No matter how good the work is, there are 400 times to resign.

No matter how good the work is, there are 400 times to resign. <br /> Even the best marriage will have 200 times to divorce, and even the best job has 400 times to resign.
The recent work is very busy, and it is said that it has become very busy since I changed my job. There are not many difficulties encountered, but there are many internal battles. Every time I encountered a battle, I was indignant and wanted to resign. I was angrily told how the current work was not satisfactory, but after all, I did not write a resignation letter.
In fact, there is no job that will make us completely satisfied. Even if we turn our hobby into a job, we will encounter many difficulties and cause pain. Because the wages paid are not for the remuneration of repeating simple labor, but for resolving difficult rewards. The problems that are constantly occurring, and the ways to solve them, allow us to grow and let the amount of wages continue to grow. Sometimes I feel that if there is nothing big today, there is no big problem, I need to call, find a way, and negotiate. It will be easier to spend today, but after two or three days, I feel uneasy. I feel particularly sorry for the company’s salary paid to it. This kind of owed thoughts don't know where it came from, it is self-abuse.
Just going to work will encounter many difficulties, such as low wages, unable to survive; rents are too high, can not find the best price/performance ratio; the boss is too strict, as if he can never go with himself; colleagues are indifferent, see who is snobbery. So, when we come out from a friendly university environment that can use towels, use cups to drink water, and wear other people's clothes, we will feel strange and panic from the bones. So everyone envied those who lived in the comfort of their own lives, thinking that if they switched to his kind of industry and company, would they be able to live on such a day, comfortable, more money, no big troubles.
A few days ago, a netizen wrote a paragraph to me, generally commenting on the attitude of the current people towards hardship and gain. She used a very vivid example: When a small company is set up and wants you to join, most people feel that there is no prospective salary and it is more difficult to grow up with the startup; they do not want to accompany a small company. In the midst of difficulties, we are constantly advancing, just want to wait for the moment when the small company is flying to the market. However, they do not want to wait for small companies to become big companies, dislike rules, small space, many levels, colleagues are cold, all kinds of unhappy and unwilling. What do people want now? I am afraid they do not know it.
This metaphor is very vivid, and we all have such awkward thoughts in our hearts. I don't want to go to suffer, there is always a chance of luck. I always feel that the other company with good treatment can be lucky enough to leak into it. After that, I will be able to get what I want. Is this really true?

A few days ago, Winter told me that her application to HKU was rejected. I said why? She said that her IELTS is too low. Most of the admissions from the University of Hong Kong have no working background, but the English is good, she happens to have a bad English but a working background. However, if Winter does not use English, but enters with a background of one and a half years, I am afraid it will be more painful. The working background is a soft condition. It is difficult to measure by standard. However, English is a real thing. It is not bad to hear or write. If there is a little Weak, how do you face the English teaching of HKU, how to express your own views, and how to understand the professor's curriculum? I am afraid this is the most terrible consequence. I talked to Winter about my concerns, and she started to feel comfortable, not so angry or sad.
Sometimes I think that I have been working for three and a half years, and I still feel panic about many things in the industry. Especially in such a very node time of three and a half years, when the ideal and the dream slowly become a single point of wages, it will be obvious that the realization of this ideal is slow, the most primitive inside. The courage and determination to impulsive and overcome difficulties are slowly weakening. Many colleagues of the same age also frequently complain about job-hopping. Sometimes I wonder, can job-hopping really solve the problem?
Or Winter, she said: "Someone told me yesterday that the customer group of the company I was in before was generally a substitution of By campaign. I changed it in three months. As a result, I stayed for 15 months. I did 7 campaigns, I really appreciate the job." In the 15 months, she worked overtime until midnight, rarely going home before 2 o'clock, she was working overtime or sleeping on weekends, in a little mad In the Taiwanese-funded company, with a very low salary, living in the city with the highest price in China. I at least advised her to change jobs 10 times and also to help her deliver resumes, but she has been squatting until now. She has switched jobs once, and now her salary is twice that of last year. This double is the difficulty and problem-solving ability she needs to take in her new job, and she is not the simple labor for her to repeat the past. . She summed up her words with her one and a half years of experience:
"You can't say that after 1-2 years of work, AE should be SAE. Rather, do you have any of these gains, whether you have these experiences, or whether you noticed at work that title is not completely proportional to the age. You You can use your heart to speed up this scale factor, or you can delay your youth and time."
In other words, the most crucial thing for any job is not what to do, not to work purely, but what to learn from it, to extract what is useful for your future, and to be able to shape your future more valuable.
Such a journey will be very hard, encountering many difficulties, there will be many disputes and nights that will not sleep all night; we will not have tender drops, there will be dark circles and bags under the eyes; we will have many times to resign, you will There have been many indignations. However, if we want an ordinary and ordinary life, we are destined not to endure such tempering; and if we want an extraordinary experience, we have to go through hard work. The bitterness of those who have eaten, the tiredness that has been suffered, the embarrassment that has been smashed, and the return of one day will come back. On that day, one day, we will see respect and admiration from many people. This is the fairest reward.