attitude decides everything

attitude decides everything

There was a child who accidentally touched the table and cried. After the Chinese mother saw it, the first action was to reach out and play the table, then lick the child: "Hey! Don't cry!". This is not the case with Japanese mothers. She will ask the child to go around the table again and then inspire him: "The reason why people will hit the table is that there are three kinds of situations. First, you run too fast and can't stop; I don't pay attention to seeing the road; the third is that you are thinking about something else. What kind of situation did you just belong to?"

The table is dead, it will not take the initiative to hit people, so people will hit the table, it is the fault of the person, not the fault of the table. When Chinese mothers reach out to play the table, it is equal to educating the children. It is the fault of the table. It is not your fault. Children who grow up under such education will first shirk their responsibilities and try their best to find reasons for excusing themselves. A mind is trying to pick someone else's fault. The Japanese mother’s approach is to educate the child to be brave enough to take on his responsibilities, rather than to blame others. Children who have grown up under such education always review their own deficiencies first.

In fact, there are very few things that can thoroughly distinguish who is right and who is wrong. Often, everyone is wrong. The difference is that there are fewer mistakes. If every party can take on one's own responsibility and seriously review their own deficiencies, what else can't be solved?

The same is true between departments and departments. When others point out the shortcomings to us, the first thing is not to refute and argue, but to conduct a review first. It is indeed wrong, and it will be changed immediately. It is indeed correct, and it is also a warning to pay more attention.

attitude decides everything. The same thing, different attitudes, the results are different. Therefore, in order to do things well, you must first correct your attitude.