Survival forced me to succeed

Survival forced me to succeed <br /> Wen / Qiu Luwei usually have two kinds of people to succeed, one is to regard success as a pursuit, the other is forced to survive, unsuccessful to become a benevolence. The rest of the people can only live for a lifetime.
Until now, I feel that survival is the first thing a person must face.
Most people, like me, don't have a rich father, so after graduating from college, they need to find a job. The first is to be able to support yourself.
After getting married, most people, like me, did not find a husband who had a wealthy family. The two wage earners joined together and began to plan for their own small days. To buy a house, with children, you have to plan for your child to go to school... The life of most people is like this. The same is true of my life.
I still remember the days when I first arrived in Shenzhen. During that time, I really understood what it means to survive.
Because of my mother's relationship, after I graduated from college, I went to Shenzhen, gave up my job at a foreign company, and helped my mother's company. The so-called company is actually the kind of leather bag company. My mother and some of her relatives who came to Shenzhen with a rich dream, can be regarded as employees of her company. In a private house in Shenzhen, they are busy every day, meeting people of all kinds. In the words of the mother, the business came out like this and talked about it.
My mother disappeared in my life when I was four years old, and then suddenly appeared in front of my eyes when I was eighteen. For me in my teenage years, my mother is a mysterious and intimate figure in my imagination. So when she said, I hope that when I graduated from university, I can go to Shenzhen to help, I did not hesitate to go.
I remember that my father didn’t say anything at the time. He always did. Whenever I decided to do something, he always said nothing, even after I met him in front of him. He still said nothing.
I still remember that summer, I carried a box and came to the place where my mother was both an office and a residence. My mother’s first words are, how do you dress so badly. That day, I wore a simple white shirt and a long floral skirt. My mother always suspects that I am not beautiful, because in her eyes, it is difficult for me to find a rich boyfriend. The mother who looks very young told me that in front of outsiders, don’t say that I am her daughter. In this year, a woman has to do business, to mix here, not to let people know the age, not to let people know the marriage. The situation will be more cost effective.
At that time, I sincerely thought, this mother who has never lived with me, how difficult days she has experienced, I should help her. So I promised.
The following days slowly made me begin to understand the hardships of life. Opposite my house are the collective quarters of migrant workers from Hunan. Every day when I go to dinner, I will see that many of them are holding a bowl of white rice, and they are eating with a bottle of chili sauce.
And our life is not rich. I found out that my mother does whatever business, as long as she can make money, even if it is only a little bit. Although she invites others to eat, she always rushes to pay the bill, but at home, every meal always saves only one vegetarian dish, one amaranth.
But my mother is the kind of person who is as bold as a millionaire in front of others even if he only has two dollars in his pocket. Until now, she has been living in this way.
My mother often disappears for a while, so the landlord will ask me for rent. Her relatives have to cook every day. One day, there were only two dollars left in my pocket. Looking at them, looking at this place, I really wanted to cry. Because I don't know how to live tomorrow after the two dollars are used up.
When my mother disappears, I have to make money to support this family, and also support myself. By the relationship of my classmates, I received a single gift business. I still remember that I and my classmates went to other people's factories to negotiate with others. However, they quickly saw through my bottom price, and the contract was a bit sloppy. However, it’s a bit of money to earn, and my heart is already very satisfying.
Another time, my mother didn't know where to pull a hundred boxes of drinks from the northeast to Shenzhen. And she did not know where to go. I was in a hurry to find a warehouse to store these drinks, but began to worry about storage costs.
In the face of this huge pile, I have never heard of the name of the drink. Together with my classmates, I pushed my bicycle and started selling at a store.
Asking people is really a matter of courage, to face the unrequited rejection of others, or the kind of reluctance to take care of it. Now, in retrospect, it’s okay at that time, just out of school, but able to bear these Something, if it is now, I really can't imagine myself, can't do something like that at that time.
As a result, in the hot weather, one afternoon it was still raining, our bicycle fell to the ground, and a box of drinks fell from the back seat. At that time, I felt a desperate moment and felt that I could not do anything. I know that my classmate had the same feelings as me at the time.
Fortunately, our weakness only lasted for a short time. I remember that we helped our bicycles and continued to sell our drinks.
Finally, I remember that finally a good-hearted person was touched by us, so we made a little money and could solve the livelihood problem of a large group of people for a month.
This kind of day lasted for a few months, and soon I found out that my mother and I really had a big difference in the values ​​of life and the way we live.
My mother always gives me some examples of young girls around her. Who and who married a rich old man, who married a Hong Kong businessman, or who and who made a mistress, and how much property she obtained.
In my mother's eyes, money is the most important thing. Don't go too far with money, because there is only enough money to survive.
But I don't think so. I think that if you really fall in love with someone, that person is very rich, it is also a good thing, but if it is just for money, it is not worth it.
We fell out, and I broke off with her since then, but for me at the time, I have no way to return to Shanghai, so I have to start from scratch in Shenzhen.
In order to live, I have done any work in the first few months. Hotel waiters, warehouse managers, and state-owned companies are busy with the boss secretary who has nothing to do every day. The main reason for changing jobs is the wage problem, because renting a house is necessary to cope with daily expenses. Therefore, at that time, the primary criterion for choosing a job is whether the salary is high. Until then, with the recommendation of a friend, I entered an international accounting firm, and my life has regained my track.
The reason why I say this is because if I didn't choose to come to Shenzhen and didn't follow my mother, I would, like many of my classmates, have a good performance in foreign companies in a few months. Sometimes, I feel that I seem to have wasted half a year. But now, in retrospect, I really want to thank my mother, thank you for the days in Shenzhen.
Because during this time, I have seen how many people who are struggling at the bottom of life live, I have also come across a variety of people, they are doing different things, some people are following the rules, slowly looking for opportunities, some People use illegitimate methods and hope to make the most money in the shortest possible time. But their initial starting point is the same, in order to survive.
In this period, I also experienced it. In many cases, in order to survive, we must have enough courage and tenacity to face the people and things in this society.
My classmate, after we stayed together in Shenzhen for a month, he returned to a remote county in his hometown of Hunan. He said that his ideal is to work in the TV station. After that, I heard that he is in the county. The TV station hosts children's programs. Later we lost contact.
Eight years later, when we saw you in Beijing, he was already a director of Zhuhai TV, and I became a reporter for Phoenix TV. He told me that he spent five years walking from the county town to the provincial TV station, and then went to Zhuhai alone, from a non-staff to become the official staff of the TV station. He said that during the days in Shenzhen, he taught him how to encourage himself to go on in difficult times.