Three things in success

Three things in success

A successful life is to do three things: read a book, learn a craft, and build a happy family. - This is what a social scientist in the United States said when I was 15 years old. With the increase of age and the deepening of experience, I feel that this is true life! What is missing is a regrettable life.

Read through a book. It refers to outstanding literary classics such as "Dream of Red Mansions", "Les Miserables", "Human Comedy", "Bible", "Tao Jing", "The Analects of Confucius" and the philosophical works of Nietzsche, Russell, Maslow, and Schopenhauer. Freud's psychology, reading such a book, does not say that you can understand the world, at least understand the society, understand others, understand yourself. Can stand on the earth and look down on the earth. Through the appearance of distinguishing between truth, goodness and beauty, falsehood and ugliness, knowing the complexity of society, life is not easy, knowing what to cherish in a short life, how to live and live clearly.

Learn a craft. Life is a life, it should be useful to society and others.

"Everyone is for me, I am for everyone." Why do you "be a human"? You have to learn a craft, that is, master a skill. This skill refers not only to traditional crafts, but also to the various technologies and marketing and management capabilities required by emerging industries. In short, it is a speciality, a ability or ability, it is useful to society, to others, "useful", you can stand in this world.

Regardless of how technology advances and how society develops, craftsmen are always indispensable. Craftsmanship, although not able to make a fortune, can raise a family and live in peace. There are fewer and fewer iron rice bowls, and public office is unreliable. Even if you hold an iron rice bowl, the art of learning is not superfluous, "I don't want to press it." Now, if you can repair your computer or mobile phone, you can not only help yourself but also help others. "Helping others as help", you usually help others, when you have difficulties, people will come to help you.

Build a happy family. People are essentially selfish group animals. In order to stand in the group, it is inevitable to fight and fight. It is inevitable that you will be injured in the battle. You will be injured, healed, and only go home.

People are social animals. In order to survive in society, we must suppress the selfish, greedy, lazy and evil side of our nature; publicize the side of grandfather, hard work, and dedication. Even awkwardly aunts greet and smirk compliments. Therefore, to a certain extent, people show the body to the outside world, and the activities in society are wearing masks in acting. The acting is very tired. After a day of acting, I have to remove makeup and rest, only to go home.

To this end, the home is a gas station, the home is a safe haven, and the home is a place for healing. The warm home has such a function, in order to make the boat repaired, add enough oil, meet the sun every day, Pengqi sail, to ride the wind and waves.

Think about the great people in the distance, look at the acquaintances around, how many people can accomplish these three things, is it a successful life? It is really not easy to think about it. The same book, read at different times, always has different understandings and different understandings. Any craft, with the development of society and the advancement of science and technology, needs constant learning and improvement, often living old, learning old, and not learning fine. It is more difficult for a family to build. It is a matter for two people. Not only does it require self-effort, but it also requires a spouse.

Reading, learning, and family all need to work hard for a lifetime, and they are expected to live a successful life. Fortunately, come to Japan, we will work together.