Do what you like and like to do it yourself

Do what you like and like to do it yourself
To love what you do or to do what you love, that is a question. I always think that life is a false proposition, a paradox, such as the relationship between work and hobbies.
It has been half a year since I entered the Teacher's Committee of Qingdao New Oriental School. Because the teacher committee is responsible for the interview work of the whole school teachers, I can meet all kinds of interviewers. There are many English graduates and English teachers in some universities, but there are also a large part of them that are not English majors, such as clinical medicine, veterinary, mathematics... As long as they can appear in the university professional catalogue. The profession can appear in the interviewer's resume. Most non-English major interviewers are only particularly confident in certain aspects of English. In fact, they do not have solid professional skills and do not know how long they can last on the podium.
I often ask job seekers, do you like your profession? If you like, why come to New Oriental as an English teacher? If you don't like it, why did you choose to spend four or five years studying this major? What do you prefer to face your major and English? No matter how you answer it, it will not be perfect, because no matter how you answer it, it is contrary to the spirit of New Oriental: New Oriental emphasizes the value of dreams and the power of persistence.
There are probably two reasons why most applicants come to New Oriental: First, New Oriental can provide more competitive remuneration; Second, New Oriental is a leader in the education and training industry, young and energetic, and is a “realization”. The place of dreams." But the interviewer is usually only excited to say the second reason, no one is willing to admit the first point. Many people really took the pious heart and embraced the original intention of "realizing their dreams" to participate in the interview, but some people retreated in the face of cruel and necessary trials after entering the trial, and chose to give up and abandon. The original intention of the interview, choose another way out.
In fact, choosing a major after college graduation and choosing a major in the college entrance examination is the same. See if you compromise with the so-called "reality" or compromise with your dreams.
Perhaps it is futile to ask questions like hobbies and hobbies, because there are already too many people in today's society who have forgotten what they like to do and what their dreams are. "Hobbies" and "dreams" are the two words that are farthest from us in today's society. The so-called reality has opened up our distance from "hobbies" and "dreams". We ourselves are involuntarily lost in trivial life and forget the original dreams.
I thought of a person, my father. The father-in-law is already in his 60s, and his current life is very happy. I remember once, the father-in-law said happily to us that people can really enjoy life when they are 60 years old. The father-in-law is no longer working. It is very happy to say these words, but I feel very sad, or we are very sad. We actually mixed up to the point of 60 years old to enjoy life. So, before the age of 60? Is it all involuntary to do things before the age of 60? However, can people have a few 60 years?
Perhaps, in today's era, it is a luxury to be able to do what you love. Because before leaving the school, the teachers in the school employment office told the graduates to "employ first, then choose careers"; after work, our predecessors also constantly told us to "do a line of love, to love what you do." But if you don't love, how do you get the job done? If this job can't bring a sense of accomplishment to yourself, how can we love it? However, there are still quite a few Do what they don't love.
There is only one reason to do what you like to do: because you like it. But there is also a reason to do work that you don't like to do: to live. But I don't know, most of us have been "hidden rules" of life.
Under the conditions of the times and reality, some people can follow the trend to do what they like to do and achieve something, at least to get inner happiness and satisfaction. However, there are also many people who have given up their dreams and drifted with them. The dreams of the past have only been left as memories of sitting in a rocking chair after they are old. The saddest thing is that I don’t know what I like. After graduating a few years ago, when the class reunion, I often heard a female classmate said with emotion: "Hey, I am like this!" Then I will marry my life. Young, as I naturally don't know what is the true meaning of life, but I can understand how hard it is to be persistent.
After working for a few years, I gradually realized that people's work has three different realms: the first one: Do what you love and love what you do, this is probably the happiest, freest and most handsome person in the world. Such people are full of enthusiasm for their dreams, have a strong inner heart, and strive to realize their dreams, such as Bill? Gates, such as Li Yanhong; second: Love what you do even though you don't know whether you love it or not. This kind of person does not feel great happiness, but at least because of love, there is persistence, because Persistence and achievement, because of the achievements and even happiness, but occasionally regret it; the third: Do what you don't love, this is probably the most unfortunate kind of people in the world. Which one do you belong to?
It is said that Alibaba has such a rule that employees who have entered the company for less than two years are advised not to give advice to the company on the grounds that your opinion is one-sided. As a graduate of a newcomer, it is best to know your goals and your ideals when you first enter the workplace. But if it is really a boat in Wang Yang's workplace, you have reason to be confused for a while, you can temporarily not know what you are good at, and you don't know what kind of work you really like. But after a while, you must have a clear goal for your career. Because the work is always swaying, the heart must be uncertain. This feeling is very tangled.
Some people always feel that they can do what they like to do, and some people can think of it and act immediately. Some people have to save enough for 1 million yuan to travel around the world, but some people can travel to 18 countries for 40,000 yuan. There are too many people who think that the distance between dreams and reality is too far away, but how far this distance actually varies from person to person. If you think that your dreams and reality are out of reach, it is because your dreams are not strong enough, and your desire to realize your dreams is not strong enough.
Can you have a dream? Have you ever been obsessed with ignorance for your dreams?