You think that you are working hard, but you haven’t even worked hard.

You think that you are working very hard. In fact, even if you don't even work hard , you will be a long-distance running. It is just a long-distance running without an opponent. If there is an opponent, it is only you. In this process, you only need to pay attention to yourself. The progress can be. How much is paid for how much you pay, and do your best to do the things in your hands. When you are tired and want to steal a lazy, tell yourself: You think that you are working hard, but you don’t even see the hard side.
1. Even if life is a long-distance running, you only need to pay attention to your own progress. <br /> In the past, I heard people say that life is a long-distance running, not winning or losing at a moment. A long time ago, I thought this view was very objective. Yes, so many opponents, not necessarily when and who is ahead of you, won the last one to win.
Now I think that this sentence is also very problematic.
Although the process of life is full of competition, its purpose is definitely not competition. We study hard, work hard, and constantly enrich and improve ourselves. The ultimate goal should not be to surpass others, but to achieve the requirements of self-realization in our hearts. You like to do this job, you are willing to do it, then spend more time and energy, how much is worth it, how much gain is finally ushered in, and there is a scale in your heart; you don’t like it very much, consider the importance of it, and invest the corresponding energy. Time, how many achievements in the end, is also caused by cause and effect, completely do not have to compare with others.
People have advantages and disadvantages. You don't have to be complacent about who you are stronger than that person in that matter. You don't have to be self-sufficient because you are half a step on something. Take care of yourself. How is the human energy limited, and how great is the difference in talents? If you can discard the fine details, it is difficult to grasp the most critical points; if you can get rid of the competitive mentality, you can only use the genius and the corresponding diligence to deal with it. It is valuable.
Many times, everyone complains about it, more because they don't want to understand what they want and what they don't want. Even if life is a long-distance running, it is just a long-distance running without an opponent. If there is an opponent, it is only you. In this process, you only need to pay attention to your own progress.
2, no pay, no gain
In my life experience that is not too long, the pursuit of "shortcuts" by many ordinary people in contemporary Chinese society is really difficult for me to agree.
From escaping tickets, squadrons, which are small and cheap, to those who are unwilling to register early, and the hospital number is difficult to hang, from the moment of eternal examination to the shackles of the shackles, to the anticipation of the antique market, all these kinds of things are said to be Small Boda, even for nothing.
In any situation I can imagine, the hard work we pay and the substantial gains we receive are closely related. Maybe the ratio of the two is different, but this is more because we are at different levels of the interest chain. When we are still at very low levels, we start to fantasize about the very low cost to get great benefits, which is really ridiculous.
At the age of twelve, I hope that finding a job will allow me to earn enough money before I am 30, then retire at the age of 30, and then spend money every day. After I have been in middle school for a few years, I understand how silly this desire is. Now, I think that I have found a job that I like, and I have been working hard on this job until one side of my work and I no longer need another party. This is extremely happy, and the necessary exchange in the middle. Money and fame are just accessories, and in most cases these things cannot be taken into account with your interests and time. On the other hand, when a child comes up, he wants to find a job that is easy, profitable, respected, and likes, and then relaxed for a lifetime. This is actually very nonsense.
It's very simple, how much is paid for how much, and the truth is irrefutable, at least for me.
3, group and self-identity <br /> This thing has long been said, my middle school is the highest number of students in the middle school of Shaanxi Province in the middle school in North China, and the time is from time to time. When I was in high school, I often felt self-expanding because of this kind of data. I felt that I was a member of this school, so I was especially good at watching other students in the school.
When I went to college, I immediately understood that my middle school was like a clown.
I must admit that there are advantages and disadvantages between groups and groups, but the root cause of a group is the individual. The reason why a university is outstanding is because there are masters or masters. It is assumed that a famous university generation or even a few generations will no longer be masters. They will no longer be leaders. The so-called famous brands are already strong, and even they are only used by the descendants as capital to show off. Sway.
We are always used to marking ourselves with relatively good groups. It seems to be a certain kind of identity. From the middle school to the university, it seems that with this group identity, it becomes very safe and quality assurance. It seems that as long as this group goes out, I must be skilled in the business. In fact, the cause and effect are reversed. You can get into this group at first, because you first worked hard, improved, and jumped into a relatively good group when the stage changed. If you indulge, you will start to decaden. Even if you are tagged, it is only a defective product. .
For those who always work hard, I respect them very much. I don't think these people care about what label they are being tagged, but just care about their efforts. As long as you don't stop, you will continue to grow bigger and stronger. If one day, the current group can't accommodate themselves, and can't provide enough broad stage for themselves, it doesn't matter, they will enter a new and better group.
These people do not value the identity of the group and only need to identify with their own efforts.
4, no one is reeling, just to be an elite <br /> At the beginning, like many Concord eight-year students, I don’t like the school’s training plan that we should cultivate us into an elite. It is too inconsistent with the actual teaching situation, and in a place like China that advocates the middle, the flag clearly shouts that the elite is easily hated and attacked, and the guns are shot. For a long time, I think so. But until the recent emergence of silk culture, more and more people began to argue that they are reeling, I think it is necessary to mention the word of the elite.
A person, no matter how clever he is, as long as he is practical and hard-working, he can do his job to the best he can do. In my opinion, it is an elite. The ramen masters in the "China on the tip of the tongue" and the old man who is a beggar, they love their work and earnestly do their best. They are elites. In this sense, no one should be reeling. Maybe you will say that this is a joke for everyone, and I still have to work hard. I also hope that is the case. What I am afraid of is that everyone affects you and says that you are swearing. He said that he is incompetent. I said that I am second. In the end, I am giving reasons for slacking. It seems that because of any congenital deficiency, it is justified.
This sincerity is nonsense. Boldly, I want to do the best thing I can do in my hands. Is it difficult? Will you feel very fake and very forced?
I won't, I just want to do my best to do the things in my hand. If this is the performance of the elite, then I will be an elite!

Finally, I used a sentence that I liked for a long time but I don’t know where it came from. At the end of the sentence, every time I get tired and want to steal a lazy, I can see this sentence for a year and a half.
I used to think that I worked very hard. In fact, I didn't even see the side of my efforts.
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