Don't take someone else's map and find your own way

Don't take someone else's map, find your own way <br />Take your own questions and ask people everywhere, get sick and go to the doctor, take someone else's prescription to cure your illness, just like taking a finger to someone else's home. The map is as ridiculous as finding the way to go home.
I remember that when I was young, I have rarely asked others if I have a major problem in my life. Try to find the answer yourself, because the answers given by others are not necessarily effective for your own problems, so in addition to thinking, research, observation, and experimentation, I also read a lot of books and searched the Internet to make myself the only problem. Answerer.
When I became a writer and teacher, I was surrounded by hundreds of questions every day. The questions included: Should I go to postgraduate study or go to work? Should I choose to be in my hometown or a big city? Do I have to choose the music I like to work, or do I go to the lawyer if I listen to my parents? Should I choose 娶A or 娶B? I have to take a test of advertising tomorrow. Which books should I read? How can I make myself successful? How do I read a book a day? ......
There are only one kind of problem that all kinds of problems come down to: they don't believe that they can decide their own life 100%. Make a decision for yourself, because parents and teachers help them set their lives and life direction. Once they grow up and find that they can make decisions, they start to fear that their decisions will be wrong and hurt. Will fail, so take your own questions and ask people everywhere, go to the doctors and go to the doctor's prescription to take care of your illness, just like taking the map pointing to someone else's home is as ridiculous as finding your way home. .

What impressed me the most was after a university lecture. A student rushed to ask me: "Teacher, I am going to Paris next month. Can you tell me what you think of Paris?" I remember when I looked at her with an unbelievable expression. "Oh my God, this is the first time you have been to Paris. How can you give me your first definition of Paris? You have the broadest and first definition of Paris, this is you. Life-specific, should not let any other people's views block between you and Paris!"
As I mentioned in the book "The Tenth Quantum Creative Class": There are countless people who have raised such questions. It seems that everyone thinks of me as a live search engine, including "I am going to India next week. Can you recommend me where to go? Which airline should I take? Where should I live?" I only find it very strange. Now that the Internet information is so developed, why not check it online and compare it? Think of the process of finding data as part of the trip? Instead of listening to the opinions of others even the details of the journey, eating, drinking and living follow my footsteps, and your journey is no different from mine.
"Creativity" is an attitude, an attitude of active, active, independent, and full responsibility for life. "Creativity" is not a certain kind of industry, a certain occupation or an environment. Don't be an "old and others have ready answers." "The person, like "the old medicine, but not the way to improve the body", for a long time, they have lost their self-healing power. I am a person who does not like to give people a ready answer, because my problems can only be solved by myself, and all the answers are hidden in the problem. Of course, I also hope that readers and students are also the initiative to explore their own answers. If I give the answer easily, I will deprive them of the fun of exploration - this includes making a book with me.
If I want to sign a motto reader in the book, if the time permits, I will bitterly say to them: "Your book must be found by yourself, because only you know best. What is your main specialty, your interest is What, where is your life going to develop? You have to start reading from the first book of interest, and then read the next book from this book... you have to have your own book classification system. Like you can't move a bunch of furniture that is not suitable for your home style, you have to know your own physique and order for yourself, instead of eating something recommended by others."
Don't be a beggar who has opinions or ready answers. Please be a pioneer and pioneer of your own life. Please explore the upstream of your knowledge and wisdom. So you can take a different first step from the very beginning for your own life.