own destiny and be your own master. A person who can control his own destiny, that is, an independent person, can be called his own master. They have their own thoughts, and they have their own ability to distinguish. In the face of some things, they are clearly prioritized. Such people can often advocate a spirit of self-improvement and self-improvement.

Those who can't grasp their own destiny always have a weak component in their bones, and they are often influenced by old ideas. Ancient poetry cloud: not soaked by dust, bamboo huts are self-willing. A seclusion life that has been isolated from the world has long been aspired by many people. Some people praise and praise this kind of life, and regard such days as the highest realm of life. In fact, most people who hold this concept are unwilling to live, always have the content of complaints, forced by the helplessness of life, some misrepresentation of life concepts, and selfishness in their ideas. I think that if everyone has such a concept, such a negative life, society can not progress.

To be your own master, you must first pay attention to life and grasp the lifeblood of all safety. Only the existence of life will have the value of life. People are not only living for themselves, but to a great extent, they live for the surrounding environment. Everyone lives in a certain position, exists in society, affects society, and has a great influence. It shows the value of its existence. Taller. Only when you live a happy life can you engage in social activities with a positive attitude, and your life will shine, and will release its true value. If this aspect is not well grasped, the spiritual outlook of the people will not be able to get up, so how can we talk about beliefs and doctrines?

It is often said that the road is at your feet, see how you choose, how to go? No matter how many roads in the world, you have to choose on your own and go on your own. In the past, it was said that the birth can not help, the road can be chosen, that is, advocate, to be their own master, learn to change the environment in which they live, and take the path of their choice. This point, others can never be replaced.

To be your own master, you should be the master of destiny, master your own destiny, and not let yourself be placed by fate. It is often difficult for people to grasp their own destiny. When they are at a critical time, they cannot grasp the opportunity. When they take a crucial step, they always look forward to the future and hesitate. The fate is naturally not well grasped. Those who can't grasp their own destiny are like losing their backbone. At a critical time, they are always hesitant. They seem to be afraid of the tiger before they are afraid of the wolf. If you do that, you will only miss the opportunity. After all, I can't grasp my own destiny.

Therefore, we must learn to dominate our own destiny and be our own master. You can choose the path you want to go. As long as you live happily, why care about other people's eyes, why care about what others say?